how to propose a girl

India
June 30, 2010 9:49am CST
Hai, friends i am loving a girl for about 6 months. we see each other at a bus stop. i have talked to her but i haven't approached her with the topic of love.she is from a good family. she is a shy girl and doesn't talk to lot. but i think she likes me. i asked mobile number but she said she doesn't have one.now i don't think i have any other way than approaching her straight. please tell me some ways so that i can propose her .
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26 responses
• United States
30 Jun 10
Try asking her out on a date. Ask her if she would like to join you for coffee or dinner one day. Make sure you choose some where you can talk but don't make it secluded where she would feel threatened. Until you have had a chance to have some meaningful conversation with this person there is no reason to discuss love, because there is no way that you can truely be in love with her unless you know more about her. Right now you are simply attracted to what you see and what little you know about her.
• India
1 Jul 10
date is really a nice idea. i have behind her for more than 6 months and i think i know a lot about her likes and dislikes. would this be the right time if i chose to propose her ? will she think that i am taking advantage over her?
• United States
1 Jul 10
A proposal may sound a little forward if you have never asked her out before. But this may be a difference in our customs also. If your customs allow for a proposal before dating then I would certain say you need to talk to her family and express your intentions before directly asking her.
• United States
30 Jun 10
Maybe her facebook or e-mail address.Ask her out for a movie...Or try to lend or borrow from her
• China
1 Jul 10
Those are old types. You may give some fashionable suggestions.
@xiangd (63)
• China
1 Jul 10
I think I have no qualification to advice to you ,because so far I have not propose a girl formally though i'm 30 years now.HAHA! I'm sure that you and her are fall in love at first sight. Congratulations,to be honest ,I envy you ,you are fortunatly,in my circumstance, if you want to love someone and wanna to marry with her/him,you must think over and over,you should think her appearance ,charactor,job,family even hobby. But that's not the reason why I haven't fall in love girl so far.I think the charactor is most important if you want to marry with a girl,and it should take some time to know each other,but on the other hand,I also believe that the love of first sight like you, I think it's the best beginning to know each other. So go on ,keep loving ,friend,you will be suuceessful!Good luck!
@aguas_aj (498)
• Philippines
30 Jun 10
Do it in an old fashioned type. Most of the men now a days, like it to be shortcut, that's why they court or ask women out through text. Wouldn't it be more sincere if you'd do it personally. Start it with asking her out in a date or dinner. or walk her to home.Things like that. Ask her where she lives and that you'd like to visit her and meet the parents. It would be more "gentleman" look and sincere to her
• India
1 Jul 10
thanks buddy , i think i will try this. i have visited her at her college a few times but not at home. nor have i met her parents.
• India
2 Jul 10
Hello shiva welcome to mylot Well you have received a lot of responses all ready, read them well, take a decision and propose soon, hurry up.. May god bless you.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Professor
• Romania
2 Jul 10
Don't be shy a girl expects that the guy makes the first move,next time you see her just bee yourself and ask her out you will be surprised of her answer im sure of that Good luck !
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
For me get the telephone number or else know how they work and there house and visit her so that you know her background and friends only at first.
@chetanvk (211)
• India
1 Jul 10
Impress her in such a way that she starts liking you and I am sure she will propose you one day instead of you proposing her. Trust me this will help you a lot.
• India
1 Jul 10
Propose to a girl - Get down on your knees in a traditional way.
Since you know the girl for past 6 months by now, you must know her well. You must know her likes and dislikes. Does she like being with you? Does she miss you when you are not around? Does she like being seen with you in public? Have you met her parents? If yes then you must also know how they react. Do they approve your friendship with the girl? Did you try giving her a gift in the past, such a flower or a small present? Did she accept it happily? Have you discussed with her to know her ideas about marriage, and raising a family. If you have done all this then your sixth sense will tell you whether you should propose to her or not. Choose a right time and a place. Create a romantic environment. Sit in front of her and hold her hand gently. Rub her palm with your thumb. Look little pensive and hesitant. If she does not take her hand away, allow you to hold it, and then look into her eyes. Bring as much gentleness as you can summon. Let there be sincerity in your eyes. She would know what you are going to utter. Create little suspense. If she were expecting you to say this today, she would seem impatient. Take your time. Do not be in a hurry. Then whisper the magic words, "Will...you...marry...me"? These moments she would cherish forever; she would love you even more for this. Wish you good luck!
@june2001 (15)
• China
1 Jul 10
hi shivasai ,you kown the girl is very shy,so i think you should not straightly tell her you ture feel. in high school ,i met my first girlfriend, seem to you, i did not kown how to approach to her. when we stayed together, i'm very nervous,but i try my best talking to her on some interesting topics.About past 3 months, we made the first date in a cafe, then i told her that"i like her and want to stay with her every second"! 101 there is no doubt i have been succeed !
• India
1 Jul 10
first of all what you have to do is confirm her liking.avoid to talk to her on single day and check if she approaches to you to talk to you or not.check her facial expression.As you have said that u thing she likes you her facial expression will definitely change.direct hit might not work as she is shy and can refuse.this process should begin with patience.first you have to show her that you care for her.listen her with keen and show that you are interested to listen to her no matter about what she is talking.soon she will get attached to you.you know what my girl friend asked my phone no. and that day i was confirmed that she likes me..something like this might happen to you..she will show that she likes you and you have to judge it.you might play tricks show her that you are having headache and check her expressions.you have grab her feelings about you.and finally when you get confirmed that she likes you tell her that you love her and can't live without her and she is everything to you..and finally she will be you's..and please don't hesitate otherwise you will repent your whole life.good luck!!
• China
1 Jul 10
The reason I wanna repond to this topic is that I met the same question with you. I met this girl on the way to work and back. In my eyes, she is silent, cute and lively. And what is different to you is that I haven't talk to her yet. I wanna make the first step but am afraid of scaring her. Feel so ambivalent these days.
@paragt (10)
• India
1 Jul 10
Be a Man, Go Directly and say what you feel about her.. wish you luck. cheers
@paragt (10)
• India
1 Jul 10
Hi, Do only thing...go to her and propose har directly. don't waiste you time. I am sure, you will get successes. cheers
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
Try asking their home number and have a little chit chat. That would give the gurl the idea that u like her. Also after you get to know her try asking her on a date and take her out. Just be casual and don't rush things. Good Luck! :)
@baban88 (103)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
I think you should try to know her more before telling her that you feel so, I know for sure she already know you're interested to her and thats it that is all I may suggest to you. girls like to talk about there self try asking her stuff bout her.=]
@baban88 (103)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
I think you should try asking things about her girls like talking about there self and stuff but i can't be of sure if it'll work for you still theres nothings wrong of trying, get to know the girl first and the rest will follow. . .=]
@markphil (285)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
Even you think she likes you a girl is hard to take the first step it is always the guy who will make it. You should propose in a way that she will feel decently that you love her without purpose. For example, ask her for a date, she will have the hint why you are asking that then you are lucky enough if she asked you why you did that and that will be your chance to tell how much you love her.
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
Know more about her... Find a common ground, an interest you both have and start from there..... A letter of admiration(yes, don't bring in the word love yet) or poetry ain't bad specially since you said she is a shy one. Don't rush, cause if you like her. you can muster up the patience. Don't give big gifts, give her something of what your own hands can do..not because you're a cheapskate but because you've been more creative enough after meeting her. Know her friends and what they like and what they do together. Don't ever ever ever shadow her or give ideas that you are limiting her space or something like that.... LOVE is LOVE....no boundaries....no differences....just pure....naive....innocent....product of an...... important and strongest muscle of the body which is divided into 4 chambers.......which is the heart.....the last part....just kidding....
@rosebinas (180)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
The next time you meet or see her, make an eye contact. And make it a habit to do that. Try your best to let your feelings reflect in your eyes- without saying too many words. I am sure she will get conscious and would start noticing you. Then, befriend her and learn more about her likes and dislikes- discreetly. Send her sweet notes, give her a pink or red rose. Just one flower at a time will perfectly do. Then... if you see a hint of tenderness on her face, ask her to dinner somewhere crowded and yes- so as not to make her feel threatened. And, as she is from a good family, watch your manners. The rest will follow. Good luck! I know it's gonna be fun.