do you still remember the moments with your ex-boyfriend?

Philippines
July 2, 2010 1:48pm CST
I wonder why there are some people who still try to reminisce the moments with their ex-lover. One of the reason why they find it hard to forget what was happened before. I dont know why it should be like that. How can the other party can move on if the other one will still reminisce the moments that was happened before. I know its hard to do this especially if you are the one who reminisce it, but, what to do in order to move on and forget. How about you, do you still remember the moments with your ex-boyfriend?
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10 responses
• United States
2 Jul 10
I do remember moments with my ex just because that is still apart of me. I am not saying I treasure those moments but you might have experienced something with your ex that was special at that time. Just because you move on doesn't mean that all the memories are gone.
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• Philippines
2 Jul 10
Hello Flirtykumquat, You are right. Moving on from the past relationship does not mean memories were gone.
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 10
There are certain things in life that does not go out of your mind....the more you try to forget it the more you remember. So its better never even bring a thought about it. I do remember the oments with my ex girlfriend. But i dont allow my past to rule my future. Past is an experience learn to better on that.
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• Sweden
3 Jul 10
Yeah thats how you should reason about it, but its damn hard sometimes. Especially if you are the one who got left
@cupkitties (7421)
• United States
3 Jul 10
I don't try to reminisce about it but yes I do remember not my most recent but an ex of many years ago. The thing that helped me a lot (and this may not work for all) was to discipline myself from thinking of him. If he came to my mind I'd quickly force a new thought or mental picture there. It took years but I have moved on and I'm glad I don't completely forget him.
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@saihai (128)
• India
2 Jul 10
There are some incidence you really can not forget regardless how hard you try!you may move on in your life with your new boyfriend/girlfriend but there are times when you bond to remember your ex!
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@malihat (216)
2 Jul 10
I am completely over my ex boyfriends and am currently with someone that I am madly in love with. However, if I make a conscious effort, I can remember the times I spent with my ex boyfriends but I don't really want to do that.
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• Romania
3 Jul 10
Yes of course i remember my every ex-girlfriend and everything i have done with her
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
17 Jul 10
Hi, airshelia. Yes, I still remember the moments with my ex. I never forget them. The memories are still evident. I have just buried them in the back of my mind.
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
3 Jul 10
We can't blame ourselves if we still reminisce our past. I do have a new Boyfriend now, but there's still some times that i did remember him through the songs we dedicated for each other, the places we've been together, and the things we did, all the memories we've shared. It's not bad, though. It's just a normal thing, for us. HAPPY MYLOTTING!
@rastogisw (445)
• India
2 Jul 10
Till yet I did not forget my ex-boy friend as he was my first love . Right now I dont know even where he is presently but still I cant cant forget those moments which I had spend with him because on that time I was just in teenage and those moments were first for me on that time so I dont think to that I can ever forget those precious moments
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• Portugal
12 Jul 10
he wasnt my ex bf. he was my best friend and i really loved him and now we are apart :( i still remember when he was so sweet to me and i dont understand the reason why he changed towards me there are many things that i dont understand thats why i still reminisce in it but is like my friends say i must forget it and ignore. and one thing we must let go bcs like people say if someone really cares for us that person will look for us bcs we are important to them. so if they dont is bcs we were not that important. if a relation didnt work we must think that the right person for us is still out there and we will find him soon bcs we all have someone meant for us that will love us always^^ thats a hope that can help us forget the sad moments^^