Ever Thought Of Axing UR Ex ??? Do U Hold Grudges On UR Ex-GF/BF ?

@sunnycool (12714)
India
July 5, 2010 12:04pm CST
One Girl at the busy mall was pranked---she was literally fooled and then humiliated badly with the freaky scary stuff by her Ex-lover who is thoroughly enjoying all this at the back door rolling on the floor. Seems this girl had rejected his love proposals quiet a handful of times and he came to know that this girl is actually greedy and wants to marry a wealthy man(with no heart) than to love him. He turns RED now ( dont you get me his ego is hurt now )-----he wants to take revenge on her for all the $hit she has offered him when he approached her with a loving heart. He approaches "Axe Your Ex" a reality Show which is being aired on V-channel and these dumba$$es help him out to take revenge on her in a bad way.she has to go through so many pranks in a couple of hours that she ended up crying with fear and she is almost lost with show many shocks. Coming to the main topic---- Would you hold grudges on your Ex-GF/BF ? As of me i would never do such mean thing ---- if he really loved her then he would never think of humiliating her that badly irrespective of her being good or bad. This damn show is so sick that it helps people to scare the hell outta their EX-GF/BF.Would You approach such shows if you were to take revenge on your Ex-lover?
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@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
My ex-GF left me for another guy and I really hated her for that but it did not come to the extent for me to take revenge. She was really sweet back then and always is. She keeps sending messages asking for friendship and I got over her already so I accepted it, am I stupid that I did accept her as friend back?
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• Philippines
6 Jul 10
It ain't stupid. What you did was brave and I find it rare for people to be friends with her Ex. I just don't understand why people tends to be bitter forever when there is something to be thankful for when they were still together
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
I even still have my bestfriend before that was secretely in love with me. She confessed what she felt towards me to my auntie, but I was already in a relationship then so she also looked for a boyfriend to get over me. and now I still have my past GFs in good terms.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Jul 10
That is so low and childish. I cannot think that they can show this crap on air. I mean really, how bad can you actually humiliate someone this way? I won't do it and if someone ever do that to me, i will probably kill him. TATA.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
5 Jul 10
It was fun to watch----all those pranks on her.but.... it would be so embrassing and tough for her and how mean would it be on his part to seek revenge with the help of a reality show
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
5 Jul 10
For once we actually agree on something. Scary!!
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
5 Jul 10
I take my words back then
@AmbiePam (85571)
• United States
8 Jul 10
If you get a chance, try to find and listen to the song Pray for You by Jaron and the Long Road to Love. It's hilarious, and it fits in with your discussion.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Jul 10
Thank you i would check those songs
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
7 Jul 10
I wouldn't do it, but I might think it...
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Jul 10
you're so used to Multiple options haaah
@hexeduser22 (7253)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
I'm proud to say that all my Ex girlfriends are my friends,even best friends, until today They don't hate me nor I hate them. I just don't understand why people gets to be bitter towards their past partners. Me, I'm alway thankful that I was given a chance to share something wonderful with them and I learned a lot of things that actually shaped my personality and views in carrying my relationship Poor girl, I hope the show stops airing or wont be allowed to air in any channel. I can't believe that there would be a cast and crew this insensitive
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
the show needs to be sacked. the earlier the better
@basqui (3888)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
We are the same hex, I still have my ex'es as my friends. well, is it the sweetness that we have given them that made them stay? lool
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• Malaysia
5 Jul 10
well, i do have an ex that i'm quite upset with...but i don't think that i'll be humiliating her publicly anytime soon. i've seen that show. they look kind of perverse enjoying other people's miserably embarrassing moments.. i guess there's an audience out there who likes to watch this kind of stuff
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
5 Jul 10
I did enjoy a couple of pranks initially but they were getting harder and tougher for her as they go ahead and her was quiet busy enjoying all this. I dont think this show would go a long way as women extremists in my place wouldn't allow this to be aired and do not ask me about Human Rights people lol
• Malaysia
6 Jul 10
okay...i won't ask about human rights.. but that show is one nasty show...sometimes the makers of shows like that should understand that not everyone is appreciative of the type of humor that is portrayed within the show...maybe they should limit it to only the country where it came from...
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
12 Jul 10
Your point that if he really loved her he would not act that way is very much on target. Surely she could see what kind of person he was when she turned him down. If she ever took money from him, she should give it back, but if she never took his money, then it is none of his business if she takes money from someone else. It is just as easy to love a rich man as a poor one, don't you think?
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 10
no i would never.. i don't want to make any revenge. even i hate someone badly, i will just let him go. and i am sure that there is God who will punish him to what he done to me.
@sweechi (157)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
I agree, it is sick! Humiliated in front of thousands of people just because he got rejected. well even if my ex and i broke up in a nasty way, i wouldnt want to do such. Just accept the fact that you weren't meant to be. Now, we are actually talking civilized way even if i was hurt then. People are so into their emotions that they are not using then brain!
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
I have so much pride that I would not do anything of the kind to my ex. However it hurts, the hurt will go away with time. So, I would just re-arrange my life and move forward.
@aquariand (464)
5 Jul 10
I think you have summed it up nicely in one of your sentences if he loved her he wouldn't do this to her. That is so true.He obviously doesn't or never hs loved her with true love.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
5 Jul 10
yeah i would never and cant even imagine hurting her that badly...pulling her leg for fun within us is an exception though
6 Jul 10
its too bad. important thing to remember in any relationship even we are hurt by someone we love.Is to be patient even we are rejected in anyway and don't create anger. Often times its not necessary to make important decision when your angry its the saddest thing to do.They may find that differences in perspective and opinions these variances may occur around the problem but its so devastating to put on air the humiliation how it is to be solved or assumed its an appropriate outcome they can be find ways to sole the conflict of rejections not to the extend that you do that on television. I feel bad for him his not a man he is a woman under the mans body
@dfhonline (130)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
hahaha. No I wont. I had my heart broken twice by two different people. And I did feel like taking revenge. But I thought to myself what happens after that? I would only look like a sour-graping b!tch. If a guy does that to her ex, he would only look like a loser a$$ wipe that cant take rejection like a man should.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
8 Jul 10
Welcome to mylot dfhonline I think it would be so useless to think of someone who least cared about you and hurt you badly.it would be upto your generosity to leave them behind without going for any kinda BS revenges or grudges on them which does no good.one would never opt for those if they really loved them
@Jiro90 (7)
• United States
6 Jul 10
Haha, I remember when I held strong grudges against my ex, mainly because she was unfaithful, yadda yadda... and I genuinely believe that when it comes down to it, people should ultimately forgive a person even if they did something really bad. I agree that pulling a stunt like that is ill advised lol. I personally would not go through such a cruel thing as revenge. When I was mad at my ex for dumping me, I became more depressed in myself than vengeful xD. And I think Success is the best revenge... meaning rather than taking it on an ex, improve to the best of your ability and they will indirectly be affected(if they still pay any attention to you) ... And yeah. Just move on, it's really not that hard. so yeah, that's my addition to this interesting topic. :D
5 Jul 10
How horrible that people have decided to air other people's humiliation like that! As if a break-up isn't hard enough without someone wanting to make you suffer for it. I've had some horrible ex's, where I've obviously felt like doing something terrible to them - it's called anger and is a natural response. I have never acted on this and I try and deal with it a little more productively. The things T.V will do for ratings! Ha
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
5 Jul 10
I don'r hold grudges per say but I don't much like the ex either. Not someone that I want to hang out with or enjoy casual conversation with. It could be worse I guess. I wouldn't try to humiliate him though. I think some of these reality shows really push the limits. There are just some things that should be left alone.
• Portugal
5 Jul 10
i wouldnt do that^^ anyway what kind of show is that? seems a bit scary how was that even allowed? the way you talk seems like they really really humiliate the person. anyway maybe that boy was very very upset and started to act crazy but people from that program are taking advantage of his sadness to have success. even the girl was stupid with the guy and hurt him so much i dont think she should be humiliated so so much. maybe a little innocent prank would be accepted but humiliating that much?