Someone can be judgmental without understand the whole detail
By kingparker
@kingparker (9673)
United States
July 16, 2010 4:35am CST
There is in life I knew people who are judgmental without further to understand the detail. At my work, a co - worker always judgmental on everything without further to know the detail. He might accuse someone simply listen to one - side of the story, and then make the rumor spread out like that person been accused is the "bad - guy". After further investigation, that is really untrue, and he should be feel shame on himself by spreading something that is untrue.
At my part - time job, my manager also is judgmental person. Without knowing the full detail of certain things, she would make her judgment against someone already.
I confess that I had deal with plenty of person like that, and I learn that I shouldn't be like any of them. I should all - ear to see whether that is what people say is true or not.
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14 responses
@Ladyslipper (1327)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
It's really not good to be judgmental. Honestly, for me everyone should be given a chance to prove their selves first before we judge them. We can't just judge them based on one instance or encounter and specially just based on what we hear other people say about the person.
I would get hurt if other people would judge me just because of what other people told them about me. That's the reason I try to be more open- minded as much as possible. I also believe that there is always goodness in the worst of human because human is basically good.
@ehsanji (503)
• Pakistan
17 Jul 10
It's just that people try to show off or they want to comment because they want to look wise or something. They want to use their philosophy and impose it on others, and I hate it and it is bad to do so. Being judgmental without knowing the roots, cause of a problem is a big issue today. The big example is when people start being judgmental against Muslims without knowing the religion Islam and its concepts.
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
16 Jul 10
This is very bad when people jump into conclusion without knowing the truth. This happens everywhere but not all the peoples are like this. I had to deal with a person in past who was of same kind, he used to take all the words from a co-worker and blame things on others without even giving a try to know the truth.
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
17 Jul 10
It is unfortunate but there are many people this way. I completely despise people who ease drop, make false judgments and create rumors.
Continue being non-judgmental and you will be liked ab all.
@lacieice (2060)
• United States
16 Jul 10
Actually, in many incidences, it doesn't matter if a rumor is true or not. At no thme should you be judgemental. Only one person has the right to judge, and He is not here on earth.
No one knows what is going on in another person's life. It's impossible to know what anyone is going through or why they did or didn't do a specific thing. And, to be honest, it really is none of our business.
Unless you have walked a mile in their shoes, it's best to not judge anyone at anytime.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
16 Jul 10
What you say is absolutely true; people are very quick to jump to conclusions and it is even worse when they spread false rumours. We should always get our facts right and where we do not know the story it is better to keep silent without prejudging a person. Not only in office , this is seen even among relatives.
@semicolonp (518)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
Sadly, every single person on the world capable of thought is like this. It's sad, but true. We each have our own prejudices and our own experiences that shape those prejudices and so we tend to be judgmental about things that we think we know, and even the things we don't. No one person can be knowledgeable about everything, after all, and so we create our own opinions on stuff that often enough differ from the opinions of others, and this difference in opinion ends up clashing with someone else's and conflict arises.
Unfortunately, I'm not learned enough to find the cure for this. It would be nice if everyone was courteous and sensitive to the opinions of others and take notice if they're hurting someone unconsciously, but yeah. That'll be like wishing for world peace, and I'm not pretty enough to say that, haha.
I think pointing out what was wrong could be a first step. This is a sensitive matter because people usually don't like being told they're wrong, though, so tone and approach matter.
I wish you luck! Hand in there! Technically, it's the individual's job to widen their knowledgeable and learn about different points of view, but yeah. it really sucks when judgments are passed without all the available facts.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
16 Jul 10
I feel that most people are so ! they become judgmental without actually analising an issuye. Most people form opinions based on their own experiences, if it is very limited , then their judgment reflects that.I too have come across many such people who are quick to judge others and are very careful while assessing themselves or those close to them...
@jugsjugs (12967)
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16 Jul 10
I know alot of people like that and they never seem to wait to hear the whole story,before they make their opinion.I always think no matter what i take nearly everything that people say with a pinch of salt.Also i like to know both the sides of what the person is saying if there are problems with another person.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
16 Jul 10
There are a lot of people like that. Someone close to me is like that because she is like that, there came a time that I didnt trust her anymore. I was just disappointed at her cause I was thinking that we're really close. Closer than what I think but when someone said bad things about me, she never tried to talk to me about it and just let that person say more bad things and she never did something that will prove her wrong.
@Metatronik (6198)
• Pasay, Philippines
16 Jul 10
I am so pissed off for the people that are like that to the extent that they don't tend to listen first before to jump into conclusions. Sometimes when you are already explaining you can't just talk because they are not really interested to listen to other people but the only thing they will do is being just a self centered.
@rosegardens (3032)
• United States
16 Jul 10
There are many people like that in this world unfortunately. I hope conditions at work get better for you and you will not have to deal with such people.
I have known people like that, and it is rather unpleasant to hear about this person did such and such, that person did this, etc.
Happy Mylotting!
@ReadyWriter12 (124)
• United States
16 Jul 10
I agree with you that people should hear the entire story before making a snap judgement. I know how you feel, I've had to deal with people like that in my life and to be honest there are still people in my life like that. Keep being yourself and doing what you're doing and the truth will be revealed.












