I don't know if I have abilities to love other boy in future?

dont be afraid^^ for sure you will find a great guy that will really love you^^ think that we all have someone for us and meant for us and if that guy was so stupid and left you is bcs he is not the right one so dont love him anymore. meet other boys be friends with them and maybe you can fall for one of them^^ one of them can be the right one for you^^ dont be upset ok? trust guys bcs not all are liars^^ and im sure you will find a guy much better than that one you had^^ and that will love you forever^^

Don't cry baby..! it's okey. everyone has the same experienced as you had. You are still young and pretty, he don't deserved your love. Make up yourself and shine again. Finding someone you love nowadays is very risky..but I would rather suggest don't give your fullest love give some reserved for yourself.! yes you can find another one. Life doesn't end there, it's just a bump! your life has still a long road. So get out and shine again!

hello shinyqui, first, he was not an excellent boy if he let you go for a higher-salaried person. never let this down. second, i have felt the same heartbreak before, and i can tell you from experience that, although it may seem impossible, you WILL love again. remember that your heart is not made of glass--it can only be wounded, but it will heal right back--it can never be broken. him leaving you may have been a great thing that happened. just imagine yourself continuing to be with the boy who does not love you at all? girl, you are stronger than that. ;)

I cannot quite remember how many times my heart has been broken. It surely comes with loving someone, the pain and anxiety. Because when you love someone, you're giving him the right to hurt your feelings. Our loved ones are our weaknesses. But be assured that someday you will still find someone who will love you back and treat you properly. It's been 5 years of having no bf when the man who married me came into my life.

Hi Shinyqiu, If you lover went away from , do not worry.Sure you will get another boy better than him.It some times happens.

All I know is that no human emotion can last forever; so this too shall pass. You are not doomed to be lonely forever, and will find someone new, and forget about the other guy.

see before getting into any relation you must make sure than is this really a guy for me so that you don't suffer later. just like you r suffering right now. coz once you have got your heart broken, its very difficult to mend it.. so examine the guy carefully. try to understand what kind of guy he really is. is he serious about you or he is just try to get another gal to sleep with. see if he is really interested in being an active part of your life. if he really want to solve your problems and make you happy. if he really loves you then he will try to know every minute thing about you like what you like, what is the thing that irritates you and all that. if he passes all these tests then only get into any relation coz this is your heart that we are taking about. its not a toy which once broken will be replaced by a new one. it is just one heart that is allotted to a human being so dear think about all this before rushing into a relation.. take care..

If you believe in true love, soul mates and all that jazz then you will get over him becuase obviously he isn't the one who was meant for you or he'd still be there wouldn't he? That means your one is still out there and you'll find him when you least expect it. The last thing you want is for your ex to see you moping either. That won't help anything except his ego.

I'm sure that one day you will meet that special someone and instantly fall in love I dont know it happens to all of us we just have to learn to move forward with our lives and to not get us down no matter what. I'm sorry that you have been hurt by being dissapointed boy after boy, but if you are patient than I know that one day you will find a guy that loves you very much and will stay loyal to you. If you give up now then you are going to be alone you know because that's like your quitting. So don't give up you will find someone one day the best of luck to you and happy mylotting.

You will forget this bad experence with time. I don't think that your ex bf deserve your love. You should feel happy,because you take apart that man,then you have a chance to find Mr Right in future. There is difference between love and infatuation. Cheer up!

Shinyqui - first you must forgive yourself and the other person, this allows you to let go of the past and hurtful feelings. Second, you must allow yourself to grieve over the loss of the relationship because you truly cared about him. Third, take time to get to know yourself and find out what's best for you and find a guy that meets that criteria. Also, if you have access to it I would suggest that you read "Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man".

Is not the end of the world, you will pass through this, you will be fine, you have a whole life in front of you. Of course you will be able to love other boy in the future, you only need time, to forget him, because probably was your first love, and it`s hard to forget your first love.

Hi Shinyqui... I have been in the same situation where you are right now. I thought its the end of the world for me. But you know what...No one can help you but your self.. In situation like this there are people close to us that keeps on giving advices and reminders. But what do we do? We listen but still it is our heart that we follow.. If you think that you can't..then you can't move on. But if you tried, surely you will. Start by thinking of diversion. Make yourself busy and then open your eyes and your heart for a new love. Nothing will happen if you always entertain your fears. there is no one in this world who does not experienced hurt. If they can stand again and have success in finding love..then surely you can too.

hi,sweety . all past .dont't take it as a big deal .you still have other chances or a larger range of lover. i know it's hard to ease from such a heart-broken issue . but you have to be strong or act to be strong .because he will never come back when he chose that woman . frankly speaking ,i broke up with my ex-bf last month . it's ridiculas that he nake up with his ex-gf . it was a tough time but i have to recover .waht you act and feel can not affect he anymore though you still loer he. so ,girl .be strong . i recommend you a series "men in trees" you may get a lou from it ,about relationship . be happy and take it easy .

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Its a normal feeling to get hurt. You can also say that many times, you also think that you cant love another one after being hurt but there's something that you should know. The love that you said in your previous relationship, is not love at all. You can only say that you love this person when this person is the right one. Cross the bridge when you get there. what I am telling you now is just move on and continue searching for that kind of love that belongs to you. Believe me, I know!

Its painful to be hurt by someone you love. But we must be strong enough to face the reality and be positive on what the future will bring. A better person will come along and ease out all the pains you have felt in the past.

I understand what you feel is normal. You still love the guy that is why you can not move on that quick. But your friend are right, you should move on. Don't tie yourself for this guy. You don't deserve that. Don't be afraid to love again. Hurt and pain are part of love. Never close your door to a new love, you may never know if he is the best guy for you. Forget the past look beyond the future.

Don't worried. of course you will be in love with another excellent boy. time is a good medicine. it will take out all hurts. One day,you will find that you were never loved him and forgot that you ever loved him.

Heartbreak and disappointment will more than likely always come with a first love. But when its not meant to be you just have to accept it. Its so hard and believe me i know but time heals all. Thats all you need, and eventually someone is going to come along and when they do, you will forget your ex even exists. besides all of that, he doesnt sound like someone you are going to to want to spend the rest of your life with. If he just wants to play games with you and lie to you then he is not worth a single tear. There is someone out there, you just have to find them or let them find you.