I just got rejected!!

I haven't, but I can't imagine there not being any good matches for you on there. People everywhere sign up on those sites. It seems very unlikely...bet it's because it's a free trial...if you were paying they would have plenty of matches. It's always about the money.

WTF is right! What are they trying to say? Isn't that discrimination. How do they know the next person that signs up isn't gong to BE the perfect match for you.. Are You a Felon ?? Have elephant man syndrome and sent them a pic first? HOW CAN THEY KNOW or NOT KNOW? That is just plain Ridiculous.. NO- I have never signed up for eHarmoney-- and now I never will.. and I will bad mouth them to everyone I know.. just to get back at them for you... okay?

Heck NO! if I want to find a man I would go looking in person have to see eye to eye

They even say in their commercial that they don't pick everyone to be a part of their circle. Myself I have no idea what their criteria is for acceptance. I do not know why they would turn you down and say they. I think we should start our own relationship site! Don't you? I mean just think of it. No one would really be turned down because I've always heard there is some one for everyone. This must be true. Why should we go to these places that just want a certain type of people that have lots of money, ot have their own businesses, or what ever else makes them a part of this other places acceptance? II'm sorry they did not find someone for you. II have never went to any of these places but then I've been with my husband almost 19 years now. If I were in a position that I was wanting to meet someone I would seriously think about it because I don't do the bar scene or go many places at all. I mean who has time to these days?

seriously?! i would be emailing the company to see what the problem was. i have not heard of this happening before.

I got a message that basically said I was unmatchable. I even signed up again and chose the opposite of what I chose before and I STILL came up unmatchable. The reason EHarmony works so well is because it filters out certain personality types. It leaves people who just fit into one little box to be matched up with other people who fit into one little box. This is why they are so easily matchable. Unfortunately I like people who can think for themselves, do not necessarily agree with me all the time, do not necessarily like everything I like, this gives a good balance and room to learn new things from your partner. So personally I think you should be proud you could not be matched because you probably have a unique personality and are very interesting and you do not fit in a set little box and you are not easily defined. I think they should make a site (if there already is not one out there)called Eharmony Rejects where everyone who was rejected can see if they can find someone special. =) So be proud and fly free CelticEagle.

You're exactly right! WTF?! I thought they had something like '29 dimensions of compatibility'. That free thing they have for a week sounds like a scam. It might just be a ploy so that they could draw in new users. And when they get you interested enough, then you could start paying for their services. Unfortunately, I haven't signed up for any any dating sites.