why do men/boys stare at gorgeous girls???
By abj163
@abj163 (1037)
India
July 25, 2010 10:30am CST
i have seen that in india ....maximum males stare at other girls..i am also a male but i dont like doing that.....males stare at their body...that is really a bad thing.....i think if you really like a girl then you should go straight and try to have some conversation with her......dont expect the result just try it ...may be she will slap you or may be she will respond you well ...just forget the result and try your best......i have tried this with a girl in a bus journey and she is still in contact by mails....so guys what you will do if you like a girl in a public place.....and females do you like that stupid thing of males to stare at you .....i dont think you like it.....is this a global problem or happens in india???
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12 responses
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
26 Jul 10
Hi, abj163. I have caught many men staring at me. And women too!
I do feel comfortable when a male stares at me. I just don't like when they stare very hard. And if they laugh while they are staring, it makes me feel odd and out of place.
I guess they stare because they like what they see.
I do feel comfortable when a male stares at me. I just don't like when they stare very hard. And if they laugh while they are staring, it makes me feel odd and out of place. I guess they stare because they like what they see.1 person likes this
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
27 Jul 10
Don't worry and don't show too much..
We boys don't stare at woman who are elder than us..
And u are extremely elder , and u still suppose and think that boys are staring at you?
Do u really think it's happening?
Do we boys don't have girls in the age of 20-23?
Any how , i have to congratulate your self confidence on thinking that u are still attractive and boys look at u..
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Jul 10
abj all men at some time stare at gorgeous women and some maybe married or already engaged so thats all they can do. some just like to see gorgeous girls but your idea of talking to her is a better action, and more kindly. I hated being stared at when I was young. Mpw i am old I still do not like the feeling of being undressed. its an ugly feeling for sure.
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
25 Jul 10
It's natural that boys look at girls..
The teenage is the actual reason for this..
Nobody stops me looking at girls..
Beauty is for looking..
There is nothing wrong in looking at girls..
Liking them is secondary..Looking is not a crime..
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@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
25 Jul 10
Its natural for males to stare at females. it is said GOD makes women beautiful, but the devil makes them prettier. So men decide after they watch weather the girl is hot or sexy. I know girls dont like men staring at them, but they cant tell this to every man that watch them.
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@AutumnGold (1056)
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25 Jul 10
Hello Abj. I think it happens everywwhere because it's natural for blokes to stare at attractive women. I don't mind men looking at me , maybe a quick glance but when a man stares at me I find it a bit creepy like he's undressing me in his mind.
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@attente (986)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
I can see that you are very respectful. Only that I think it's really normal. There are these people, even if married, still stare at other girls.. It's only admiration.. Girls are really the beauty of the world, that's why they're being admired.. Love and admiration are far different from each other.. so it's okay.. thank you so much for being respectful.. be blessed! :)
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
26 Jul 10
Hi abj! I think that most men stare at gorgeous girls no matter
how old they are, even if the have girlfriends or are married!
It is just a matter of how the do it! It is one thing to "just
look" without being crude and rude! It is another thing to
be loud and disgusting. There is nothing wrong with you trying
to be polite and talk to a young lady, but if she gives you
the feeling that you are making her uncomfortable in any way
you should back off immediately before anything bad happens. If
you just be yourself and act appropriately then there is nothing
wrong with that! And yes, it happens all over the world because
men will be men no matter where they are!lol
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
26 Jul 10
I don't see why they shouldn't!
Even girls stare at other gorgeous girls.
When something attracts our eyes, we can't help it.
But if you have evil intentions for looking at a person, then that makes it wrong.
Even girls stare at other gorgeous girls.
When something attracts our eyes, we can't help it.
But if you have evil intentions for looking at a person, then that makes it wrong.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
26 Jul 10
Well, one thing is looking and a different one is staring. When someone stares at someone with a pervert face, that's creepy and unconfortable.
In Japan many men will approach the girl they find attractive and try to drink something with her or get her phone number. They are usually really creepy when they do that, so I would prefer if they just stared in this case.
@mario_stevens (6971)
• Malaysia
26 Jul 10
i believe in appreciating all of God's creations...it just so happens that the gorgeous ones are so nice to appreciate 
@charmlenile (387)
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26 Jul 10
In my points of view mylotters they stare women because of admiration and the girl was really beautiful and sexy its not bad to stare with a gorgeous women actually it is flattering that they admire them but it is always depends on the way they stares women.
