How to say "I love you" to my girl?

United States
July 26, 2010 11:56pm CST
Frankly speaking,I am a shy boy and have no love experience.Even when I face to face talk with girls my heart beat very hard.Now I really wanna control it,but don't know houw to do.And have no idea how to say "love you"to my love girl? So could you give my some advices and tell me how to do? I will appreciate it very much.
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22 responses
@will_win (222)
• India
28 Jul 10
You don't have to say i love you,until and unless you you love and cares her...........you know loves does not say,know her hurts and pain that you can heel them for ever............
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• United States
28 Jul 10
yes,of course I know this. thanks your tip :P
@ashton77 (292)
• India
27 Jul 10
If you are not a very good speaker then show the other talent which works more than speaking. It's the writing talent. Sit in your computer and make the habit of mailing her every night on her email id with a different name. Keep on doing this every time. When you do this you will get confidence and then start texting in her mobile number. Your approach should be of friendship and I am sure once she gets the habit of your text and message, she will realize that she is in love with you. It works ..believe me...Take care
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• United States
27 Jul 10
Thanks,of course I will take care and believe ya :P
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
1 Aug 10
Find a girl that you really love and it won't be too hard. She'll be waiting to hear it. But get to know her first and don't rush to say "I love you." Wait till you know that she also has feelings for you. All the best!
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@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
you know wei,i think if you are shy when it comes to saying those words,try artistic things like write iloveyou using your own blood in a canvass, kidding! yeah,you can express your own self by writing or like i said,be artistic in your own kind of way.like hire students then let them hold each letters saying iloveyou,that would be really nice to a girl.be artistic on your own,my friend! it would be nice to see for a girl what you can do to surprise her.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
send your heart :D - you can be artistic in your own kind of way when you really loved a certain person.try expressing yourself the way you are comfortable with.
yes! if you really loved the girl,you'd do anything to let her know how you feel,and of course,it's much sweeter if you can show it the sweet way. you can try reading this link.i hope it will help you. http://www.theromantic.com/stories/iloveyou/main.htm
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
yes I agree with Annavi23. Be artistic if you can't dare to express it through your mouth, you can still let her know that you love her by sending her text messages or just by LOVE LETTER. Any sort of you are into to.
• United States
27 Jul 10
oh,I see thanks your idea!I will try.
@abhi000 (235)
• India
29 Jul 10
You no need to afraid to face the girl,you just say this it will work for you.The touch that evokes desires unknown ...The warmth that's soft and tender and so very true ...The closeness that melts away all fears...The closeness that melts away all fears....The togetherness which breaths the promise forever...is love something i know I have found in you.I LOVE YOU.
• United States
30 Jul 10
aha,thank you.I got it :P
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
yeah show her that you love her... but still its different feeling when you hear the word "I LOVE YOU" from the one you love.. so I think.. Tell her you love her or other sweet words you know at times the she less expects it... example.. while you both are laughing or even walking... ... feel free to say that you love her anytime you want... I know she will like it..:)
• United States
28 Jul 10
thank you! I see,I see~ :D
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Tayrone is lying He is just guessing Anyway just kidding
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
hahaha!! I'm not lying... you know its true... hehehe...
@soleya (1100)
• Latvia
27 Jul 10
This is so sweet of you to be nervous with your girlfriend. But I would suggest you to first know for sure that you love her and want to tell her these words, because this is not just "I like you". L word means a lot to people, so if you are 100% sure that you are ready to tell her that she is the one than you just go ahead and tell her! She will be flattered and you might hear the same words in return. Maybe she wanted to tell these words herself but was shy too. You are the man you need to make the first move!
• United States
27 Jul 10
:P thank you!Now, I know,for a boy.I should make the first action and it is on my side. thank you!
@kathysmi (73)
• United States
27 Jul 10
Sometimes being straightforward is the best thing to do....i've been out of the dating game for over 5 years now, and saying the dreaded i love you for the first time to my fiance was hard, but he said it first. Sometimes its just right when the heart tells you it is. Show her your feelings, see if she reciprocates, and tell her. Maybe she is just waiting for you to say it and is just as shy as you are....Please let us know how it all comes out for you. I'd love to hear it when she tells you the same back...its always hard to put yourself out there like that so to speak, but the treasure you receive back is tenfold....
• United States
28 Jul 10
Thank you! I definitely know my shoulder is more hard.Thank you
@rosebinas (180)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
How about sending her songs, which are all about saying "I love yous" via bluetooth. Send her flowers. Send her notes. Or, simply find the guts to frankly tell her that you have feelings(love) for her. Be physically neat but just be yourself.
• United States
28 Jul 10
got it! thanks :D
@rhodzptc (1317)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
First thing you should learn is to have a confidence, build a confidence when talking with her know something common in both of you then talk about it mostly in that way you may feel comfortable talking to her and have the confidence to say what you truly feels. You can say it like this way " You know I really love you, most of the time when we are talking I really want to say this how much I love you" wow hahahaha how do you like that?
• United States
27 Jul 10
:P I appreciate you very much! you told me the sentence is perfect!From you all who is my friends told me,let me know I should have confidence and that is very important.And let me know how to express my feeling via messige/phone. I deeply grateful to you all.my friends.
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
I understand your feeling towards your girl but there are lots of ways to show her you love her. Well saying "i love you" straight forward is ok but you need to anticipate what might happen when you do so. 2 things might happen, first if the girl likes you everything will be ok but if she doesn't have any feelings for you you will end up nothing. Give some time, love means patience and maturity. You can show how much you love her in many ways like, showing care, giving affection and being gentleman. Good luck. ;)
• United States
28 Jul 10
Thank you. I will do like you said.
@eyah04 (61)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
you should be sincere in every words you utter to your girl... very genuine in every action plan that you want to show to her... it is like facing your own self, loving your self... if you genuinely love yourself you will surely show a respect of love to your girl... i hope that this will help you in saying or showing how much you love that girl... JUST BE YOURSELF!!
• United States
27 Jul 10
Ok,I will do like you suggested.I will sincere in each words and genuine each action! thanks
@antilove (191)
• Vietnam
27 Jul 10
Well, I think a lovely card made by yourself with some lines of a love poem will make her fall^^. If you can play music, just play the music and sing her a song. Oops, how romantic! Or give her a unique surprise that only you can think of ^^. Good luck to you!
• United States
27 Jul 10
Haha,thank you~ I can play harmonica and my handcraft is wonderful:D
27 Jul 10
i also have this problem. when i talk or went out with my classmate girls, i become nervous and my ounces out. i am really frightened.
• United States
28 Jul 10
Haha,we are the same! so at last,are you approach?
@grayxenon (1313)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
with the birth of so many technology in communications, you can have so many options,. of course personal is the best, but if you can't really tell her, you may want to call or write her, text (sms) her few quotes, that would manifest your feelings to her, and then gather enough courage to say everything.. "you don't loss by loving, you loss by holding back" thoughts to ponder..
• United States
27 Jul 10
Haha,believe me I can gather enough courage to say everything to my girlfriend! thank you.
@angguloy (85)
29 Jul 10
Sometimes, you don't have to plan on how, where and when you will say your feelings towards that lucky girl. If you can't say it right away, then make her feel it. Actions speaks louder than words, isn't it? But of course, you have to dig in some courage because it is still different when a girl actually heard it from you. I'll pray for you anyway. :) Stay in Love :)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Oh! you got the same problem with by best friend before. He also had that difficulty. What I told him was that he first needed to build up self-confidence. Most of the girls that I knew fall for someone who is sure of himself, but not arrogant in some way. I tried to reassure him over and over again that he is a good guy and that he is easy to fall into. Now, he has a girlfriend already. Try to feel comfortable with her first so that she'll feel comfortable being with you too. In that way, it is easier for you to win her heart. :D
• United States
27 Jul 10
Thanks.I will be confidence and try to reassure about that.
@rose005 (254)
• India
27 Jul 10
You don't really have to tell her that you loves loves her. Be frank with her, talk with her, show her that you have some feelings, call her and text her than she will naturally come to know that you loves her. Good luck
• United States
27 Jul 10
thank you very much!
• Jamaica
27 Jul 10
Write out "I love you" on a special food item such as cake or candy bar that you give the other person. You can also buy a Card that says I love you and that will help to break the ice. I don't want to scare you but if you love your Girlfriend you need to tell her because she might think that you don't care about her or Love her. Women need to be told that they are loved and often reminded so just try to find a way to tell her and maybe it would be great to write her a letter. Maybe when you see her give her a letter and tell her to read it when she goes home. If you can afford flowers that maybe a great idea as well, send Flowers with a note that you love her. That will knock her off her feet.
• United States
27 Jul 10
your ideas is pretty good.Thanks!And I will make use of your way,also I will find my unique way to express my feeling to my girfriend,thanks again.
• India
27 Jul 10
Since if you are shy guy. But i hope that at least u both to each other though u haven't express your feelings to her. Hope you are friend of her now at least. U know if u cant say now, just try to make feel happy and fun full whenever you are with her. And don't say until or unless u are not sure from her side. Try to have at least positive sigh from her first. Behave nice with her, talk sometimes funny and sometimes little bit farm which she can see there is something inside you for her. I hope this will work for you. All the best budyy.
• United States
27 Jul 10
thank you.