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Koon999Tan @Koon999Tan (681) • Malaysia 3 Mar 13

i have live for about 25 year, getting suffer from crap accident that nearly caught my life on, working for nearly 7 year but i alway change the job, never have the experience to hold, tease or whatsoever with the girl so i kind...

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subterfuge54 The right choice. What would make you truly happy? What do you really want with your life? You have to think carefully about the consequences of each action before you do it.

3 Mar 13

subhojit10 @subhojit10 (7375) • India 3 Mar 13

Hey guys, i have heard people saying that they like being honest, straightforward and hence whatever comes to their mind and heart they say it as it is. I believe that it is not bad being honest or saying the truth n even i prefer...

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subterfuge54 Yeah, I agree with you. It is indeed great to be honest. But there are things better left unsaid so as not to ruin everything. The thing is you should choose your battles wisely. I mean you should think it through whether it really is necessary to say or not...

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Koon999Tan @Koon999Tan (681) • Malaysia 3 Mar 13

i have live for about 25 year, getting suffer from crap accident that nearly caught my life on, working for nearly 7 year but i alway change the job, never have the experience to hold, tease or whatsoever with the girl so i kind...

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subterfuge54 Don't wait for time to change you. You should be the one to change your time. Live your second life fully, not everyone is given a second chance. It is not a matter of time that can change your life and get your dream. It is a matter of CHOICE. Every decision...

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iluvusabado @iluvusabado (2559) • Philippines 24 Feb 13

when i last visited the doctor,s he advised me to diet because my blood pressure is high for my age. and i also think that some of my clothes don't fit me well anymore. hehehe. actually, it's more of for health reasons than...

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subterfuge54 Doing taebo is a healthy cardio exercise. I have a tape so I do it at home because I am not comfortable in going to the gym. I'm on an after 6 diet and it is really helping a lot. I do not eat anything beyond six pm. I just drink plenty of water. But before 6...

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rahulagarhari @rahulagarhari (45) • India 24 Feb 13

girls are funny creatures. they hate it when you ask their age but will kill you if you forget thier birthday... what u think about her .... funny ..??

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subterfuge54 Oh no! That's a red flag which means that there might be something wrong. Girls don't tend to forget the birthday of their special someone. Have you forgotten her birthday or have you done something that displeases her? It may be that she's just acting out and...

24 Feb 13

rahulagarhari @rahulagarhari (45) • India 24 Feb 13

girls are funny creatures. they hate it when you ask their age but will kill you if you forget thier birthday... what u think about her .... funny ..??

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subterfuge54 You are definitely right. Girls are full of ironies. Most of the time they want to keep you guessing on how to approach her. They tend to keep their age secret because men usually seek younger girls but they get disappointed when you forget their birthday...

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subterfuge54 @subterfuge54 (207) • Philippines 14 Feb 13

I have read this book that reasons out why women are superior than men. The author wrote that in the process of fertilization, the notion that men exerts supremacy because the sperm is the one invading the egg, is wrong. It should...

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subterfuge54 It is sad to know that most of the time we only see what we want to see. Our minds are capable of distorting truth and reality. That is why it is an exhaustive effort to seek for the absolute truth sometimes.

18 Feb 13

subterfuge54 @subterfuge54 (207) • Philippines 14 Feb 13

I have read this book that reasons out why women are superior than men. The author wrote that in the process of fertilization, the notion that men exerts supremacy because the sperm is the one invading the egg, is wrong. It should...

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subterfuge54 Yeah. We are all equal in the sense that we complement each other. We value each other because our strength is their weakness as well as their strengths as our weakness. This is a great avenue for living together for each other and to share love.

18 Feb 13

subterfuge54 @subterfuge54 (207) • Philippines 14 Feb 13

I have read this book that reasons out why women are superior than men. The author wrote that in the process of fertilization, the notion that men exerts supremacy because the sperm is the one invading the egg, is wrong. It should...

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subterfuge54 Yeah! It is sad to see a literature like this. We are all equal. Sometimes other people fight and kill for superiority issues too. It just isn't right at all.

18 Feb 13

subterfuge54 @subterfuge54 (207) • Philippines 14 Feb 13

I have read this book that reasons out why women are superior than men. The author wrote that in the process of fertilization, the notion that men exerts supremacy because the sperm is the one invading the egg, is wrong. It should...

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subterfuge54 @subterfuge54 (207) • Philippines 11 Feb 13

I always knew that he wasn't the sweet guy even before we got into a relationship, my first. I thought I also didn't have a knack for sweet stuff like my boyfriend giving me flowers or chocolates. When he was still courting me, he...

love

sweetness

understanding

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subterfuge54 Thanks for saying that it is not selfishness. I kinda felt guilty feeling this way because I understand why he is not that sweet. There is just a part of me wanting that kind of treatment. I guess I am still in the process of accepting what I understood.

14 Feb 13

olivz2012 @olivz2012 (50) • Philippines 12 Feb 13

Today, February 13, 2013 the entire Catholic Church in the world celebrates Ash Wednesday. Everyone is asked to Repent and Believe in the Gospel as each forehead being crossed by the Priest, Deacon or lay minister with the ashes...

lenten season

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subterfuge54 Wow! So many questions there and it's pretty interesting. 1. You repent and believe in the Gospel when you follow the teachings there. 2. Doing the sign of the cross is our form of prayer. 3. Catholics are not forced to participate in this tradition. But...

14 Feb 13

subterfuge54 @subterfuge54 (207) • Philippines 11 Feb 13

I always knew that he wasn't the sweet guy even before we got into a relationship, my first. I thought I also didn't have a knack for sweet stuff like my boyfriend giving me flowers or chocolates. When he was still courting me, he...

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subterfuge54 You're still lucky you get to have a glimpse of his sweetness though. He really loves you. As for me, he even does not even spend most of his days with me. I want him to be the one who will invite me to spend time together just to know that he wants to spend...

13 Feb 13

lloydbelleza @lloydbelleza (1227) • Philippines 12 Feb 13

I have been thinking, is there anyway we could make hurtful things hurt less? Like how can you say to a mother that her child is dying, and at the same time hope that she would remain calm, and not cover herself with unending...

death

hurt

less painful

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subterfuge54 You know I think about death as a birthday of one's life in eternity. Her suffering has ended and she'll be in peace with God. The person, when she shared very good memories with others, can never completely leave you. She remains in your hearts forever. So...

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subterfuge54 @subterfuge54 (207) • Philippines 11 Feb 13

I always knew that he wasn't the sweet guy even before we got into a relationship, my first. I thought I also didn't have a knack for sweet stuff like my boyfriend giving me flowers or chocolates. When he was still courting me, he...

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subterfuge54 My boyfriend had some problems too in his home. That is also why he is not that sweet to me. How did you come to accept it? How do you know then that he loves you and he's not taking you for granted?

12 Feb 13

nmariean @nmariean (19) • United States 12 Feb 13

I teach 8-9 year olds from low income/ low socioeconomic areas. Recently I have run into problems with students bullying and picking on each other. In a class of 24 students I have about 5 students who are constantly picking on...

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subterfuge54 Have you tried making a behavioral contract with each of them in front of their parents? The behavioral contract states specific behaviors that you, as teacher, wants to address like bullying. Then the student and the parents set agreeable consequences and...

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