Problems, Problems Problems!!

@spazz435 (322)
United States
August 1, 2010 11:51pm CST
I know that a lot of people like it when their friends and family listen to them when they have a problem and need help. But what is it the other way around? Would you rather have people listen to you, or be the listener? Or do you like it both ways?
6 responses
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
2 Aug 10
I'm usually a listener. I talk less. But when anybody needs help I help him or her according to my capacity.
@spazz435 (322)
• United States
2 Aug 10
Yes, I am like you too. I am a heavy listener and good advise giver. But when it comes to me talking about what happens with me, it seems almost like I am at a loss for words. I seem to have a hard time figuring out what I want to say, even though I know whats wrong. LOL it happened to me.
• India
2 Aug 10
Every body have problems and it is very hard to over come out of it.If we see any one in the problem , I feel sad and I think to solve it but it won't be possible .When ever,any one have unseal situation no one can understand the internal feeling and then and there some might get angry and have misunderstanding.Problem is like a disease which cannot be cure but in some extend we can avoid it. Our mind won't be at peace and have a normal living .Mostly those causes were unbearable and even we can't imagine also.
@mipen2006 (5528)
• Australia
2 Aug 10
I have a good ear and don't mind listening to someone's problem. However, quite often I am reluctant to share mine.
@will_win (222)
• India
2 Aug 10
I usually do the both,when my friends and family they have problems listen and if i could help,i just help it.when it comes to me i do the same things.
• India
2 Aug 10
I do confidently say that no problem no people. Every one faces problem, different people different problems, some may faces dangerous and some quite small. Each individuals have their own problem. Sometime we can solve and bear but sometime problems may be unbearable. So don't feel bad with problems because problem is part of our life.
• United States
2 Aug 10
I usually like to do it both ways. I always like it when someone is there to comfort me and someone i can talk to about my problems and I don't mind listening to other's problems. I usually only want a friend to listen to what i have to say not a family member. I just find it awkward talking to a relative about my problems. It just makes me feel a little weird, Lol.
@spazz435 (322)
• United States
2 Aug 10
I can understand that you wouldn't want to talk to a family member about your problems. It's almost like you want to be close to your family; but your too close to really talk about anything to personal. Am I right? You and your friend are close, but not too close to feel uncomfortable telling them something personal.