spazz435

@spazz435 (322)

United States • Age 33

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Do you love animals?

qianlizhifeng @qianlizhifeng (468) • China 25 Mar 13

I think some friends have pets,and they must love animals very much.Frankly speaking,I also like animals,though there are no pets in my home.But my mother feeds some hens,which offer us some eggs every day.Every time when I go...

animals

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spazz435 It is difficult to explain the relationship we have with animals. No one knows truly why they became "domesticated" and created this special friendship with us, but I am grateful they did. I have two cats and I have a great friendship with my first one Max. He...

26 Mar 13

Heartbreak Fostering

spazz435 @spazz435 (322) • United States 10 Jan 13

So I love animals and I try to do everything I can to help one in need. I tried to foster for the animal shelter, but then realized that I have to give them back. I fostered two little babies who were ferral and scared, and...

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What Length To Help A Friend?

spazz435 @spazz435 (322) • United States 28 Jun 12

So I have this friend who always gets stuck in ruts and then expects me to help her get out of the. For instance, today the store that she is paying monthly bills for buying furniture there, called me saying that my "sister"......

friends

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problems

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spazz435 I guess part of the application requires you to put down names and numbers of people you know for "references." But really they are meant to be used if they stop making payments and can call you if they can not call you. She didn't ask my permission if she...

10 Jan 13

Considering vet bills

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 10 Jan 13

I can't believe the number of people who get animals and don't consider the vet bills, nor the overall cost. It does add up, I just took Gizmoe tot he vet (a 2.6 pound guinea pig), ended up costing $101.38 and it wasn;t...

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spazz435 i found this quite ironic but it's a money saver. At the clinic I take my cats to, I bought insurance for them. It only costs me $18.50 a month! Very cheap! Every time I take my cat to the clinic they give me a statement about how much money I've saved and...

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Bullies in the work place

barbiegirl13 @barbiegirl13 (1587) • United States 10 Jan 13

I need some advice on how to deal with a bully in my work place. I have worked at my place of employment for 2 1/2 years. Everything was great until July of 2012. A co worker of mine of whom I was very close to got pregnant. I...

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spazz435 I had this same problem at a place that I used to work at. I even did all the things that they say you should do when you are put in a position like that. I first asked her to stop, and when she didn't I went to talk to my Leader on Duty. I thought that would...

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How Does One Begin To Plan A Wedding?

spazz435 @spazz435 (322) • United States 18 Dec 12

Well it's finally happening! I will be getting married in June. But I don't even know where to begin! And it's so expensive! I don't know how this is all going to work out. But I hope it will. It would suck to have to push back...

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how to survive from a breakup

echo060201 @echo060201 (540) • China 18 Dec 12

Even the most friendly breakup will sting, you can mourn for it, you can sob, punch a pillow, you can do anything you want, but you need to keep in mind that everything has its limit,every cross the limit. Or you can ask support...

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spazz435 I don't think that any break up is easy. All you have to think about is that everything happens for a reason. If you weren't meant to be together then fate will make sure of it. You also need to think that there are over 7 billion people in the world and that,...

18 Dec 12

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Bought 5 lbs of sweat potatoes today here....

mariaperalta @mariaperalta (19073) • Mexico 18 Dec 12

I got a big 5 lb back of yams or sweat papas today. Only paid 3.00 Was cheap for here. Now what do I do with them all. I going to bake a few today with march mellows. Help me here.

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spazz435 I love to bake them like a baked potato and then make a butter and brown sugar cream to lather all over the potato. My mom makes it every Thanksgiving. Its my favorite. The brown sugar and butter cream also works well with steamed baby carrots. Yummy!

18 Dec 12

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Do you want to go back as a kid?

cobalt20 @cobalt20 (1318) • Philippines 5 Dec 12

When I was a kid, I am fond of playing playgrounds such as swings and ladders. I am able to play piko which makes fun to play. I remember that I have many cuts when I do writing especially my knees. So, I will not go back as kid....

kid playing

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spazz435 This is a tough question to answer. There are many things that I wish I could go back into time and change, but then there are things that I'm glad that they happened because they made me into the person I am today. I believe that things happen to you in your...

6 Dec 12

How long were the two of you together before you got married?

arystine @arystine (1273) • Philippines 6 Dec 12

My husband and I were together as boyfriend-girlfriend for eight months before we got married. We got engaged on our sixth month together. I guess that's what you call short-term engagement. It's not that I don't believe in...

engagement

marriage

wedding

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spazz435 Me and my fiance are high school sweethearts. I was a junior and he was a senior. We just got engaged this past June. We have been together for three years. We waited so long I guess because we are both so young and we wanted to make sure that we were making...

6 Dec 12

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What is the definition of Friend?

alexpreston @alexpreston (136) • China 6 Nov 12

What is the definition of Friend? In my opinion, friend should care for each other. When you have trouble in doing sth, they are the person who can help you. So the definition of friend is "CARE, HELP, LOVE". What do you think?

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spazz435 I think the definition of a friend is someone who should be your brother or sister but isn't. Someone who will stick with you through the thick and the thin. Who will always be there to give you advice when you need it. Someone who is willing to forgive you...

6 Nov 12

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What do you & your partner talk about when you have a heart to heart talk?

RescueLady @bizness (866) • United States 6 Nov 12

I know when my husband and I decided to have a 'heart to heart' we usually dicuss issues within the household that need to be addressed right then. Could be finances or upcoming plans. But every so often we just have that heart...

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spazz435 I think the main thing that me and my partner talk about right now is things that we'd like in the future. Like what kind of house we want, how we would discipline and raise our children. Stuff that if it happens unexpected we can be prepared for. We are young...

6 Nov 12

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Do you want be still on earth or go to other planets?

cobalt20 @cobalt20 (1318) • Philippines 6 Nov 12

I do not want to go another planet. I like living in earth even there are earthquakes. I do not like to see aliens in Mars or I might be in a Big Jupiter. There are more dangerous there outside from earth. I do not like going to...

planets earth science

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spazz435 I think it would be fun to go to other planets to learn about them. Not necessarily to live on them. But it would be fun to know how the other planets and the universe works.

6 Nov 12

Can dogs learn to be nice to cats?

shiningstar1 @shiningstar1 (94) 29 Oct 12

My sister has a dog, it's a cross breed of Pomeranian and German Spitz. He is young, 2 years. She got him but we already had cats. He has not been trained from the people she got him from. He doesn't like cats and barks at...

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spazz435 It is one thing for a dog to learn to leave the cats alone; but, it's another thing to get cats to learn to leave the dog alone. Dogs are one of the easiest animals to train. Cats, not so much. Cats can be trained but only if they feel like they want to be....

5 Nov 12

Rest In Peace Chelsy Leigh <3

spazz435 @spazz435 (322) • United States 15 Oct 12

My beloved sister passed away this year. Unfortunately she wasn't close with my family. And now we know why. She had a very bad drug habit called "doctor shopping." It's where a person will go to all of the emergency rooms at a...

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I dont want to take divorce :(

kaileshturkar @kaileshturkar (38) • India 5 Oct 12

Hi, Recently i got married with a beautiful girl, now she is my wife. Because of some misunderstanding between us and our family now she want to be divorce with me. I am more interested to solve the issue with discussion....

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spazz435 It depends on the issue. If it is an issue to where it involves you deceiving her and you were hiding stuff from her before you got married. Then it would probably be best if you got a divorce. You could try to talk to her about it, but good luck trying to...

6 Oct 12

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my teachers still recognized me!

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15745) • Philippines 5 Oct 12

Though we were late for our high school reunion, we were able to catch some of our grade school teachers! one of them was my 5th grade Adviser and English teacher, when she saw me she called my name and even knows my whole...

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spazz435 I remember right before I started high school, I went to my elementary school to drop off one of my little friends at school and decided I hadn't seen any of my old teachers since I graduated and decided to say hello. I ran into my my kindergarten teacher and...

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Tell me about your best friend.

wannapoints @wannapoints (8) • India 3 Oct 12

Hey! Friend, If you have any one who you can say that "It is my best friend" then share your feeling about him and her. Because it is the best thing to express that really how much you love him or her. So just express it. And...

its called best friend

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spazz435 I think her purpose for her discussion was for you to tell you WHY your husband is your best friend. Not just say who it is! :)

3 Oct 12

Tell me about your best friend.

wannapoints @wannapoints (8) • India 3 Oct 12

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spazz435 My best friend is my mother. She is always there for me whenever I am in need of anything. She always has the best advice for everything, and she is always there to guide me through my struggles. I don't know what I would do without her and am grateful to have...

3 Oct 12

Swearing

hmkoct5 @hmkoct5 (2065) • United States 2 Oct 12

My husband has a real aversion to swearing. He grew up with an abusive stepfather, who swore at him constantly. It made him feel terrible and really hurt his self-esteem. As a result, my husband never swears. Do you think it is...

speech

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spazz435 I believe swearing is overrated. I don't believe in swearing in front of children unless they are my own and I'm not directing the words to them (they are just listening), but I think that there is nothing wrong with swearing.

2 Oct 12

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