if your parents dont agree that you date a guy but you love him will you still
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
Portugal
August 15, 2010 4:34pm CST
hi guys^^ if you love a guy and your parents dont agree that you date him will you stop date him? about me i wouldnt^^
4 responses
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
16 Aug 10
Hi dear,
Just walk around with a boy/girl is a practice now. If you (both) are wished to get married and live for ever, then you can approach your parents.
Tell the facts and ask them to make the necessary talks and arrangements for the marriage.
People here now, immediately after school, they will get somebody as company and make rounds with them. In colleges it become more firm. Spoiling time and study they will just pass time for 'anything' and finally rag into unwanted situations.
Many are thinking this is the trend or fashion. But, the boys, who are so cunning make use or exploit the situations and finally the girl will get married to somebody (in many cases) and pull the rest of life.
If you want to date with someone, make to confirm for the rest of life with him only and go ahead. Of course, your parent will agree with you and just for the time pass, I think there is no need of approval form the parents.
All are just cheating the parent in that name.
(Why I am telling, yesterday I went to a place little interior from a railway station to park my bike. In fact I need a consent of the shop owner to keep my bike over there. As he was not there I just sit near by the place of a wall. I heard someone speaking. And it was around 7.30 evening. I heard a phone conversation that "yes mom, I am at my class and the class will continue for some time also". In fact the girl was behind the wall along with a guy. The rest I am not talking. The children are fooling the parents in this way.
Also, they want the permission to do all the nonsene with other and parants should allow for it. Do you agree for the same?
Regards,
Thank-s

@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
17 Aug 10
Hi dear,
Yes, we should be with the person. Because, tomorrow you are going to live with the person only, not with the parents.
But if we are having the person and the parents in your pocket, what you say. Try for that. We need the parents. Mainly as they are our parents. If now you are 20 years old, they had a life with you for the last 20 years.
Now you need another 20 and more years with someone you likes. So, make understand the parents the importance of your life as well as their life also. Your mom is the better half to you papa. Ask whether she can live with the support of him. They had a long life together and they share their life in the happiness and all sorrows.
Make understand the parents that, you need a life partner, with whom you wished to be. You need their support and wishes for your better living. If the parents are really loving you, of course, they will listen you and I am sure, that you understand what I mean to say.
Love parents and love your man.
But getting both of them is as per your move ahead.
Think wisely and get them on your both the hands.
They are the different strength of 50:50.
If you lose, one side, you will be losing 50% and vice versa.
Try to get both in your hands and their you succeed in your attempt.
Do a better start and your prior importance is to convince your parents and make them understand the importance of that person in you life.
Hope, all is well.
Regards,
Thank-s
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
16 Aug 10
i dont think we should lie to parents sure not. but if we like someone really and parents dont we must still be with this person if the person loves us and dont give up of it just to make our parents happy^^ we must be with the person^^

@kris182_2000 (5475)
• Canada
16 Aug 10
I married the man that I love and my mother and sister hated it.
However, my mom paid for a very cheap wedding, despite not liking my husband.
That being said, I haven't spoken to my mother in a few years, we've had a falling out, but I think that she'd be surprised that I'm still married.
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
16 Aug 10
yes you did right thing^^ you love him and he cares for you really so it doesnt matter if your family doesnt like him^^ you are very brave^^
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
15 Aug 10
hello sweet,
If my parents can give me good reason why should i stop dating or seeing the man i love,i will follow them.
Maybe my parents had one good reason for asking me to date with my guy.
But,if i know myself and i know my man,i won't stop.
I will convinced my parents that he is a good man and i will prove them they are wrong for judging him in the first place.
It is not bad to fight for our love when we know it is the right thing to do.
Some parents are too protective that,no one is good for them,unless they had their own choice for us.
Have a good weekdays 

@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
16 Aug 10
yes you are right^^ if parents say the person we love is not good we must show them that they are wrong^^ that this person is the best for us and really cares^^ about me i would never let him go away if my parents dont like this guy i like i will stick to him bcs i know he really loves me^^ bcs i feel it^^ even we are not bf and gf we love each other^^
@fannitia (2167)
• Bulgaria
16 Aug 10
As a parent I think that we have to be more reasonable and try to understand the feelings of our children. I hope that I'll never make the mistake of my father. Years ago he wanted to stop me to marry the father of my child because he didn't liked him. This is a sad story because I chosed the man I loved and broke up with my father.
@sweetloveforeve (13116)
• Portugal
16 Aug 10
ohh so sad for it :( he should had understand you and talk with you. and say sorry also. im sorry for you but im sure one day he will say sorry^^






