Have you pair a couple who eventually becomes real ife couple?
By laniekins
@laniekins (4579)
Philippines
August 16, 2010 3:13am CST
I did that way back 11 years ago, my fellow work mate whom I get close to and his ex lover. The girl says she still love the guy but the guy didn't make any move, they had problem before so maybe out of awkwardness that is why they remain aloof to each other. But not until I came into their lives and start teasing the guy and talk to him if he still loves my friend. So I grab the opportunity and told the guy that if she still wants the girl she must make a move. Until they talked again and they become gf/bf again.
I resigned at the company and I just heard from the girl that she is expecting a baby, so they get married at Civil and they had 3 or more children. It was nice feeling.
My ex-officemates used to tease a guy and my good friend. She says she always see this guy oggling at my good pretty friend. So she teases him all the way and also my friend. Until this guy got balls to court my friend. My friend instantly like him cause he is kind and give her more time not like her past bf. In a few months, my friend got pregnant and they married from Civil at my friend's residence. My officemate attended the wedding and she reminisce that time that she teases the two and now they got married. How love moves in mysterious way!
2 responses
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
16 Aug 10
Hi dear,
These all looks me so funny. So many b/fs, so many g/fs, ex-bf/, ex-husband etc., etc. All looks new to me and I am thinking so free is you peoples life and love. Some time I feel wonder the life in your areas is so open and beyond anything.
In fact, after entering into myLot, I am so surprise on the life around the world.
However, I am interested to hear more.
Regards,
Thank-s
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
17 Aug 10
Not actually, they might feel true love, if not they will not marry and have a family. It's hard to keep the marriage going forever, it takes unconditional love for both parties to stay strong. A lot of couples here separated and ended up with others, I'm happy that the first couple, as far as I know still together.
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
17 Aug 10
Hi dear,
As I always say, we are in the middle of abundance. There is choice. Once we got married with someone, and if tomorrow we saw somebody more cure and lovable, we will run after them.
That is why I used to tell, love is not perfect and we are the product of the new generation. So many b/f and so many g/fs. It is the new trend. After the marriage, there can be some problems that we cannot accept. In that case, try our maximum to cooperate and come with a better solution for all.
People are in a hurry to separate, but not in a position to come closer and never tries to share the feeling of love and never tries to understand each other. If we have a mind to understand other persons position and feelings, we may love each other and will not think of new and new people for a better substitute.
However, let everything comes with a good and a progressive result.
Regards,
Thank-s
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
18 Aug 10
I agree with you that love is not perfect. The guy loves you but can do things that might hurt you and vice versa.
@nangisha (3495)
• Indonesia
21 Aug 10
Hi laniekins!.
I have many friend who crush on to my others friend but don't have guts to tell it, they fear about rejection. Sometimes by motivating them to tell it usually work, because they expecting thats person for a long time they usually work hard to make their relation work.
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
Yes, motivation really works, same as teasing them. Both hearts can be develop. Happy 
