will you support your near and dear even if they are wrong?

what do you mean by "support"? If they are wrong or have done something wrong, it would be wrong to support them in the sense that we condone the wrongdoing. If you mean support in that you help them recognize their error and help them through the process of amending the wrong, even reporting it to the authorities if it were something of a serious nature. That would be good and right. Like a broken bone, healing cannot begin until mistakes are corrected.

If my near & dear is wrong publicly not supprt & personally says you are do wrong ,so control your behavier.

I have this situation - near and dear has done extreme wrong - but I learnt of it very late in life, by the time I had devoted my entire life fighting against the world even the person who liked me. Now, if I turn away - I have nothing to fall back on because that person is married, I have fought with everybody so nobody is going to forgive me. Moreover, I do have a few good moments with this near and dear one who did the wrong. In fact, those are the only good moments of my life. I walk away, I am lonely. I am the one who is punished, for no fault of mine. To be fair, the near and dear one was trapped into wrong. But suppose, tomorrow there is something more for me to face, and I find that the near and dear one was not that wrong, would I be able to do a volte face like the politicians? Everytime I think of leaving the near and dear one, and everytime, I postpone it. I am just fed up thinking about it. Somehow the whole thing is not fair on me, that is all I know.

i am fully agrre with u ,when there is close relationship ,it should be handled with care ,certainly if i am fair ,atlest i will have mental peace.