What makes your ideal girlfriend/boyfriend?

@olisaur (1922)
United States
August 19, 2010 2:18pm CST
I'm sure we all have a fantasy or day dream about the perfect boyfriend or girlfriend (or if you're married, have had one in the past). What personality qualities did that ideal person have? What sorts of things do you value in significant others? My "perfect boyfriend" would be someone who is artistic (or musical), open-minded, somwhat spiritual (meaning not necessarily religious, but has an appreciation for nature and God/a higher being), loves animals, is straight edge and loves to eat sweets (because I love to bake).
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• Philippines
20 Aug 10
For me my ideal girlfriend are as follows; First, Most and Foremost, she is God-fearing woman, a born again christian; She knows how to cook, bake cake, wash clothes, wash dishes, know how to clean the house, intelligent, smart, peaceful, joyful, kind, calm, faithful, loving. I know that my ideal Girlfriend is the girl that God had destined for me!!! I will always go to God's will because the will of Jesus is better than my own will!
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
ideally.., i would pick a guy for a boyfriend.., who is a Christian and is a God-fearing one.., someone.., who loves me a lot and respects me for who i am.., someone who is caring, thoughtful., romantic.., gentleman..,trustworthy.., loyal., and responsible.., =)
@asiregar (864)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
20 Aug 10
for me someone who would understand and accept the advantages and disadvantages which I have had only
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
I did wrote something about this before in my diary. Can't remember exactly though.lol. But this will be my ideal boyfriend. Btw, never had a boyfriend ever. So here goes. Appearance: Taller than me(I'm petite). Has chinky eyes(I find chinky eyes really cute). Really cute smile, with or without dimples. Fit, maybe a little chubby, or chubby.lol. oh but not too much.lol. Looks neat and clean. Fair skin color. He has to be: (I fear this would be really long.lol) Religious, doesn't have to be holy, but fears God. Respectful to women, elders especially parents (I wouldn't want to have any conflict on the family). Loving. Caring. Loves me for who and what I am, negative or positive. Appreciative. Open minded. Friendly but not too much on girls.lol. Nice. Ambitious but not too much, in a positive way. Helpful. Family loving. Loves kids. Honest. Has a sense of humor(I like laughing/smiling a lot but I'm I afraid I don't have that much sense of humor). Really sweet. Hardworking. Mature but will stoop down to my level of being childish and be really okay with it. There's a lot more. I have one guy on my mind but he doesn't know I like him.lol. I'm a hopeless romantic,lol. More of like hopeless at all. I would still wait for the right person to come. I know somewhere, he's out there.
@pogi253 (1595)
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
My girlfriend must have hot and smooth legs. It must be flawless and hot to handle. Another one is her fragrance. It makes a guy long for her cause a woman's scent has a great power to attract men.
• Philippines
20 Aug 10
Perhaps the only physical trait that I think is important is the height. I just really like my men really tall. I don't need a handsome guy, an average-looking dude would suffice. My ideal guy would have strong faith, be self-assured, respectful, considerate and intelligent. Sense of humor would be a great plus because I love to laugh out loud.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
19 Aug 10
when i was younger i want someone who can play video games with me and someone who can eat as plenty as i can eat har har har. not the same of what other guys had in mind. now i am married for almost 8 years and my wife is someone who can play video games with me and she is a good cook. she used to eat a lot like me too but after her giving birth she had to be on diet to lose weight. but i am happy that i found someone who can make me laugh and someone to laugh at me too.
@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
20 Aug 10
Well how about husband? It was funny I didn't really know what the perfect man for me was until I met him. It turned out qualities I thought were important didn't turn out to be as important as others I didn't realize were good. My husband was the most honest, trusting, and big hearted person I had ever met. His exterior did'nt show that but once I got to know him I realized what a truly wonderful person he really is. He also likes to have fun, has a good sense of humor and doesn't pretend to like or not like things he likes or doesn't like and he doesn't care what anyone thinks about that. I was of course very attracted to him as well physicall, but we have been together for nearly 25 years and it is what is inside of him and his goodness that keep me loving more and more each day.