Would you do ANYTHING for love?
By len1415
@len1415 (195)
Philippines
August 27, 2010 1:23am CST
Are you willing to take all chances just win that one person you truly love? Can you bear all the pain and hardships? Will you take the risk? Are you ready to sacrifice everything? I WOULD...But I need to ask my self first, would that one person be truly WORTH ALL OF IT?
6 responses
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
..hi.. this is indeed one very important thing to consider before going into a commitment.. and maybe this is one thing that i lack when I decided to commit myself for a lifetime to a guy whom I thought loves me true.. As of now, I'm so broken-hearted knowing that my partner is cheating on me and this is not the first time he did this.. at first, I thought I can tolerate it because I also thought that he was sincere in telling me that things will not happen again.. I just realize he's not worthy of my love.. I have been doing everything anything that could make him happy, but he still choose to cheat on me.. when I asked him if I did something wrong, he would just say sorry and that's all.. If possible, I don't like my family to be broken because we already have a daughter who will be suffering the consequences if ever I decide to be separated from my husband.. Right now, I'm looking for real friends whom I can share my problems and heartaches.. I really don't know what to do.. Anyway, one advice for all those who decides to commit, that if you commit yourself to someone, be sure to make it a lifetime and real.. not just for fun..
@hamolove (3)
• American Samoa
27 Aug 10
hi...i am not married but I've been with the same guy for five years now. and it's sad to say that now, i'm having second thoughts as to whether this relationship is working or not? not that anything is wrong, but the problem is, i don't feel like this man wants me like he did before. he never cheated on me, does whatever I want within his means, and my family loves him. but the question that i have is, why haven't he asked me to marry him? is it me or him? he tells me all the time that he loves me and we are the perfect couple ever, but for some reason I am not feeling it anymore. i try to get to him to want me, but it always ends up somewhere else. it's either he doesn't want me anymore or he's just being polite to my family as that is his excuse for not being with me. we haven't done it for three months now and it feels weird. because i always thought that he is trying to avoid me all the time. i just wish that if i do marry him, it's the right choice that i will make. i don't want to lose him but at the same time, is he really the right one for me?
@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
@ raynejasper, you know we are in the same boat. My husband has cheated me also. I think it's their instinct to have pleasure with other women for a short period of time like they are just flirting but know where to stand, do you understand what i mean? They just do it but when we already know they just say sorry and break their affairs. Maybe they need a big lesson that they cannot fool us. To say that they are just fooling around with those women. But the hurt is unbearable and it's not right that we allow them to hurt us.
@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
@hamolove, I'm also confuse on your situation with your boyfriend. I think you should investigate on him secretly. Maybe he's keeping something from you. What if he is already married that's why he can't ask you to marry him. Many guys are just like this. I experience it with my husband. He's telling a lie and he's portraying somebody else to another woman so that the woman will fall for him. That's why sometime's i pity those girls that was fooled by my husband. :-(
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
..nobody can ever define love.. you will only know and understand love when you feel it..
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
i would do anything for love^^ even i got hurt and humiliated before for a guy and he didnt worth it im sure there will be one that will worth it. i dont mind to get hurt bcs at least im showing my love. and if he doesnt want or doesnt value it is bcs he is not right guy. i think if we love really we must do all we can for that person. bcs love is to share, to give, to care^^ without expect to receive so^^ sure we want receive too but if we dont at least we are happy bcs we showed it^^
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
I totally agree, I think I will also do the same thing. I will take the risk just to the win the person that I truly love. I will be ready to face what ever it takes in fighting for the one I love, I should be prepared to the consequences that might come along the way. One way or another, If I might win or not at least I did my best and nothing to regret of in the future. But of course I will only do this for the person which I deep love and is 100 percent deserving of my sacrifices.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
of course.., before I invest my emotion on someone.., I need to make sure and determine if that person is worth the time and effort and emotions involved.., I wouldn't wanna shed a single tear to someone unworthy of my love.., But if that person is worth it.., I will definitely do everything I could to make him feel the same way.. But if he wouldn't return my feelings.., I will stop pursuing him.., Just want to leave myself a little self-respect..=_
