dapers

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time to unwind!!!

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 2 Sep 10

So what do you usually do to unwind after a long day of work? For me, I'd cook really something good for dinner and watch TV, with a bottle of beer and chips, with my husband afterwards...cheers!

unwind

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dapers Ice cream in front of youtube watching martial arts, fails, funnies, and reactions to shock sites.

29 Dec 10

How to break a bad habit

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 31 Aug 10

A friend of mine likes to bite her fingernails most of the time. I told her a couple of times how it looks disgusting when people notice her with that bad habit, but still she can't stop it. I can't tolerate seeing her doing it in...

biting nails

habit

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dapers When I was still a kid, I bite my toenails. In public.

29 Dec 10

pda!!!

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 29 Aug 10

PDA or Public Display of Affection, is it good or bad? It depends on what the society would dictate, I guess...Some may be able to tolerate it, but others are disgusted by it. Liberated or not, what can say about this?

display of affection

liberated

society

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dapers Tell them to get a room or something.

29 Dec 10

What if the woman you loved for a long time refuses your marriage proposal?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

Alright then, you proposed to the woman you've loved for a long time and she said No, how would you react? You will feel depressed and embarrassed with all your presumptions that she didn't love you at all after all the things...

marriage proposal

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dapers Love endures all things. Including the short period of selfishness the woman exhibits.

29 Dec 10

How can you be so sure that you will marry your Mr. Right?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

I heard so many stories about how a couple started out just fine until after a few years of living together realized that they are not meant to be with each other. They, their children, and other people around them suffer too as...

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dapers The stories you hear are biased. The couple are just too lazy to work things out. The term "Right" depends on how much you want to care for your relationship.

29 Dec 10

What to do when feeling strange?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

Have you ever felt that strange feeling when you feel so empty inside and you don't know what's causing it? I'm having that feeling sometimes that even when I'm out with my friends they would notice me very quiet and would ask me...

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dapers It is God's way of telling you: "Let's talk."

29 Dec 10

Who would you choose between a couple who are both your friends?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 24 Aug 10

My friend confided with me last night saying she can't deal with her husband(who happens to be my friend) anymore. If I were to weigh and balance the situation, I know my girl-friend has lots of points that made her want to leave...

help

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dapers Choosing one over the other means you're not sure yourself. Stay strong for them, and they will realize the solution.

29 Dec 10

Would swallow your pride for your friendship?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 22 Aug 10

Would you say sorry to your friend even if it's not your fault? Would you humble yourself and swallow your pride just to save your friendship?...Well, if our friendship is deeper than the ocean, I would...But we have to talk about...

pride

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dapers Yes. Because in this lifetime, you only get one chance.

29 Dec 10

Live-in vs. Marriage

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

Practicality wise, some would say to live together before marriage would let you know and realize if your partner is the right one for you. You'd get to know what kind of person your partner is and vice-versa. You'd both be able...

marriage

partner

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dapers More often than not, people who delve into live-in partnerships fail to think before doing so. Successful relationships not only involve true love, but also adequate planning. But not all marriages are successful.

11 Oct 10

SILENCE means YES???

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 9 Sep 10

I don't think so...When someone is being asked and then he paused for an answer, that only means he/she is uncertain about it.

silence

silent

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dapers Silence is being tactful.

20 Sep 10

What makes you sad?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 9 Sep 10

If you were to ask me, goodbyes make me sad. Hunger makes me sad. Dramatic movies make me sad. Sickness makes me sad. But seeing frustrated friends and loved ones make me even sadder...

sad

sadness

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dapers If I know you right, sadness makes you go into a food spree. J/K. For me, anything that doesn't go my way makes me sad, but afterwards I feel better after thinking "well, it could have been worse". I'm thankful anyway.

20 Sep 10

How tough are you in watching Drama Films?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 9 Sep 10

We laugh while watching comedy films, we got angry when we hated the character in the story, we scream and shout with horror movies...but what about crying while watching a drama film? How tough are you to stop your tears from...

drama

watching drama

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dapers I wet my eyes easily if I can relate to the scene.

20 Sep 10

Would you give your cell number to a stranger?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 12 Sep 10

"Can I have your number?"---If a stranger approaches you and would ask you this just because he/she thinks you're cute, would you give it? ...For me, if he/she would tell me it's for business matters, more likely I would give...

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dapers No (even though it would boost my ego if I ever experience one haha).

20 Sep 10

What do you usually do on your day off?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 14 Sep 10

Me? I just stay home, cook a special meal for my husband and son, watch DVD with them while munching chips and cookies, and sometimes have a bottle of beer or a glass of wine with my hubby before going to bed.

day off

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dapers Sleep.

20 Sep 10

straightforward/frank???

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

Well as for me, as much as I wanted to, but sometimes it's really hard to tell someone directly what you need to express in words especially when you know for yourself that it can hurt that person's feelings. So most of the time,...

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dapers Man invented "tact" because of people who can't accept things. It is a white lie. True honesty has always been there from the beginning. Be honest, and you won't need to think about it later. Tell a lie, and it will bug you for all eternity.

20 Sep 10

plain kiss

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 13 Sep 10

Honestly, can you give someone a ROMANTIC KISS if you don't have any feelings(love) for him/her? Cause I can't see myself doing it...For me, an intimate kiss is as sacred as an intimate love making.

kiss

romantic kiss

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dapers I think there was a misconception between romantic mood and romantic action. Romance, according to wiki, is: "love emphasizing emotion over l-i-b-i-d-o". Romantic mood/atmosphere is different from an intimate action. If you try to do a romantic kiss without...

20 Sep 10

What was/is your first job?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 12 Sep 10

What was/is your first job and how did it go/is it going so far? ...I was a kindergarten teacher in a christian school way back 2002. It wasn't really bad except that I have to travel an hour from our house just to get there. I...

first job

job

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dapers My first job was a contractual office clerk. It took awhile before I finally got to my field. Somehow I felt that it would have been nice if I became a teacher instead, it would have been much more fun than doing computer work.

20 Sep 10

fresh tomatoes on my homemade pizza!

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

Just to experiment, I tried to make a vegetarian pizza bun to ease my cravings for pizza. I sauteed a kilo of tomatoes in olive oil, put some onions, bell pepper, salt, ground pepper, and Italian spice to taste. I spread it on my...

pizza

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dapers Mmmm, that is good. Makes me want to go out and grab a slice of pizza. :)

12 Sep 10

Forgive and Forget?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 7 Sep 10

Can you, with all your heart, really forgive and forget? Cause sometimes it's easy to say that you have forgiven him or her, but how about forgetting everything that has happened and leaving the past all behind? Sometimes we can...

forget

forgive

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dapers Off-topic but kinda related. It's a challenge to forgive/forget your company... but justice must be served. Have you reported to DOLE yet?

12 Sep 10

What do you love to do with your fresh strawberries?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

Hi strawberry lovers! Whenever Strawberries are in season, I make sure to buy a kilo or more in a week just to satisfy my cravings. What I often do is wash them, chill them, and get ready with my favorite Nutella spread where I...

strawberries

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dapers 1. Rinse with water and eat. 2. Rinse and repeat.

8 Sep 10