am i falling inlove with guy?? even im a guy myself?
By mrcupid21
@mrcupid21 (200)
Philippines
August 29, 2010 7:58pm CST
this happened during the night we hang out with friends,... we had some few drinks and laughter. i dont know why i end up attracted to a guy. cause everytime we look each other my heart beats faster even my girlfriend was there with me.... the thing here is that, the guy is also always smiling at me.. hahahaha funny but some kinda confuse or something. but i know i am a guy a straight guy
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6 responses
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
30 Aug 10
sounds to me like you may be getting ready to switch teams and come out of the proverbial closet LOL
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Aug 10
No absolute pun intended here friend, perhaps there was too much to drink and well a bit of confusion lapsed your frame of thinking.
I am 100% woman and do not know if I could actually have these same feelings about another female, but maybe perhaps there is a bit of sway here, it is not to say that you are gay or not.
Maybe this person just sparked some form of curiosity that no other male guy could.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
30 Aug 10
Maybe you're trying too hard to convince yourself that you're straight 
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
you were drinking right? i would say if you are sure that you are a straight guy, then maybe what you feel was not attraction. it was supposedly the same hormone that could be the enhancer for attraction between men and women, but since you were drunk, you think there was something about you two looking at each other.
Have you talked to this guy after the incident? i wonder if he remembers that you guys had an awkward moment there for a time...
you said you know you are a straight guy, but there are quite a lot of going ons too in our lives and things and our preferences do and might change... just be grounded and know what you want for yourself, you do not want to hurt your girlfriends feelings.. and you sharing this with us already means you got confused with yourself too.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Sounds to me like your in the crisis of being in the middle. 
I don't mean to offend you but I just have different guy friends who have gone through the same thing as you. Like the feeling of having butterflies in the stomach when they look at another guy. Or that feeling of a sudden urge, an attraction that they can't explain. My friends initially said they were straight but in the end, they have come to a realization about themselves that they are actually bisexuals after all. I guess you are just in a state of confusion, gender confusion perhaps? I suggest that you won't keep thinking about "that night", you already have a girlfriend so focus on your relationship.. But if you gradually think about that night no matter how much you don't want to, then I guess that might be a sign that you do have a gender confusion even though you or people know that your straight. I hope you'll be able to figure it out soon.
Best of luck
I don't mean to offend you but I just have different guy friends who have gone through the same thing as you. Like the feeling of having butterflies in the stomach when they look at another guy. Or that feeling of a sudden urge, an attraction that they can't explain. My friends initially said they were straight but in the end, they have come to a realization about themselves that they are actually bisexuals after all. I guess you are just in a state of confusion, gender confusion perhaps? I suggest that you won't keep thinking about "that night", you already have a girlfriend so focus on your relationship.. But if you gradually think about that night no matter how much you don't want to, then I guess that might be a sign that you do have a gender confusion even though you or people know that your straight. I hope you'll be able to figure it out soon.
Best of luck
@940306 (17)
• Malaysia
30 Aug 10
I prefer you throw that feeling a far side... except if you wanna turn into transexual, huh?, i dont know.. it up to dude... before you get "Identity Gender Disorder".... some people when he get this sick,there take Hormon Pil. to control Man Hormon... i dont say all, i said some.. okey... sorry if my word hurts you feelings....
