I fell in love with my Hubby all over again, has this happen to you?

@34momma (13882)
United States
September 2, 2010 10:14am CST
My Hubby have just recommitted to each other and I can tell you I am so in love with him. I mean it's like when we first met. I just want to spend every moment with him. We have been together for almost 7 years now. Trust me it has not been all roses and sunshine!!!. Even through the hard times, we stuck together, worked things out and came out on the other side even more in love! Have you ever recommitted to your spouse and found you are in love now more then ever?
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@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
:) I have read everything here, 34momma. It was kind of a journey for me, a wonderful one at that. Made me believe in love again.:) It made me say how I wish I' will gonna get that feeling, too, for my husband. It has been years that I don't really feel much love about him but an obligation to love him... Along the way, I have lost that feeling, long story, though... But, one day, before I laid myself to rest, I'd like to be in love with him again if not more even just the way I used to.... My congratulations to you and your husband.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
7 Sep 10
i thought i lost that feeling for my husband at one point. but there was just something in my heart that said keep hope alive. keep pushing keep loving him anyway you can and it will all turn out fine. and that's just what happened. we were really dealing with some hard times. but we both came out of it more in love with a greater respect for each other!
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
Sweetloveforeve, thank you so much for extending your generous heart to my sad soul.:) Im not sure anymore how to make my husband see that it is not the material things that's important above all, it is his love. But I resigned to the fact that he will never care that much. Even for the kids, he told me that it isn't necessary to really spend time with them or give them his full attention since his here most of the time. Hei's here but it seems that he doesn't exist or we don't exist for him....
• Portugal
4 Sep 10
aww eureka :( so sad that you dont feel love for your hubby anymore :( i wish he could care more for you^^ if he did for sure you would love him more right?^^ why dont you talk with him and tell him how you feel? maybe things can work again^^ if you guys are together you should try or else none of you can be completely happy :( anyway if you need to talk im here^^
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
2 Sep 10
Well we haven't been together that long yet, sweetie. But i am glad to hear that you and your hubby have such a wonderful and loving relationship. They say that when you have eaten the first 7 bags of salt together, you can do and eat anything together. TATA.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
2 Sep 10
LOL well we have eaten about 20 bags of salt in the last 7 years!!! so everything after this is all gravy!! LOL thanks
@manleyjoe (1597)
• United States
2 Sep 10
Sausage gravy would be nice.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
2 Sep 10
Wonder what gravy that would be then?
@JudithP (295)
• Canada
2 Sep 10
Congratulations! Isn't it an amazing feeling. When Michael I first got together we figured it was just a fling. A year later we realized we had become best friends. We were together constantly and did everything together. It wasn't long after that we realized we were in love. This year we celebrated our 20th anniversary by getting married. In his Cristian ceremony I became Mrs. Croke. In my native ceremony he became Mr. Pine and part of the Turtle Clan. I still find it hard to believe that twenty years have come and gone. There hasn't been a day that I would change.
@34momma (13882)
• United States
2 Sep 10
Oh my Goodness Judith!!! that is so awesome. and it just so happens my Husband's name is Michael too! LOL the time has gone by really fast and I tell you thru all the drama and pain we have come out the other side better people and more in love! I wish we too see 20 years still in love like school kids!!
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@JudithP (295)
• Canada
2 Sep 10
I hope you have many, many more. The secret, keep talking. Simple.
@JudithP (295)
• Canada
2 Sep 10
By the way thank you for the Best Response.
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• Philippines
3 Sep 10
wow! that is so great that after 7 years of being together you can still fall in love with your hubby all over again. im happily married for 5 years now and everyday i still discover new things about my hubby that makes me love him even more. you are right to say that its not all roses and sunshine, you have to work things out, be submissive to your partner, give your full thrust and respect, always stand by him and show him support every step of the way.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
7 Sep 10
you have to talk to each other and listen to each other. you have to pick our battles and know there are no loser at the end of the day! I am in love with this wonderful man and I want the world to know!
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
yeah, i totally agree with you! never let the day end without settling any arguments.
@len1415 (195)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
That is maybe because "love is sweeter the second time around."
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
7 Sep 10
hey what ever it is, it's working and i am loving it
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
it's happening to me everyday..i fell like im loving my husband more and more each day.. i felt like i cannot live without him,his the first thing that i can think of when i wake up and he's the last thing on my mind before i fall to sleep..
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
7 Sep 10
good for you marianpantewynn! it's such a great feeling
• Portugal
4 Sep 10
aww this is very romantic^^
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• India
3 Sep 10
We are doing this almost every day! Its been 13 years for us now and like you, life hasn’t been a bed of roses… in fact, life could have been a lot harder, but by God’s grace we both know our limits and know how to be happy within that limit. We have our regular tiffs but we both know its more of a childish mock-fight than anything serious. We both are of same age and more friends than spouse. He’s more matured than me … I look for every excuse to spend with him, in fact my best idea of a lazy weekend is just both of us together, doing nothing but yapping throughout the day LOL
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
7 Sep 10
that was the weekend we had. we spent most of it in bed just watching movies and being together. we hung out with the kids and went shopping and had breakfast at the dinner. but mostly we just hung out together laying around and sharing ourself with each other! it was amazing!
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
That is just a great feeling to be in. I am not married and I don't have a special someone right now and I really envy people who do have someone and wish that the relationship would just get better and better, that the bond of love would be always there. Don't forget to let him know you appreciate him very much.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
3 Sep 10
Hi Laydee.. I will be sure to remind him every single day how much he means to me. How grateful I am that we have been giving this chance to love and take care of each other.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Wow this is a wonderful post to read. It's good to read something beautiful as this and it looks inspiring to me as well. I felt good inside knowing that somewhere out there still some couples are truly in love and committed with each other in spite of so many problems nowadays. It's comporting to know that after all marriage is nothing to be afraid of. The only problem is how to find the perfect partner for me. I think most coupes can withstand the trials in a marriage life if they just remain in love with each other. After all it's love that bind them together and they should keep that flame of love alive at all times.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
2 Sep 10
trail and error. you keep trying and trying until you found what works for you. and we have found what works for us and that means everything. it's the difference between staying and working it out and just giving up and moving on. thanks Reckon
@shira0524 (482)
• United States
2 Sep 10
I'm divorced, though I have remained very good friends with my ex. I don't see that something like that could ever happen between us as we've realized that we're very different people now than we used to be. But I think that's great that you've fallen in love with each other all over again. Keeping the heart and feelings strong is the best way to get through the tough times and it sounds like you're succeeding at that! Congratulations!
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
2 Sep 10
thank you Shira. trust me it's work. it's a lot of damn work. but when you look at all the rewards you get from putting in the work, it's worth it. We have happy children, which makes us happy and we can talk open and honestly with each other. Even with the truth is not alway easy to hear or say for that matter.
• China
2 Sep 10
HI 34momma How are you doing today. Congratulations. I am not married yet, so I am very sorry I cant feel that. But, I know it is absolutely good thing! I hope you an your Hubby will be happy everyday. Keep going!
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
2 Sep 10
Hi Greenteab!!! your time will come. and when you know you have found that right person, you too will make sure you do what ever it takes to find a way to make it work for you too
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
well. he's not my husband yet. just my boyfriend. we broke up before. many times! i can say. everytime i break up with him, he'll beg me not to leave him. so one time, when he said "yes, lets just stop the relationship" i cried. and said sorry. and i realized that i really cant lose him. that i REALLY love him. and im even more inlove with him now :) im just really lucky that he never stopped loving me :) he even said that he loves me more each day. LOL i dunno if that's true :))
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
2 Sep 10
you have to believe he is being honest with how he feels until he proves otherwise. Enjoy the moments of feeling so wonderful and happy and in love. nothing is ever promised so enjoy the moments
• United Arab Emirates
2 Sep 10
Wow....I really love your feeling....i am missing this. It is said " marriage is falling in love many times, but with the same person." I have been waiting to get this feeling. I hope will happen with the dawn on the new year. paitience...patience and patience...is all i have at the moment.
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
2 Sep 10
it's a great feeling. and it does take a lot of patience to deal with any person day in and day out. You will find that person for you. in time
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
wow that is nice i wish i can feel that too but im with my boyfriend right now almost going to 3 years but we love each other same as we did before .. so i guess im very much inlove with my boyfriend future hubby
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
7 Sep 10
you know i learned how important it is to not only tell him but to show him how much i love him every single day. it has really gotten us a whole lot closer
• Philippines
4 Dec 10
Hi! I am so happy for you. I want to be like that too. I'm not married yet. But someday when I'm already married. I want to be in love too like it's the first time. Because I can imagine what you're feeling right now.
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Wow! I am happy for you. My parents separated when I was little. It always makes me happy to hear or read about stories such as yours because it gives me hope. It strengthens my faith and my belief that true love exists. I am still single, but reading your post has reminded me of a poem written by our hero, Benigno Aquino, Jr., titled "I Fell in Love with the Same Woman Three Times." It was dedicated to his wife, our former president, Corazon Aquino. They, too, have an inspiring love story. They had been through tough times together. Benigno was a political prisoner. He was vehemently opposed to the dictatorship in our country and for that, he was imprisoned for seven years and his wife stood by him all throughout. Those difficult times only strengthened their love for each other. When he was killed by an assassin's bullet, his wife made his cause her own and eventually restored democracy for us, her people. President Aquino said she never remarried because she could never love any other man the way she loved her husband. Thank you for sharing your story. I wish you and your husband the best!
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@34momma (13882)
• United States
2 Sep 10
wow that is a great love story. for me, it's just about knowing I have a good man in my life and I am ready, able, and willing to do the work to make things work. it's not always easy. sometimes i want to knock his head off!!! then there are those moments like now where I look at him and see him for the first time all over again. And i find myself more in love with him now then i ever was.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
2 Sep 10
I wish...
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• Portugal
4 Sep 10
aww so cute^^ im happy for you and your hubby^^ it seems you are more happy than ever before^^ anyway about me that didnt happen yet but would be good if happened^^ it just means that even after so many years together you guys are still so happy that means you are meant to be^^ very cute^^ so you did right thing marrying again^^ congratulations and i wish it lasts forever^^