What kind of person are you?

@Absinto (2385)
Portugal
September 5, 2010 7:54pm CST
Everybody is diferent in their own way. There are happy and nice people, others can be grouchy and rude. I am shy to people that i dont like and i am nice to those i know. I am not an affectionist i only let abou 3 friends of mine hug me and one of them is my boyfriend. I dont say hi with a kiss on the cheek to many people either, i get scared sometimes. I am not a person that is very easy to get along with, only those who accept me can be my friend because of the way i am. How about you guys? What are you like? Do you think people now a days are all the same or totally diferent?
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17 responses
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
me i am a shy person and silent when i am in a crowd full of strangers but i can be very funny when i am with a group close to me=) i am affectionate with words like telling my friends i miss them and telling them i appreciate their presence in my life but i dont do hugs and kisses=) only to my family i do that coz i dont feel comfortable doing it with my friends especially in front of their boyfriends or girlfriends hehehe that would be awkward hehheh=)
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Yaa. sometimes i am like that but it depends on the day Thanks for the response
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
no prob....i like sharing my personality every once in a while...=) it is nice to share some things about us it makes us proud of ourselves right???? hope it is enough to let people have an over view lols///////=)
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
6 Sep 10
I am the type of person that has sometimes found it hard to make friends but I have a really nice circle of friends that I have fun with laugh with and talk for hours on the phone and give big hugs to and if they are hurting or upset I'm there to listen...
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Wow you must be a very nice friend :) They are all lucky to have a friend like you Thanks for the response
• New Zealand
6 Sep 10
It's good to be brought up in such a nice background. It makes you a better person.
@jennbart (1330)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
I am not friendly. I am not used to do cheek to cheek like most people does. But I know once people gets to know me, I am with them 100% once we became friends.Even if I lack sleep. Once a friend calls me and needs me, I will go where my friend is. But once I sense that I am being called just because they need something from me. I will steer clear with them for the rest of my life. Once I feel neglected by the people I am being friends with. Goodbye. They will not be able to reach me anymore after that.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Thanks for sharing.
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
im nice to everyone^^ i usually smile much and talk sweet to people in general^^ i love to smile to people in the street ahah i think i sound like crazy girl ahah anyway im shy also in beginning when dont know person but when i know already i talk so much that i cant shut up ahah also i get hurt very easy, i cry very easy what is not good^^ anyway im a simple girl not dress like want to be noticed^^ im just simple but like to be sweet to everyone^^
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
I am not a very big fan in smiling, i am though, like you , at first i am shy but then i ust cant seem to shut up :) Thanks for sharing
@kiko14 (46)
• Bulgaria
6 Sep 10
I'm a very positive and social guy. I have many friends and I can't stand without them and without my family too. I also like to meet with a new people.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
I guess you would go crazy without them seeing to your are are social guy :) Thansk is a good thing, thanks for sharing
6 Sep 10
I am very calm person and I can't get angry on anybody because I just don't care. I am very lazy and I don't want to do anything but when I play tennis :D:D:D: thats something else :D:D:D. So there is a girl which is into me and i dont like her because of her big nose an i dont want to say anything to her ( that i dont like her) because i dont want to hurt her feelings. But when im pissed of i can even hurt someone badly and i can tell her all i thing about her
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Ya when i am mad at someone i tend to throw all her secrets and bad stuff in her face. If i want i can be the meanest person here :) Thanks for the response
• United States
6 Sep 10
I have been described as others as a shy, but outgoing down to earth person. Others have described me as the funny insane exciting one. and my husband says that i am an unselfish, over sensistive worry wart.. LOL i believe that i am all of those and a bit more. I dont like to talk to people that i dont know IF i HAVE to ( appointments, ordering food, PTA meetings.. etc. ) BUT i LOVE to just randomly talk to strangers on the street when i am acting all silly. There are times when i really dont care what others think of me ill act the way i want when i want and where i want, i dont care how old i am, BUT at the same time there are times where i want to look my best and be perfect so i really care what others think.. I try so hard to give and give and not expect anything in return, but then after so long of giving, i feel as if i've become a door mat and everyone is tranpling all over me, and i would just appreciate a little appreciation... I dont need or want the finer things in life, i just want my small circle of friends and family that i love and i know that love me back, where i can lounge around and be me all day without feeling out of place... OVERALL MY OPINION : I think that i am an unselfish, self concious, loving, friendly, FUNNY person!!!
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Hehe being the way you are is how it should be, you should be how others expect, soo i like the way you act and think, Thanks for the response
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 10
i was just totally like u. but the different is i am not shy to talk with stranger and make friend with them. but i won't let them hug and kiss even my cheek. if they are different from the first impression i will just said to my self that they r only human who have weakness and strength.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
You are right, Thanks for the response
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
6 Sep 10
As a child i was very shy and introverted. i had very little self confidence. I was very unsure of myself and was never really happy with how i looked. Now that i am older, some of those childhood qualities have vanished. i am much more outgoing as a person. I think i have a lot more self confidence. I try to be a caring and honest person because that is how I would like the world to see me. I treat to treat others with the same kindness and respect that I would want for myself. Life is too precious and too short to try to be something that we are not.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Nice to know you have changed in a good way :) And you are right we cant waste time trying to be what we are not when we can save time being what we are :) Thanks for sharing :)
@artistry (4152)
• United States
6 Sep 10
....Hi there Absinto, People though having some things in common are different. I am a person who likes people, especially kind people. But I am not one who has a lot of friends, never have been one to want or have a lot of people around me. I think that it comes from my being a creative person. I write a lot, I paint and draw and I am a creative thinker. A lot of the things like the remote control vacuum cleaner, the VCR, the parachutes for planes, I had the ideas, not the concepts but the ideas years before they were invented, just didn't have the money or a backer to get them on the market, but one day I'll be ahead of the game. But anyway. I love talking to people then I go on my way. If you would be interested in my writing please go to www.authspot.com/writers/quiet+voice.8137 and read, please leave a comment. Check out "Red Rodeo in Texas" you may like it. Thank you if you do visit. Take care always.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Thanks for sharing, I will try to take some time and see your writing. :)
@monkeylong (3139)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Sep 10
As far as I am concerned, I think I am a person who usually never give up in my daily life. If I decide to do one thing, then I think I will just try my best to do it well and never give up ,till succeed in the end. For me, I think I do not like the people that are almost the same. I think everyone should has his own character to be diffierent from others.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Yes, sometimes it get irritating seeing someone trying to be us and not theirselves. Thanks for the response
@T_Diamond (965)
• New Zealand
6 Sep 10
I'm nowhere near perfect, but I try to be as understanding as I can. Kind, someone you'd like to talk to or hear about.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Hehe i want to hear about you :P Thanks for the response
@jeffyryi (78)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
Im silent but friendly, I'm not that person who pick friends but I have different personalities towards them. Im a happy-type, self-motivated, and willing to share but full of secrets...harmless by nature :)
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Everybody is full of secrets Nice to know these things Thanks for sharing
6 Sep 10
I am a jolly person. But, people saw me snobbish on the first met. I am very selective to everyone. But, when you become my friend I will love the person inspite of everything more than my own sister.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Hehe people always think diferent about us when they dont know how we are :) THanks for the response
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
I am sensitive to others' needs but I have demons in me as well when being provoked. I chose to look at the positive side of life and I don't force people to like me. When it comes to friends, loyalty to one's friendship is of great importance to me. I open my world to those who open theirs. In this way, I can get to know them better and can weigh if they are worth my friendship. :)
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Thanks for sharing
@sjhaeki (795)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
i still believe that everyone is different no matter how many obvious similarities there are. i tend to shy away from strangers and have a harder time getting along with guys and it takes a few minutes to days for me to actually feel comfortable around them and it actually depends on the other party's treatment to me too. i find it hard totally expressing myself. i pretty much have an open mind and i try to judge as objectively as possible. i can be persistent and stubborn then be accepting. guess it's like i'm a contradiction in itself because i can be this but i can be that, i want to make a balance within myself.
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
wow Thanks for Sharing
@ankster (273)
• India
6 Sep 10
Iam a very sincere person in terms of handling my duties and responsibilities towards my family and relatives.Iam a shy person but yes with whom Iam close to Iam very close and for others Iam a shy and quite person.I lack confidence in few things.Iam not able to explain myself clearly and sometimes I land in trouble and that results into self torture.Iam a deep thinker and oversensitive and that can be reflected in my oversincere attitude which I know people can misuse but I cant help Iam like this only.My families love me very much.I have a deep desire always to make my hubby and in laws happy all the time but I am very sensitive and I do not say my pains to anyone.Iam a big tolerant but sometimes a big foolish.I am mature in many situations but sometimes I behave in kiddish way.In all Iam a cool person with balanced tempermeantal attitude
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
Thanks for sharing Nice to see how people are around here :)