Do You Like To Be Alone?
By dramaqn
@dramaqn (1990)
United States
September 6, 2010 7:15am CST
I hate to be alone. I know, how can I ever be alone with six children, trust me I am. I love my kids dearly and glad they have plenty to keep them busy.
I have a friend who loves to be alone. He likes being in his own little world. I don't know how or why, he does it. I don't like to sleep by myself either. I'm starting to think I may have some problems. I don't like to eat out by myself either. The only reason why I can now stand to be at McDonalds by myelf is because I'm using their wi-fi. I should probably get a handle on this but I don't know how. Of course this could explain why I have such a rough time with relationship break-ups.
I'm going through somethings this week I tell ya, and my mylot friend is M.I.A.
Hopefuly he sees this soon. He always know just what to say to get me through my dilehmas.
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22 responses
@simonelee (2715)
• China
7 Sep 10
Hello dear. Being alone sometimes is all we need for us to understand our self further. Know what we want and reflect to our selves. I think your are dependent to others, your happiness depends on people surrounding you and that's not healthy. You should also learn to see things without them, appreciate all either good or bad. Feeling lonely is a choice and you also have a choice to be happy.
Back to your question may answer is yes and no. Yes, because i want to clear my mind from negative thoughts, i want to relax my muscles from a busy environment. No, because being alone sometimes depressed me. Feeling unwanted,lonesome and hating my self for no reasons.
Back to your question may answer is yes and no. Yes, because i want to clear my mind from negative thoughts, i want to relax my muscles from a busy environment. No, because being alone sometimes depressed me. Feeling unwanted,lonesome and hating my self for no reasons. @dramaqn (1990)
• United States
10 Sep 10
Thank you for responding. I hear everything you are saying. However, I have yet to find anything good that comes out of me being alone for too long. I'm everso often reminded that I don't have a mate when I'm alone. Also, no matter how hard I try, not good, positive, or constructive comes out of my being alone.
But I guess better to keep working on fixing this than to be on medication.
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
Sometimes, i want to be alone. But if its only when I feel too exhausted. I locked myself in my room and dont want to be disturb. But if not, i really enjoy the company of family and friends. I like to hang out with them. Go out of town and relax. Let just respect people who have their own world. Maybe they found peace and enjoyment being alone.
@dramaqn (1990)
• United States
13 Sep 10
I like going out of town. I treat myself to a little weekend getaway every birthday. Somewhere secluded, in a little cabin, with a hot tub outside, and a glass of whine in hand. Nothing like being in the hot tub outside in March(in Ohio. Talk about relaxing.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
6 Sep 10
I am sorry you are feeling lonely dramaqn, I hope your friend returns soon. I have one child at home now and because I am trying to work on my story, I prefer to be alone. Though what I do hate is eating alone, that is one time I believe family should be together to talk about their day, etc..But I am fortunate if I get that once a week..:(
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
12 Sep 10
i HAVE NO PROBLEM BEING ALONE, GUESS I'M JUST USE TO IT. hAVE BEEN ALONE ALOT MORE THAN I HAVE EVER BEEN W/SOMONE. I can pretty well entertain myself most of the time. Mylot is alot of company to me.
@nikhilgupta14 (236)
• India
6 Sep 10
I love to be alone but only at certain times. It is only when I feel depressed or when I am feeling sad about something. This is the time when I feel that I need my own little world to cope back to own self.
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@dramaqn (1990)
• United States
13 Sep 10
Oh yes, you and I are definitely on the same page. When in those moods you need that little bit of alone time to get back to who you are. It's not a time to sulk, but a time to get your ducks back in a row and process the thoughts in your mind without interrruption.
Thank you for responding and sharing your experience and feelings on being alone.
@minx267 (15527)
• Hartford, Connecticut
8 Sep 10
I love to be alone.. I spend most of my time alone. I work third shift... Alone.
I go home and although I have 4 dogs and about a dozen or so cats and 2 roommates.. I don't have to interact with my roommates much.. I prefer the time I spend alone.
I would say on an average week.. I spend about 75%-80% of my time alone. I interact with people briefly (beginning and ending of my shift) my roommates for a few minutes here and here during the day.
I talk to people on the phone at all hours... but I don't have to deal with people much in person. And I really do like it that way- mostly.
I much prefer the company of my animals to that of most people.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
7 Sep 10
I am not the kind of person that would like to be alone. Being without anyone would be too lonely of an existence, We all have moments that we want to ourselves. Sometimews we just need a break from our daily routines to reflect on what is important to us. Still, i wouldn't see thay as a reason to want to be alone.
@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
9 Sep 10
well drama :) if you need help you can count on me too^^ anyway im so sorry that you feel lonely :( i understand you bcs having six kids around you can still feel alone bcs you dont have a bf now is it? :( so you take care of them alone? im sorry that you are being through this :( but soon you will find a sweet guy that will love you and help you not feeling that alone :) also anytime you feel alone you can count on me and also other people here in mylot :) for sure noone will turn his back and will listen to you and advise you ^^ me too i dont like to be alone and feel alone sometims bcs dont have bf :( but i know that soon i will find him ^^ we all have someone destined for us^^ just sometimes takes awhile till we find him^^
@alma_vparas (98)
• Singapore
8 Sep 10
As the sayibng goes no man is an island so for me it is a natural feeling as a human being to be with somebody and we all need that. But in your case, you seems to be afraid just by the idea of being alone. I think, there must be some problem which you still don't know how and why it came to tha point. I wish you will be able to fight the feeling. Because we sometimes needs to be alone. You may start by looking back what brought you into this and little by little you will understand why and by that time it will be clear to you, you will find the right thing to do to finally make it alone. I wish you all the best. God bless you!
@ankster (273)
• India
7 Sep 10
I love to be only in company of people whom Iam comfartable with.I and my hubby are staying in India and our parents are outside India so we have to manage everything on our own.We give due respect to all our family members and relatives at our place but yes in daily routein I wish to live alone with my hubby peacefully..
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
9 Sep 10
I'm single right now and I can't say that I really like that. Like everything in life it has it;s advantages and disadvantages.there are certain moments when you feel the need to have someone next to you : for example when you have a health problem...of course there are friends to support and you have family also...but you feel the need to have someone a little bit closer than that.in conclusion...I kinda hate being alone
@nguyenmlam (130)
• Thailand
10 Sep 10
To me, I don't like to be alone at any means, but unfortunately, i'm usually alone...hix, luckily, I'm one of Mylot family, then I'm not alone anymore!
@screwdriver (643)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
There are times I want to be alone. I dont have any problem being alone specially when I need to think on something, I want to be alone than having someone disturbing my thoughts....
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
7 Sep 10
I guess no one is like to be alone, i'm also didn't like to be alone, i feel lonely if i'm doing everything alone, that's why we as socialize people, really need somebody to accompany us, and i think our reason to live is to live for other person
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
I do, most of the time like to be alone when watching tv,eating at home and sleeping. I hate noise people kept talking about trivia on tv and asking me questions.
@carpediem17 (1315)
• Singapore
7 Sep 10
There are times when I like my own company and other times when I feel I will enjoy the company of others.
But generally - I'm quite good with being alone as I have a lot of things to pre-occupy myself with. 
@yeyelee (370)
• China
7 Sep 10
I hate to be alone too,but the reality makes me alone and i have been familiar to it.Eating alone,walking alone,i have benn on the brink of breaking down.My girlfriend immediately hang up after i just said one sentence.I really hope she could have extended regards to me,even one word.And i phoned my dad,we just have one topic:my living expenses.I feel so lonely.
