People really get on my freaking nerves.

I understand Saphrina. I too have people who judge me wrong. Anyways, at least don't talk to me thinking whatever they think. But, if i had someone complaining about me like that, behind my back, i would be pissed too. After all, they have never tried to see the real picture. And on top of that, they would speak behind your back. Go Saphrina.. I know you are a good player in this game.

I agree you are the best in playing this game. You still have a lot of growing up to do sweetie - to leave games behind and have some adult conversation you know. :)

Bad day? Yeah, we should be very careful making comments about people we don't know all that well, even people we do know well. Naw, I don't think I'll take you on. I'm a wus...

Okay now. Good night everyone. It seems you've all gone to bed. So let me conclude this discussion by saying, Don't judge a book by it's cover..... Read e-books instead. [i][/i] Ain't that something? The morale of the story.

Some people's favorite pastime is talking about other people's lives and making themselves feel better by putting down others. I have met people who are like that and I always feel sorry for them because they lack self-esteem that is why they go about destroying others. The best thing to do is not to mind them. Let them burn in hell.

Having read the thread I'm taking it that someone elsewhere has rattled your cage. Only the RWNJ(on SodaHead)seem to try that with me any more, and they just seem to block me when I will not accept their 'I am right and you are wrong, now go away because you are boring me' attitude to discussion. If you remember the 'basic logic'joke, I suggest that if you get hold of her she will soon get hacked off if you drag her around using just one leg................

Hi Sweet I totally agree with you and it makes me mad when People do this, or when they say "You don't want to get to know him/her as they are horrible It really gets to me, at the end of the Day I will judge myself if I want to know the Person or not I do not need People telling me that I do Good on you Girl, stand up for yourself

Some part of the last statements same familiar to me though. now can you place tell me what happened? Honestly I don't really care about what people say now. And I am not into judging asnother people even I know him/her already because I do not want to be judge too. Perhpas I can relate my story this morning, when I arrived at the office, someone just told me something on what to do, ==hell== did she knew what was she talking about? Did she know the particular job I am doing????? She is very pioneering to this company but still she never knew on how to approach people in a right way!!!!!! That is freaking nasty though!!!!!! So now what, can you tell me what happened angel?????????????

Hi, saphrina. No one could have said it any better than saphrina herself! You are very right! Many people don't know you so that don't have any business judging you at all. This also goes for people that have seen you but have not even been around you long enough to know who you really are. It is very crazy that people are like this. You have a very high self confidence level, so what they do to you will just bounce back off. They can just talk to the hand because you ain't trying to hear them!

Hello saphrina. I hope that you're in a better place (or mood) now, than when you started this discussion. I know what you mean about some people that really get on your/my nerve. And like you said, most don't know me at all, and I feel don't have the right to even say somethin. I think what happens in our daily lives is just a reflection of what we see in society. Just open the TV and you see people, judging other people because they think they know it all, or they think they are morally upright! ...relax...

OMG you seem to be really upset and you have a valid reason. I agree with you that it is just unethical to start saying things about anyone you barely know. I believe that people like these are perverts and have no other work to do. They do not realize what consequences such things have on the others. Now why are you upset? The person who was told about you should 1. if that person knows you, would ignore all that was told or 2. if the person doesnt know you, maybe now has a different opinion about you, should this matter to you? There are so many people and you cannot force people to stop thinking about something. Yes, you should take some action against the person who started it all. But that again would not have better results... So my thinking - ignore the people who behave like street dogs - let them bark.

Having read the thread I'm taking it that someone elsewhere has rattled your cage. Only the RWNJ(on SodaHead)seem to try that with me any more, and they just seem to block me when I will not accept their 'I am right and you are wrong, now go away because you are boring me' attitude to discussion. If you remember the 'basic logic'joke, I suggest that if you get hold of her she will soon get hacked off if you drag her around using just one leg................

Most people understand the concept " don't judge a book by it's cover" but yet ignore it. I never try to judge a person first hand. I actually used to do this when I was younger. There was a girl who had practically all the same classes with me and I never knew her personally but from my observations I assumed she was an annoying, mean girl who gossiped about everyone. Then one day she began talking to me and to my surprise she was one of the most nicest and loving person I had ever met. She was a really fun person and easy to talk to as well. Oh and by the way she did gossip but only minimal and it was only things that really bugged her about some of her friends. I myself have been judged many times. For some reason people tend to think that I'm a mean person...I think it's the way I dress. Anyways it's a horrible feeling when someone hates you although they don't know who you really are...For some reason just because one girl hates me I start to think that other strangers who see me will have the same perspectives about me. Many people are oblivious to the fact that judging a person solely on their appearance is the worst thing to do.

Yes, you are right. No one should judge someone before they get to know them. If someone doesn't take the time to get to know you then they shouldn't be given the right to give a judgmental opinion. Have a great day Saphrina.