How do the woman get inlove?
By Hannah10
@Hannah10 (83)
Philippines
September 11, 2010 4:09pm CST
after 6 months i was madly falling in love with an old man have some big age gap,,he is more older than me with in 50 years..what should i do?i don't want to lost him
4 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
11 Sep 10
Although it sounds unlikely for an 18 year old to fall in love with someone of this age, well you are discussing this is your case.
Are you sure you just do not have deep caring feelings maybe? I can see how a young person as yourself can fall in love or perhaps confuse it for love. But how about the 68 year old man, if my mathematical skills are correct.
He is the one that is the mature person who should know the difference. Is he too falling in love with you?
I suppose as parent of a teen I would be opposed completing and find it odd, but then what can I do to actually stop it. So please weigh out all the differences in your decision when it comes to love. You may find that it is a caring situation as opposed to love.
Be well.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
11 Sep 10
I think you perhaps need a break maybe. If he loves you, you would know that. Time can only tell. Good luck to you.
@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
29 Sep 10
wait if you are 18 so the man are 68 years old?waw that's old enough, girl!
what do you see from him? did in your life for this 18 years, you are lacking of attention from your family, and then he show up and you feel like he's the only one who care and love you?
if that what happen to you, it is not love, it's the attention that you need, not love.
but if you have a lot of attention from people and still you love him, well i dont know the answer. but in my opinion, you will be a young widow if you still insist to be with him. are you not love your own self?do you want to be a young widow and a mother of your child that will grow without their father?
you have to think about it sweety.
@msdedicated (25)
• United States
12 Sep 10
Hi hannah i am 30 years old and have always dated older men. I just think i have a stronger attraction to them. I say follow your heart. A heart knows no boundries. Just make sure you are ready do deal with the things people might say about you dating an older man.
@gharah (49)
• Philippines
18 Sep 10
Hi, do you really think its love? romantically? or could it be that it's a fatherly love?
Anyway, when your inlove, everything around you glows. You're inlove when all you want is to hold him, and always look forward of being with him. You're inlove when things you feel like, its just the two of you in the world and nothing more matters but him.
