gharah

@gharah (49)

Philippines • Age 45

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99 days to go before Christmas!

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

How time flies! Yesterday it was 100 days to go, lol. When I see Christmas decors on tv and hear Christmas songs, I feel excited and all. Mmm, I still don't have any list yet. Have you made yours? I wonder what...

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gharah And now its just 98 days to go :) I still haven't thought of what's my decor theme for this year...i still need to feel the christmas spirit before i get myself to work about it. Though christmas songs are everywhere now and malls are filled with christmas...

18 Sep 10

Would you marry with out your parents?

elsoft12 @elsoft12 (1821) • India 18 Sep 10

Last month has been very tough.Some one close to me has married without his parents knowing about and still thinks he is hiding the fact.In India,marriage is a family affair and parents celebrates their child's marriage.This...

marriage

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gharah I absolutely wouldn't want to marry without my parent. I have always been looking forward for the day that i walk down the aisle escorted by my parents while my beloved groom is waiting by the altar. Someday, soon i'll get there...it would be one sweet...

18 Sep 10

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How do the woman get inlove?

Hannah10 @Hannah10 (83) • Philippines 11 Sep 10

after 6 months i was madly falling in love with an old man have some big age gap,,he is more older than me with in 50 years..what should i do?i don't want to lost him

hannah

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gharah Hi, do you really think its love? romantically? or could it be that it's a fatherly love? Anyway, when your inlove, everything around you glows. You're inlove when all you want is to hold him, and always look forward of being with him. You're inlove when...

18 Sep 10

its takes a heart to loose weight..

yurijhel @yurijhel (57) • Hong Kong 18 Sep 10

With so much food the world has to offer and the lack of discipline of the people we gain so much weight. I myself still battling to loose weight not for the good looks but for my good health. I should have made myself busy from...

eat less to live longer

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gharah Me too, im getting depress since im having a hard time losing weight :( I gain weight so easy, i use to reduce weight too easy simply by eating pineapple and papaya but now, i don't know. Maybe because of the age, that reducing weight is requires much time...

18 Sep 10

which do you prefer to live, in the city or in the rural area?

deriellevc73 @deriellevc73 (982) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

having the chance to live in the city and in the rural area as well, i would say i am in the position to choose which place i want to settle and build my dream house in. The city, with all its glittering lights, night life,...

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gharah I work in the city but take a 2 hour drive to home everyday. I prefer living in the rural area. I love seeing the rice field on my way own, i love the breeze that carries the smell of rice grains...the stress from work fades away whenever i'm on my way home....

18 Sep 10

afraid of getting fired?

clouds0327 @clouds0327 (1389) • Philippines 17 Sep 10

I am... I have made a few posts about my boss. I have a very difficult boss.She is really demanding and sometimes impossible. But I love my job so much not just because I get my main income from it but because I...

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gharah I had been lucky of being with good bosses who treat their subordinate as friends but not forgetting that they're in higher authority. However, i also felt that fear of losing a job especially that, the job is the only income that sustains me. I was once...

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i love you, goodbye

cyatibarra @cyatibarra (123) • Philippines 12 Sep 10

its hard when you have to say goodbye to someone you love. Not because you want to, but you have to. You have so many reasons to stay, and so many reasons to go. And yet, it doesnt balance out anymore. In fact, it seems that you...

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gharah While im writing this, im listening to that song by Celine Dion (lol)--- and it brought me back to the tiem when i said goodbye to someone so dear to me. It takes lots of courage and strength to say goodbye to someone so nice to you, who had pure intentions...

13 Sep 10

How Do You Start Your Morning?

kittenclaus @kittenclaus (1393) • United States 12 Sep 10

I am such a creature of habit, lol. Every morning I do the exact same thing. I get up, first go to the bathroom (of course) then go into the kitchen and start a pot of coffee. Make my way back into the bathroom to put in my...

start the day

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gharah Hmmmn -- i nevever really take notice of what my routine daily after getting out of bed...and now im taking some time to see if its a habit i have formed :). My dog, barbie sleeps in my room. Usually she sleeps on the floor but when she finally realized...

13 Sep 10

Favourite color

srisiva @srisiva (199) • India 7 Sep 10

Hi buddies.. Just wanna share with you that my favorite color is **Violet** and what about urs???

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gharah I always go for green. Its always relaxing seeing green things around, i find it so lively. Green to me is life and calmness.

7 Sep 10

how will you deal on anger?

bokal2703 @bokal2703 (802) • Philippines 7 Sep 10

there are times when someone is too angry over something or sometimes to you. I have a friend who often express her anger to the point of yelling at me or to anyone she can vent it out with. Most of the times, I just stay calm and...

anger

tolerance

venting

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gharah It's always best to deal with an angry person after he/she cools down because when you respond to him/her during that moment when that person is very angry, you might say things you would regret saying in the end and might even make matters...

7 Sep 10

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what is your reaction in earth quake?

mastermindskt @mastermindskt (1050) • Pakistan 7 Sep 10

what is your reaction in earth quake? my reaction is i am run towards the open area or ground.

earth

quake

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gharah I had a traumatic experience on earthquake. So now, when the ground shakes even just a little, i get too nervous. I was 11 yr old when our province was hit by a magnitude seven quake. The ground shake every after 15 minutes. We were obliged to leave home...

7 Sep 10

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Waking up Before Time of Alarm

mlhervas @mlhervas (482) • Philippines 6 Sep 10

I find myself waking up before the time alarm sets off. But I still wont get up and just lay on the bed like sleeping. Then after a few minutes the alarm goes off! That's the time that I get up....

alarm

alarm clock

waking up

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gharah I also usually wake up before the alarm rings. My sister once visited my place and shared the bed with me. When i woke up early she asked me why i wake up so easy without hearing the alarm clock buzz...maybe its the body clock in us. And i feel allergic to the...

6 Sep 10

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I am not a good mother, because I left my daughter

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 6 Sep 10

It is said that women is the great mother in the world. For have 2 years old of my daughter, I am not a good mother. For my life and family, my hubby and I left my hometown and came to another city to work, with sad left but no...

family

mother

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gharah Finding a living for your family and enduring the hardship that comes with it only shows that you're a good mother. You just have to keep the communication line open so as not to make her feel being left out.

6 Sep 10

People who ask for to many rides????

ANIME123 @ANIME123 (2466) • United States 6 Sep 10

I actually don't like it because I have a friend and she kept asking me for rides and I find it kind of annoying because you know gas does cost money now a days. I figured if she always asks me for rides she should at least pitch...

people asking for rides cars gas rude help

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gharah Maybe once is enough but if she makes it a habit, its best to talk to her and ask her to provide her share.

6 Sep 10

work abroad or work here?

ergfortes @ergfortes (516) • Philippines 6 Sep 10

I am now in this situation where i am confused whether to go back abroad and continue working there or stay here in the philippines and go back to my BPO career. I worked in Dubai as a singer for a year the money is good though...

abroad

philippines

work

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gharah Most of my siblings are working overseas, thus my relatives are expecting me to follow their footsteps. But they were disappointed in soem way since i decided to work here in the philippines and got contented with the little pay i receive every payday. I would...

6 Sep 10

Lonely or alone type?

Lore2009 @Lore2009 (7378) • United States 6 Sep 10

Which type are you: dependent or independent? Can you go out and enjoy activities all on your own or can you only enjoy activities if someone is always with you? I think I tend to be the lonely type but I still enjoy times...

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gharah Ever since college, i had enjoyed living alone. I hang out well with a group but also likes a time alone more often than not. I can stay at home the whole day gardening, watching, of not reading novels. It actually depends on your mood. Its a choice to be...

6 Sep 10

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