God, help me please...I'm so much inlove...

Philippines
September 12, 2010 8:40am CST
i'm so much inlove with this girl, but i don't think she's liking me in return...i made few mistakes that made her mad, and it's due to my inexperience with women...i'm a really good guy and i don't want to end up being obsessed. God knows, i really love this girl, and though it pains me, i know she's liking another guy...i already volunteered helping to make their thesis, just to lessen her anger with me...but in three times they go to my house, it's a disaster...first night, she got lump...the second night, she got scared with my dogs...the third, the thesis chapter they're doing is deleted because of my deep freeze program...i'm so helpless and guilty...i hope someone can really understand my situation...
3 responses
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 10
chill...i know how it feel. i hurt someone i love. i never meant to, but sometimes i just have some bad luck. everything i did just make it worst. all i do is keep my self away from the one i love and try it in another time. thank god it works..
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
12 Sep 10
whats your meaning ifa?
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
you see, lupin, if you have given your all and still nothing works out, you might want to look at other option. Since you said he is already liking another guy, you might then try to reconsider on being good and nicer to yourself. It is okay that you are trying hard to make her fall for you, however, you should not let her abuse your kindness and likeness to her to the point of doing everything. You should also not blame yourself for the events where you do not have control over. But if you really like that girl and you think you can wait for her to like you too, my advice will be, make your presence known to her, but don't suffocate her with all the attention. Sometimes, it is better to give it space for her to at least miss you at some point. It is okay to show to her how special she is to you, but do not let her see you as someone who will follow her every instructions. Being at your best is a good thing, but too much of it to the point of losing your self value in front of the woman you like will be unattractive...just be yourself...don't try too hard..
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
You know your situation is normal and God wants you to learn something on it. Of course if the girl likes you she will not get mad totally. Clarify things and know her real feelings.