Is he following me? You be the judge of this.
By cream97
@cream97 (29087)
United States
September 24, 2010 8:46am CST
My neighbor really makes me feel so uncomfortable. It seems like he is keeping up with me. Yesterday, I walked my son to his bus stop. And guess who we saw? The downstairs neighbor crossing the street to go to the Young's Market store. And that same afternoon as I was walking back towards our apartment with my oldest daughter, he was leaving in the van. I was just coming back from meeting my daughter off the bus. Now this morning, can you believe that he left out his apartment the same time that I was coming from out of my apartment to. He was carrying a laundry basket that was full of clothes. I thought that he was going to leave out after this, but he did not. He carried the clothes and put them into the van. I had a bag of trash in my hands and I had to past him as I was walking to the dumpster, he kept looking at me. I was leaving with my son to walk downstairs so that I could walk him to his bus stop. As I was locking my front door, the guy was coming out of his apartment too. I truly believe that he can hear what I am doing in my apartment. He knows when I am about to leave out in the mornings and in the afternoons. It is mighty funny that he is always around when I go to drop and pick my kids off and up from the bus stop. What is with this man? I am afraid to talk loudly in my apartment. I know that he is listening and watching. I can feel it. Ir gives me the creeps.
Then some time this week, after I met my daughter from her bus stop. He was standing outside talking to his baby mama outside of our apartment building. Why does it seem like he always has to be around when I am coming and going. He can leave any time that he chooses to, but why around the same time that I am coming and going out? No one else around here does what he does. Only him.
Then some time this week, after I met my daughter from her bus stop. He was standing outside talking to his baby mama outside of our apartment building. Why does it seem like he always has to be around when I am coming and going. He can leave any time that he chooses to, but why around the same time that I am coming and going out? No one else around here does what he does. Only him.1 person likes this
13 responses
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
24 Sep 10
That guy is really trying out my patients, sweetie.
Did you talk to your husband about this?
I honestly do not trust that one.
Try to change your timing with 2 or 3 minutes and see what happens.
If he still do the same things, tell him you are going to call the police for him, okay.
Luck.
TATA.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Sep 10
sap;hrina are you as scared for cream as I am? I think she should go to the police and take out a restraining order for this nut.Its not funny a
bit. my stalker almost killed me.Now he is still in prison for attempted murder of another young woman.
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@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
25 Sep 10
Hatley, she should tell her husband about this and they should move as soon as possible.
Stalkers are bad people, no matter what you do you cannot get rid of them, unfortunately.
She can call the police, but the problem here.
He is living in the same building.
I hope she an get rid of him, though.
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@luxlyangels (1286)
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24 Sep 10
Mere coincidence.
What do you call him,your neighbor right?
well to me that means you will be seeing him al lot.
By the way are you married or do you have a man in the house,mayb hes just hitting at you.
Anyways if you are really feeling unconfortable i suggest you go tell the cops ok.
Goodluck and HappyMylotting.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
24 Sep 10
Hi. luxlyangels. I should not have to see my neighbor every time that I go out. Why is he always present when I am leaving and coming? At the same time? I have other neighbors, and I don't hardly see them come and go the same time that I do. So tell me what do you think about this now?
@luxlyangels (1286)
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24 Sep 10
Now cream97 as a rational thinker i would ask you this question.
What if your neighbor complains exactly what you are saying now to his friends??
Then what is going to be your response to that in defense?
Dont get offended im just trying to prove a point.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
24 Sep 10
I would say that he is truly a psycho that needs some mental help. If this guy is watching me like a hawk and keeping tabs on me, I have a right to be concerned. Answer this, if you felt as if you were being watched would you or would you not be somewhat concerned? If you said yes, then you know how I feel. If you said no, then you should be more alert because you may never know when someone will strike. I am not trying to get smart with you, if that is what you are assuming. I am just trying to give the facts to you as they are real and true.
@celticeagle (159318)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Sep 10
It is creepy and seems more than a co-incidence. You do live in close proximity to one another. I would hope that this guy had more to do that creep you out. May not. I am glad you are moving. I think this guy has really done a number on you and the sooner you get out of there the better off you will be.
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
25 Sep 10
Hello my friend cream97 Ji,
I think there is no relationship, it might be by coincidence, as let's think from your neighbour's angle, it appears same thing, your neighbour too might be thinking the sam eway. So what I think, you invite your neighbour for a cup of tea and discuss everything. I am sure you will find it very easy afterwards. Take care.
May God bless You and have a great time.
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 10
I would be as suspicious as you are. Try changing your routine, go to a bus stop 10 minutes earlier, do your things earlier. Would he still find something to do at your changed schedule then he is definitely have something on mind for you. Be careful and let someone knows. So, this someone would be able to help you watch for him.
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
24 Sep 10
cream this is really getting scary and each time I have read that he has done something else I can't help but wonder about your safety.
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@cbar86 (80)
• United States
24 Sep 10
That sounds like quite the scarry situation. My best advice would be to go with your gut. If a neighbor is really "creeping you out" like that, you might want to consider moving?? It doesn't have to be far, but at least get out of the same building so you can feel more secure. If you do develop a stalker-like situation, where he confronts you and gives you real reason to worry, make sure you call the police. Stalkers are no fun to deal with on your own.
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@vahnpaper (14)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
Maybe you're just being paranoid, it could be just coincidence you saw him everywhere. Just be careful anyway.
@kjones505 (271)
• United States
25 Sep 10
This may be all in your head. It sounds like the guy is just living his life and you are searching for something sinister. I am giving the guy the benefit of the doubt because Iv'e been on the end of being accused of being The "creepy" guy and it is not fun.
I don't believe you mentioned that you ever spoke to the guy. Why don't you say good morning to him one day or start a conversation. You may be surprised that he isn't so dangerous after-all.
