Missing/Disappearing mylotters....

Philippines
September 24, 2010 8:56am CST
Hello there, First, i just wanna let you know to those who had been here a while that Kent_helpsmile is somewhat no longer around here, then boybato as well. i noticed his discussions but when i checked their profiles and they were gone. for all of those who didn't knew him(kent), he's gay. i don't know what went wrong but i hope i am mistaken and hoping that he has made another account here. Second, our favorite Lotter Mykl or Lamb_lies_down had also left mylot. but he did mentioned that he will delete his account once he got his pay out. he happened to be one of the most popular from mylot. unfortunately, am not sure if he's around again.. Any one you know from mylot who's been missing / disappearing all of a sudden. thanks.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Sep 10
I wondered what happened to kent, sweetie. Lamby, well he will be back. He cannot live without us. I miss Opal as well. Hope they will come back, though. TATA.
• United States
24 Sep 10
Opal? I wonder if it is the same Opal I am thinking of? I have noticed that lamby's newest profile hasn't made a post in a while, and now that you mention Opal, I haven't seen her around for a while either..:(
• United States
24 Sep 10
Yes, Lamby is another story isn't he???
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Sep 10
I am sure we are talking about the same Opal, sweetie. I really miss her. Lamby, well that one is another story.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
24 Sep 10
I guess they could have applied for unpaid leave from the management. They sure be back soon as mylot is difficult to detach once you're online.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hello Zandi, But some of their accounts are gone? i mean, if they just took a break, why just leave it there and not cancel it? i am going to miss them. am glad i added Lamby to FB. he might have an answer right now as if why he didn't come back. I check it again, he hasn't had any answer at all. maybe he doesn't want to come back.
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 10
I hope he is reading this post. And where is mysdianait? She is also missing in action. It is quiet here without them.
• United States
1 Oct 10
MysD is away from home for a while and does not have Internet connection for the most part. Hopefully she will be back soon as there are a lot of people that miss her sunshiny presence.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Sep 10
hi letran Are you kidding, really, Kent help;smile is no longer here, I know I had not seen any of his discussions for quite awhile.He was a rather sweet guy and I had the awful feeling that there were several here who were flaming at him a lot.and Lambie also known as Mykl is leaving again. I am so sorry, he is a really great person and so wonderfully sarcastic, we need his spice to liven things here. why are these people leaving, or are they being driven out by people who are horribly narrow minded or just plain prigs? I really liked Kent too and also our Lamb . I am sorry to see them leave. I do think that Kent wmight have been driven away from here, and thats just plain sick. he was a really nice person t oo.yes theres one lady who was full of sass and she has left too and now I do not remember her user name but she was from Scotland and she always told it like it was without any taming it down. I got a huge charge out of her. we need people like these here and we should welcome them not chase them away; sad so sad
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hello Hatley, Actually, Mikaela_taz told me about it. then i check his account, and it was no longer there. it's sad really. i don't know or recall any person that actually flamed kent because he doesn't have that much participation in the politics section. but i knew he had problems too, i didn't think he would leave or close his account. Mommyboo, i won't leave and won't allow the BAD CROWD. this Knight and Shining Armor is here to stay.
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
25 Sep 10
Hi. LetranKinight25. I had no idea that these two mylotter's were gone for good! I did not know that Kent_helpsmile is gay. I am not seeing many members that used to post to my discussion. Faith210 and camomom hardly posts anything to my discussions. I don't know what has happened to them, but I sure do hope that they are doing okay. I have not heard anything from them in over a year! All I can say is that I hope that that all of the missing myLotter's are doing just fine!
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• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hello Cream97, Yeah, he is. miss the person, i noticed it when he's making discussion about guys, then later he admit it. but others aren't remembering things that they kept asking his gender.
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25 Sep 10
It’s weird because although I am on here most days, it’s only for a few minutes instead of the hours I use to spend and yet I noticed that certain people haven’t been around much, many of which have been mentioned by others. I just put it down to that after a while everyone needs a break from here and then return when they start to miss it even if they do delete their accounts. Hopefully those you mention which have deleted their accounts will appear again as it’s always nice to see the familiar names and faces cropping up.
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25 Sep 10
Hi LetranKnight25 lol, that's because I am a lurker usually found residing in the movie interests. I am sure people will return and make their pressence known once more.
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• United States
1 Oct 10
"That's because I am a lurker" I knew that there was something about you that drew me to you the first time that I read one of your responses, and now I know what it is. You are a guy after my own heart.
@maezee (41985)
• United States
25 Sep 10
What difference would it make if Kent was gay? It's weird that you included that detail. Do you mean to imply that people may have been badgering him about his sexuality on MyLot or something, so much that he might have left? We are all adults..I would hope this wouldn't be the case. I've also noticed that "Lamb_lies_down" hasn't posted any new discussions or anything lately. I am not even really a regular quite yet (I am too inconsistent and not personable enough haha)..But I HAVE noticed this. Why did he quit? Just because he was sick of it, or because it wasn't paying enough? Hmm..it's sad to see the regulars go!
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Sep 10
maeezee it should not make any hellish difference but there are some here who will harass if they find out hes gay and sadly that happened several times to Kent. It sure did not make any difference to me. I liked him and his discussions too.We are all adults but some adults are more childish than others and are also narrow minded prigs.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hello maezee, That's because when ever kent makes a discussion about liking a guy celebrity or an artist, lotters would assume he's a girl using a male account. more over, some makes fun of his discussions as if he doesn't mind, some even accuse of him as a poser. so, that's i added the fact that he's gay, he's gotten tired of trying to say that when ever people asked him if he's a girl or not. As for Lamby, People with the grudge had been rating him down. so, that's why. it's sad..
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• United States
1 Oct 10
Maezee, I am glad that you asked why it mattered whether or not Kent was gay, because I was wondering the same thing myself. After reading the explanations that Hatley and Letran gave, though, it makes a lot more sense why he added that statement. It is sad that people were harassing him, especially if that is why he decided to cancel his account.
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
NOw that you have said that letranknight, I'm an old member, and I just returned back to my lot. :)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
yes, by the way, I'm a fellow Filipino. =)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
I hope you stick around and be active again.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
minnie_98214, perspective, secretbear, roniroxas, checapricorn. i know boybato and i have to admit that i havent seen him lately. well there are a lot of people that comes and go. some others are at the rest only and i do hope them will come back here. some maybe are too busy already with other things to do. lucky for me that i still can come here but there are times that i can not log in for a week or month. it is said that the population is around 200,000+ but i dont think that we are all active.
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• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hello SeventhBird, Yeah, but I don't know much about Minnie or Perspective. so many had gone a lot lately, but they were others who had returned that i didn't think it exist. well, there was a time that i didn't log in or not active a few months ago. mostly likely, because of PC Crash and 2010 Elections. i hope they do come back.
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@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Sep 10
I know Kent was going through some things. Sorry to see him gone. I don't think I knew boybato. And Lambie can't stay away from here, I"m sure he'll be back some time or another.
@dawnald (85137)
• Shingle Springs, California
24 Sep 10
No, I sure haven't! Hopefully it's just that she's been spending time with the grandchild...
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hello Dawnald, What Problems? the last thing i knew was he had problems with his Boyfriend or something. i only wish what ever problem he had, could have at least told us in this. i know you've been into lamby's FB, but i don't see him making a wall there about mylot. just so worried right now.
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• United States
24 Sep 10
I have not seen mysd in a while have you??
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@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
17 Oct 10
Oh riight, so that's what was missing. I mean I used to get a lot of notifications from a specific myLot friends. I just thought my absence in the site as well as contributed to the notifications being less. I guess its the absence of my myLot friends that's really causing it. I remember kent_help2smile and his opinions and thoughts really do make me smile. There's mimpi, MysD, Opal, dzzy, kala, zed, freedom, purple, Ritzy, Cannonball, and many many more friends. I think like me, most of my friends just try to come and go if we can. Our offline lives are just catching up to us as well as health issues. We can all just hope for the best.
@bjcyrix (6901)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
Yep, I know Ms.D, Opal and Purple are still here. They seem to just get myLot breaks like me.^_^ The others are gladly alive, just so you know. I see some of them on other sites.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
25 Sep 10
I didn't really notice. I've been slacking here at the Lot to even notice. But I sure do miss those names mentioned here. I haven't seen alice_in-webland, and catdla1 in a while. Can I borrow a megaphone LK so I could call their attention and pull them back in? i only encountered kent and boybato only on few occasions.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
4 Oct 10
She created a new account and I didn't even know about it? And she left without me knowing about it again????
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hello Theresaaiza, Alice is active, she created a new account, seems like a good one as well. as for catdla1, am sure she'll be back too. i only have skype though. as for those two (kent and boybato), they're gone but i hope and pray that they are doing tremendously fine.
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• United States
1 Oct 10
Alice had created a new account and was active on it for a while. As far as I know, though, she has canceled that account as well, and is not on here at all any more. I think that she needs a break, but I hope that eventually she will be back on here having fun like she used to, because I really did enjoy interacting with her.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
As I don't familiar with people here but only one. But she is inactive anymore due to her busy life with her business... Besides that I don't know any body that is missing here... Why my friend, did you miss them?
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Yup! My friend, I don't see also those people always comments on my posting. I hope they are still in good health...because I know of those good people always support my discussion is old already. I remember you now my friend...you are also the one that always support my posting and I am always post comment also in your articles... Have a nice day!
• Philippines
28 Sep 10
Hello aerous, I just check on Hornetlover in one of her comments on a picture, she's gone too. this is really sad, OF COURSE I miss them, except for one. i guess things aren't going to be the way it used to be. i just love this site, but i am sad to see the other oldies go.
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@hexeduser22 (7418)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
Darn you made me a bit sad, Letran. Anyway I just checked my friend list and there seem to be a handful of people missing in action. Kent is a common friend and yes I missed that guy because he was one of my friends who floods my email with new discussion notifications Misterwit is also missing for sometime now, I miss his witty comments. Good thing Meluan is back because she is one those I'm looking forward to interact with. Mr Lamb, I know he loves mylot and I just hope mylot does something about his problems, actually that is our problem too, people openly plagiarize our work here and we can't even do anything about it. Sagnik is also one of my friends who had gone missing. I think I scared him off when I said I'm gonna make him my personal lawyer in the future and zed_k4 last activity was 1 week ago but I guess he is just one busy guy. Anyway I hope this people, wherever they are, are happy and doing great in life. They made my mylot life a roller coaster ride. I'm sure I missed a few on the list but this is all I can think of for now.
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hello Hexeduser, Well, didn't mean to. I just can't ignore what's happening, the old and mighty are leaving this site.as for misterwit, i think he will come back, that's an assurance, otherwise, he would have deleted his account too. as for Zed, don't mind him he's just doing his thing, he'll be back. i hope they are all doing fine, but having their accounts deleted makes me worry. knowing they will have to comeback for new account.
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• United States
1 Oct 10
Hey Hex, you were gone for a while, too, but I am glad to see you back! Wit comes and goes as he pleases. I know that he will be back eventually, and then he will be gone again for a while ... that is just his pattern. The same holds true for Zed. He shows up now and then, but he is busy with other things and only has limited time. Sagnik is pretty much the same as well - he goes through "phases" where he is very active and then won't be active for a while. I am sure that he will be back, too, and I hope that it will be soon.
• Philippines
8 Oct 10
Yes I was gone for a while and now I can say I'm back. Trying so hard to organize my time well so I could post and interact with you guys more. I plan to resurrect some of your discussions once again because I'm afraid the time zone difference would be a burden for me for it will not let me jump around new discussions. So as to still continue jumping all over the place I will be visiting your old discussions that I was not able to visit while I'm away. I got review class now and it started just this Monday but its already making a big mess of my schedule so I really need to get focused and organized my time properly to pass my subjects and post in mylot every night before I sleep. I will be following your activity first Purple so expect to see me with long responses like this in those box. I was inspired by the conversation I had with someone in one of Sunny's discussion: http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/2402216.aspx Check box number 6 I will respond to it later saying that I will continue with our friendly argument when my ind is again in the mood for it because I'm already at my limit
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@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
26 Sep 10
I searched something about a topic here on mylot about 2 days ago and I found a discussion started by kent...I Have noticed that he has been inactive for so long so I tried to see his profile to check if he's still here on not. I didn't see his profile. So It was clear to me that he's gone here now. I actually miss him cause he was an active member of mylot...
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
hello Mspitot, we all do miss him. we didn't expct this to happened to some mylotters. i don't know but it makes me sad seeing our friends moving on with out mylot literally. but lets hope and pray that they are doing alright there. it's really hard not to consider what is important or not.
@mspitot (3824)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
I can accept them having thier lives outside mylot but I hope they still visit sometimes..I have loved mylot and it's sad to say goodbye here.
@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
21 Oct 10
yes buddy, i know those guys. they are the ones who were too active as we were, as you are. but definitely, neildc is not missing or disappearing. he is only taking time out to take care of his problems. you know what i mean, what we are going to right now. but surely, he will be back for good after all these troubles.
• Philippines
21 Oct 10
Hello Neildc, Well, if I knew you disappeared I'd notify the whole community. but i know personally that you got problems to take care off. and i bet those problems will be solved soon. lets keep our hopes up!keep praying neildc!
@ifa225 (14468)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 10
Hello Letran, I also wonder that why i have not got notifications again from Kent. it is too bad that MyLot loose many of its member. i also notice that Mr.Pearl ( i don't know if u know him or not) also disappeared.
@ifa225 (14468)
• Indonesia
26 Sep 10
yeah...Mr.Lamb is the good one to help newbies here. he know this will very well. and meluan....do u have some memories with him?? some special memories maybe
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hello Iffa, He really deleted his account, i try looking for it. It's either i didn't encounter Mr. Pearl or i never got the chance to remember him. but they are others that i didn't know that are coming back, probably oldies long before i got active here. i hope they can take the mantle of helping the newbies besides us.
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• United States
1 Oct 10
There are people that I find to be missing from time to time. Some of them I have contact with outside of myLot, so I know what is going on, and some I just have to hope are alright and their off-line lives are just keeping them too busy to be on here. When their accounts are deleted, though, then I do start to wonder and worry that maybe there is something more serious going on, but all I can do is to hope that they are well and just did not have the time to be on here any more.
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
Hello purple, Yes, but the ones who are gone i don't have their contact number in their mobile nor in the Facebook. it's sad knowing you wouldn't be able to see how they are doing. i wish some people would leave their facebook,friendster or what ever social networks behind. they shouldn't allow the bridge to gap again, sometimes this happens and it really makes me sad.
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hi LetranKnight! actually i also miss some of my friends in mylot, one of them is nelianocet, i hope she's still here, also singlemom, i haven't seen her lately in mylot. I hope they will be back, they were my friend since i started in this site including you. Or they have found better paying sites.
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
triplejazzm51, as for the two you mentioned, they are rarely active but am sure they got other things going for them. i don't know, even if they found better paying sites, there's no way they could just leave mylot. am sure they got other things in their minds off the net.
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@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
24 Sep 10
Hello LetranKnight! Yes, I do missed them really for they posted very interesting discussions here in myLot. I do respond with their discussions oftentimes and now that you're asking their whereabouts i just missed them all. I also noticed that gennyk, cloud31 etc are also missing/disappearing. I do hope that they will return back here, because though we're not seeing our faces in person, we just have a slice of what they truly are based on the discussions they made here. Hope that all the missing myLotters will be here again because im missing them so...
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Hello Jinjer, Gennyk is still around i think, probably busy with some other things. I haven't encounter cloud31, or probably i don't remember that user. that's right, we don't see them in our discussions but we get to know them a lot more better. i wish they would tell us what's goin on for our sake.
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@jinjer168 (1596)
• Philippines
25 Sep 10
Correct! Have a good day letranknight!
@msabc1 (88)
• Hong Kong
25 Sep 10
Hi all, I'm new here so I only have a few friends. Yesterday I found that in my profile where one of my friends is missing. I just tried to refresh several times, and then tried to find the discussions he started, to link to his profile page, and discovered that he'd gone. Disappeared in all of a sudden!
• United States
1 Oct 10
That happens on here sometimes, and often we never know why the people cancel their accounts. Sometimes it is not the person that cancels his or her account, though. I believe that Admin sometimes bans people for certain behaviors, such as plagiarism or extreme flaming, but fortunately those kinds of people are not the majority on here.