Who is sexy?Slim girls or big girls?
By xenachinah30
@xenachinah30 (597)
Philippines
September 29, 2010 9:25am CST
I wonder how i look when i become fat because eversince in my life up to know i am thin girl.Many girls wanna be like me because i dont gain too much weight.My weight weighs around 40-45 kilos only even pregnant before twice i didnt gain more weight in fact im still thin up to now.Some guests in hotels and bars where i was singing in china says i look like a model some says im too thin some says its perfect for them.I dont consider myself like that becasue for me sexy is not thin maybe slim but have good but and good boobs.I always dream to get fat but for many girls they dream to be like me.So,how about you are u slim sexy or big girl sexy?
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26 responses
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
1 Oct 10
hi sinaj I have seen girls who are large but still looked very sexy and very attractive. I have seen slim Jeans girls that look ratherblah and not have any sexinesss at all.and lush hipped girls who cou ld turn any red blooded man's head.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
29 Sep 10
I think slim girls like very sexy. And I always attracted by slim girls. Because I like their personality. Big girls are also looking good but I like mostly slim girls. What about you.
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@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
I wanna be fat ,like i said 30yrs of my life i am thin lady,It is my dream to be fat not not very fat and not for the rest of my life.I want to feel which is better fat or thin but for me i dont consider myself sexy but for men yes..hehehe...
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
7 Oct 10
Every one is different and different things appeal to different people. I think girls look sexy when they have a bit of flesh on them. Big boobs are great and so is a fleshy butt. It's not just about the body though..in the physical sense it's the way she walk and talks, the way sho holds herself and that she has a good attitude about her appearance. Add this to a lovely laugh and good nature and there is a very beautiful woman. Being sexy is not really very important.
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
18 Sep 11
Sexy isn't about the size of a person's body. Sexy is a feeling that people have and it shows with their outward appearance. It is how a person feels at times, sexy.
But it saying that, a person who is fat can be considered sexy because they are curvy. Thin people can be considered sexy because they look good in any clothes they wear. Average people can be considered sexy because they are average.
I have an average size body and most of the time I don't feel sexy. But when I dress up and put on make-up and go out somewhere, I feel sexy. So again I think sexy is a feeling.
Cheers my friend,
Chris 
@SilverKing (1003)
• Canada
29 Sep 10
It depends , some men will only go for women that are slim or of an average build.Other men don't really care if the women is a little heaver as long as they have a good personality and are friendly. I think that too many women are ignored by men just due to the fact they are not at the ideal weight that is shown in so many magazines that is an unrealistic image that only a small portion of the general population has and they should be able to pick a women just not based on their looks.
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
yes i got your point there but would it not be more good if the girl looks good and at the same also good in heart and mind?
@wiwa05 (230)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
well, most individuals would definitely answer 'thin girls' as being sexy... But for me, sexy is not being who's thin or fat. It's how a person carry herself confidently and being able to look good comfortably. It's not really the 'dress' that you wear, but 'how' you wear your dress! ^_^
@dave100503 (15)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
very well said! for me, you've got the BEST response here! good work! keep it up! ;)
@xenachinah30 (597)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
you get me sister!thats the point there.we look sexy becasue we wear dress confidently and we feel pretty thats all we need.Like for me im very sensitive to clothes im wearing i want to wear sexy looking clothes but yet so simple looking too..L.O.L.
@kyel_11 (1069)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
when i was a kid, i was very thin and underweight. i wanted to gain some weight that time but no difference til high school. when i went to college, i suddenly gain wait, and i was so happy about it. i think i am now in between thin and big. i'm contented with my figure now. :D
@luxlyangels (1286)
•
1 Oct 10
Big girls are sexy too you know.
Now there's a difference between big and excess fat.
Excess fat to me aint sexy but when a woman is endowed with boobs and bottoms and also looking fit i think that is very very sexy i mean who would say otherwise?
And as for slim girl,well i wouldnt mind .
@ivaylo2009 (973)
• Bulgaria
30 Sep 10
For me the truth are somewhere in the middle.No importance fat or slim but with these
aesthetic meanders innate for the women.Every woman can be sexy in her own way in the man's eyes.That i think.Have a nice day!
@sgt_lupin (27)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
Being sexy can see in many ways.
Being sexy in her physical appearance,slim or fat can considered as sexy.
It depends on how you carry your self as a sexy.
@tundeemma (894)
• South Africa
29 Sep 10
to me i don't believe you have to be extremely slim to be sexy, i don't like ladies that are too skinny likewise i don't like ladies that are too fat, a lady just have to balance in between skinny and fleshy to remain sexy, i love to see a woman that has some curves and looks good with her skin
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
30 Sep 10
Well, I find thin girls more attractive than fat girls, as the body looks more balanced and delicate, and the shape is nicer too. A fat body gives me the impression that that person doesn`t care about her health or appeareance. However, I don`t find big boobs specially attractive, specially in a thin body, where they look out of place. They look better in a big body.
This is only my opinion, as there are as many different tastes as colours
@princejhaizee (279)
• Philippines
29 Sep 10
For me, it is not on the figure, if you are a slim or big one. Being a sexy for me doesn't matter with the size of the body, but with the inner self! Sometimes, it looks the fat one sexy in the way they carry their selves in good way. But however, "sexyness depends on how you carry yourself!" Confidence is a must here.
@starrose_ara (784)
• Philippines
30 Sep 10
It depends on the eye of the beholder. Size has no bearing on being sexy. It is how one carries herself. I have gone through being slim and being big and yet on both instances people commented that I am sexy.
