would u hurt someone to b happy

@harry89 (2330)
India
October 1, 2010 11:40am CST
There are many people who find their happiness in others happiness doesnt matter what is going on in their life, but there are also some people who hurt others (intentionally or unintentionally) for their happiness. Do you or would you hurt someone for your happiness?
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9 responses
• India
1 Oct 10
I do get happy to see my friends happy ....sometimes I feel jealous to see why they are happy and I am not..but I do confess it... I have never hurt anyone intentionally but unintentionally yes...a lot of times...it happens...Its difficult to put your own self behind others....sometimes I also like to be listened to...agreed with... I wud never think of hurting anyone intentionally though...
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@harry89 (2330)
• India
2 Oct 10
Yea i think most of people will hurt someone unintentionally
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@Simon1223 (903)
• China
1 Oct 10
Of course not. I usually feel happy when I do something meaningful. In my view, helping others is one of the meaningful thing, which makes me feel happy. It's true that some people acquire happiness from hurting others. But I don't think such happiness is "real" happiness. If you often hurt others, eventually you'll have no friends, which makes you feel lonely. I'm sure that a lonely person doesn't feel happy.
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@harry89 (2330)
• India
1 Oct 10
i am glad to know about your thinking
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@Jadsta (269)
• Gibraltar
1 Oct 10
I wouldn't hurt just anyone for happiness. If it was a terrorist or something like that then probably yeah, if you mean like torture and stuff anyway. Don't really know what else you would mean. I guess you could say I'm a slightly sadistic person. I wouldn't hurt someone to be happy though in general, I'm just saying that it would be fun, or slightly entertaining to at least watch a terrorist, or someone I really hated, to be tortured.
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• India
1 Oct 10
I would do that sometimes because i am mostly a selfish guy and hence i care a lot about myself more than others. That's the problem with me. I hardly care about other people because i am more of a loner. I am used to living a single lonely life. So i i have got used to that kind of life. I wish i could go back in time sometimes. But hey life's gives us only one chance. One has to make entire use of that and live life to the fullest like there's no tomorrow. Cheers!
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1 Oct 10
I would do opposite, help someone to be happy.
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• Philippines
2 Oct 10
uhm, i was kinda confused as to how to answer this question of yours because it's quiet difficult to answer such thing. we'll sometimes it happens that you really need top hurt someone maybe perhaps it will lead him/her to something better that what she/he had. but, as much as possible, i will do avoid those stuffs in order to feel free in my life.
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@jugsjugs (12967)
2 Oct 10
I know that there are alot of people out there that tend to get some kind of a kick out of hurting,aswell as upsetting other people.I think that people that other people are really sad, as they seem to not enjoy their life and they think that they will cause other people problems and hurt others.I would never hurt,upset another person to make myself happy or my life happier.Mind you my life is going great.
@anurag3786 (6267)
• India
3 Oct 10
I never hurt anybody because I think if you hurt anybody then it is not good because the pain of hurts is very deep. I think a person who feels hurt by someone is not getting normal quickly. So I always care about this and try to never give pain to anybody. I think when you give someone's hurts then you also never feel happiness.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
3 Oct 10
Yes you are right, we cant find our happiness in othes saddness
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@Jadsta (269)
• Gibraltar
8 Oct 10
Thanks for choosing me as the best answer! :D I really appreciate it :)
@harry89 (2330)
• India
9 Oct 10
You deserved that mate. Your answer was best to me that's why i chose you.