Does Girl Virginity Important Now A Days?
By visavis
@visavis (5934)
Philippines
October 2, 2010 6:26am CST
Somebody says yes... yes..., but how really important to a boy being virgin his partner to be or he is the first to her before wedding or after wedding? Here you compare the girl before and today because virginity at present century is not very important. Is it big deal with the boy or if you love a girl whatever her past you will love her? Or is there still a boy looking for such girl, then if he found out that reality he run-away. How about you there? give me your shut...
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9 responses
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
3 Oct 10
Hi visavis, first of all virginity is not a public issue, it is a very personal and private issue of an individual and it is upto the girl to handle it the way she wants it to. If a man or a boy has any problems with it, then at best one can say that he is either very immature or still has a long way to go in life.....It is best for any girl not to bother with such males, that is my frank opinion....btw why dont you ask about male virginity? or is it not an issue ?...
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Thanks to your opinion and appreciate it. Sorry to contradict your opinion about asking the male virginity. Because for me male virginity is not big issue. Because male is male nothing to lose. Because boy and girl are not the same if the issue is virginity. It is public issue because girls are beyond their bounderies..
@dwin26 (32)
• Saudi Arabia
3 Oct 10
If i will ask this question in a survey manner, probably, i will be getting a reply that virginity is not important now a days...Come on folks, observe your community, celebrity, common people and everywhere, they have relationship without giving importance if the girl is virgin or not....but...individually speaking, one will say virginity is important and the other will say not at all...so leave it to the person how he will accept the girl whether virgin or not and be a good partner in life, ok....
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@dwin26 (32)
• Saudi Arabia
3 Oct 10
If the girl will remain virgin during their marriage, that would be a good and precious gift to her partner and they are those girl that this is their motto in marriage. Let me us you this,do you believe in a saying that, if you could be trusted in a small thing, you could be trusted in a bigger thing....consider virginity a small or big thing and the girl does not make any importance on this, what else do you think that she cannot give importance? Thinking some men consider it a big deal...
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
It not considered small thing of being values of a woman. But now a days such values are gone because of various alibi, fashion, being liberated. I think you can agree with me if we can asked some of the lolo's, lola's about this and they will agree with me that virginity is important to one girl eventhough not yet going for married.
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Yes if you are conducting a survey now a days your right 100% virginity is like a piece of paper in the garbage trash. So if this situation going on and on what do you think where the girls goin on 5-10 years ago - does morality stay at hand of every girls. Yes it depends on the person of accepting or not the virginity of a girl, but you can set aside such situation if you can avoid or careful of being fragile from the beginning. Do you believe that might be some out there girls are aiming that when they get married their virginity is the one of the previous gift to his partner. What do you think?
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@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
It's not worth it. Pretty funny but virginity does little to remove the aches of men. Have you seen a male chase a virgin with no common sense? Well, gentlemen still want to have a virgin lady for the sake of love but there are times that it's not bothersome to marry a NVBU (no virgin but understanding).
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@sweetloveforeve (13107)
• Portugal
2 Oct 10
i think that virginity isnt important :) you can love a boy really and you are not virgin anymore or bcs you loved other boy before in your life or bcs it happened. if you love the person really you will accept anyway. no matter if is virgin or not. we love the person with all she has right?^^ at least thats how i do when love a boy. and about run away if find out she isnt virgin that would be too stupid and too selfish of the guy. but yes in some countries virginity is very important mostly in arabic countries. but thats sad and i wish people started to see the reality and stop being so judging others. the body is our so we do what we want with it^^
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
Might be stupidity the action of a boy when he looking a girl which from the beginning she said she is virgin and the boy being proud, but later on he found the truth virginity gone - what do you think the boy next move - run-away.. because of that.
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@Karunvig (714)
• India
2 Oct 10
I agre with ya tht ppl still searchng for a virgin girl :P it seems to me a JOKE :D :D u will nvr come ot knw tht whether a girl a virgin or not until n unles u knw her history or she herself tells tht.. wat if she says tht she is virgin and dont come out to b virgin...
concept of virgin is useless dear.. a girl can lie to u and u cant do nythng.. better search for a girl who is true to u..
I prefere marryng a girl who say I AM NOT VIRGIN than marryng a girl who says I am VRGIN..
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@danielashaira (86)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
its a nice or good thing that the girl is virgin and pure, however now a days woman are more independent with confidence, they know how to carry themselves with that kind of situation. it depend on the guy if it is big deal for him or not. personally for meh, its not important anymore unlike before. as long as the woman has a good and positive attitude.
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@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
3 Oct 10
Thanks to your views, right girls today are not value their virginity. Which is an important culture value of one country. I seen most of the answers from all of you are depends on the boys if accepting or rejecting such situation. Nobody try to push and return the oldies culture which is very precious. Anyway I think through the fashion and trend of people why the right values of a girls suddenly gone.
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@tammytwo (4298)
• United States
3 Oct 10
Today if a man is waiting around for a virgin to marry I'm sure he will be waiting around for ever. Most girls do not hold out for marriage anymore. I'm not saying it's right but I'm saying it's just the norm today. If I were a man I wouldn't want a woman who has slept with every man she had a chance with but I would understand if she had a partner or two prior to our meeting.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
13 Oct 10
This is important to the person who himself/herself is virgin.
Because if the person is virgin and his/her partner has lost virginity with other it may hurt feelings of that person,initially may be adjusted but it may create egoistic problem in future.
But as per the advanced world it is very difficult to get a virgin partner
@slipz1487 (415)
• United States
2 Oct 10
In a relationship, i think that virginity doesnt matter. what matters is the trust and respect between the 2 of you.. being virgin doesnt mean that you are loyal or trustworthy or respectful or any other traits, it just means that you havent had any encounters yet.. thats just what it says.. no more no less.. its better to concentrate on the traits of a person than on the virginity of the person...
