My husband is so romantic. He loves expressing his love for me.

@cream97 (29087)
United States
October 2, 2010 8:26am CST
Last night me and my husband was sitting at the kitchen table talking. And all of a suddenly, my husband came up and stood in front of me. He got very close to me and he started kissing me. He then he took out his cell phone and he snapped a picture of us kissing. I was shocked. I laughed and I blushed! I also fell asleep sitting at the kitchen table and he snapped a picture of me in this way too. My husband knows just how to catch me at my private moments. The pictures came out so beautifully. He loved playing around with me like this. He even took off my hair bonnet just so he could take a picture of me without my bonnet on. I did not want to do this, because I didn't know how my hair would have looked without my bonnet on. The picture came out perfectly. I was very surprised that it did. When I look back at the past it was a terrible mess. Sooner or later, something told me to start praying and believing in my marriage. I told God that I wanted to be with him, but he will either have to split us up or change him and his ways. I continued to pray for my marriage to my husband. I never gave up even though we may have still fought every now and then. Now I knew that God did bless me. He worked in my favor. He heard my cries and my sadness. I remember like it was yesterday, when my husband would treat me so cruel or talk to me in a harsh way, I would cry privately in another room. I desired for him to love me and treat me like I was his wife and lover. I was the mother of our three beautiful children. I wanted nothing more but to be his one and only. I just could not be this woman if he was hateful towards me. I thank God everyday for my changed husband. His attitude did not change overnight, it took time. As I watch him everyday, he has molded into the playful, caring and sweet husband that I have asked for God to bless me with. We don't fight like we used to. We always sit and talk calmly to each other when there is an issue. If I even get mad for a second, I will hold my tongue and walk off. I just don't like fighting and he does not either. He has told me that he does not want to fight in our marriage. He wants us to be able to talk about any problems that we are having, without becoming angry with each other. We don't think alike all of the time. But what we have in common is our love for each other, and the love and adoration for our three beautiful children that God has blessed us to have.
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@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
2 Oct 10
lucky you...I wish I had a relationship like that. where did you get him? do they sell guys like that at the mall:))?
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
3 Oct 10
@llbo1981 (1237)
• China
4 Oct 10
You are lucky woman in the world.Your husband loves expressing his love for you.You can feel that you are important in your husband's heart.Congratulations to you,you find a good husband.
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@celticeagle (159105)
• Boise, Idaho
3 Oct 10
It sounds like your husband has been through some changes. You are both very fortunate. Some never learn and continue this sort of activity until something awful happens. I am happy for you. I have tried four times to find Mr.Right and didn't fare very well. You are very lucky.
3 Oct 10
it is nice to have somebody in life that treat you the way you want. hopefully both of you can maintain it. i think you can just have faith thanks for sharing
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• Philippines
3 Oct 10
cool.. thats great.. girl deserve better from their man.. thats why im always sweet to my girl.. :)
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• China
3 Oct 10
hi,cream,i admire you have a so nice family.i hope i could have a happiess marriage like yours.God belss you.
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@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
2 Oct 10
cream I am so glad as I can remember once when you said he was not treating your right, now he sound just almost perfect and you and he and your children are being very happy and so supportive of each other
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@shia88 (4571)
• Malaysia
2 Oct 10
Hi, It is great to have a romantic husband and I really envy you. My husband is not a romantic person,even during a dating time, he is not romantic enough. However, I know that he loves me and I do love him. Now, i am married to him and I am doing my best to be a good wife for him. Of course, we do have argument on and off,but after a while, we will patch back again. Sometimes, I do believe a small argument will make us know each other better. We just need to give and take in order to have a strong relationship. A trust and being honest do play the part for ever lasting relationship. Most of the time, when we do have quarrel, I will walk away and try to cool down myself.
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• India
2 Oct 10
Hello, This is why I decided not to get married ever in my life. Whats the use of being romantic if only your wife knows about it. I want the whole world to know how romantic I am. I don't hate all. I love each and everyone I see. I don't have any steady girlfriend. I don't want to be rrrrrrromantically myopic. I have, therefore, opened my heart to the wide world. Thanks. God bless you.
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@Janey1966 (24170)
• Carlisle, England
2 Oct 10
Hi cream97. In my opinion this is the sweetest discussion you have ever written. It's so lovely and I am so glad your prayers have been answered, I really am. It is wonderful that you were BOTH prepared to work at your marriage. After all, hubby is the father of your children. Your words have cheered me up immensely and I hope your marriage becomes even stronger, especially after you move from that apartment you so clearly despise...and I would too in your shoes. It's great when you are able to get out of a situation like that, it helps tremendously.
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@llbo1981 (1237)
• China
4 Oct 10
You are lucky woman in the world.Your husband loves expressing his love for you.You can feel that you are important in your husband's heart.Congratulations to you,you find a good husband.
@llbo1981 (1237)
• China
4 Oct 10
Admin,please delet one of my posting.My internet speed is too slow,and then i published the two same postings.Thank you.
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@kristeena (358)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
Hi, there cream97! I admire for your strong faith in God and the will to survive your marriage through prayers. The change of your husband is your great reward from God. He really would make a way. I pray that your marriage will continue to grow and be blessed.
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