Fighting in the phone with husband... / myLot

Husband and wife argue - Do you argue with your partner? Some people are easily get irritated by their partner and get angry easily. Why arguement can happen between the two persons that fall in love into each other, Why they start to argue after they got married? Are they not satisfy with their married life? Are they fell unhappy about their partner? I believe all these are the key point that ruin the family and ended up with divorce.

Malaysia

October 14, 2010 4:53am CST

I have a female colleague, she seem to be easily get irritated by her husband and she seem easily get angry when everytime talk to her husband in the phone. When we as her friend to tell her to slow down, she said that is how she talk to her husband, and for her that is normal. I do not know how her husband feel but if I were her husband (Luckily I am not and will never be! LOL!) I would have divorced her long time ago. I think when a wife keep scolding the husband out of a sudden will probably ruin the relationship between the both of them and later the family. I seldom argue with my wife like she does. And we never argue with the loud voice before. I believe many of us too do not argue with our partners like she does. If you are her husband, do you think that you can stand your wife to be like her and get angry out of nothing or just because of a very small matter? If your answer is YES...I would hope that God Bless You!

1 response

Patsie Hatley is Deceased

@Hatley (163772)

• Garden Grove, California

14 Oct 10

yspmyl to me it would depend on what they were arguing about.If he was being really vervally abusive to her I cannot blame her, but if she was the one picking on him she should be ashamed. Also she is abusing allher colleagues by fighting over the phone loudly. she is making all of you her u nwilling and unwitting audience which must be embarrassing for you all to have to hear. I never did fight over the phone with my husband as he was the sort of person who is easy going and not one to get angry easily but oh boy if you did make him angry you would soon know it. He was never that angry with me as he always said you are not just my wife, my love but also my best friend. You cannot get angry with someone who always makes you laugh very easily. the only time he ever got to me was his poor sales resistance to door to door salespeople. He was a pushover and oh my the junk we got that never was what the sales person claimed it to be.

yspmyl

@yspmyl (3435)

• Malaysia

15 Oct 10

I know her husband well and I believe her husband is not the type of person who like to fight, she will probably the one who start the argue and I really pity her husband to have her and being bully by her. I think a person attitude will never change if she was borne to be like that, the way she talk and the way she act is probably not so friendly to many people, and to us as her colleague, we think she is somehow consider a quite selfish person and will never care about others people's felling. She always want to be in the winning position, and will fight to win no matter she is right or wrong.