I thought I lost you somewhere, but you were never really ever there at all.

sorry i felt like you before when loved a guy like crazy and he was a big disappointment. he was my best friend, we were sharing many things and he changed. ignored me, when a girl that he loved humiliated me he didnt defend me, she said a lie about me and he doubted about my word when i said i didnt do that. and now they are happy together and are lovers. before they become lovers i already was disappointed and we didnt talk as before. i sent him message saying to forget all and be friends and he didnt even answer so. i wont say nothing to him. i was so sweet, so caring, i was in love with him he knew that and that girl also knew and took advantage of that to humiliate me so much. and he loves her so i guess both were mean to me. i dont know if he thinks i lied that day but i didnt. i was sad before bcs didnt want he thought im a liar. but he knew me. so if he wants think i lied is his decision just means he never really knew me. i wanted forget about that and i thought would love other guy again. but i put in my head he doesnt love me, wont love and doesnt care for my feelings. so he isnt the right guy for me. so i decided to look for the right one^^ and the right one found me^^ so with you will happen the same^^ we all have someone for us^^ and if that guy isnt the one dont be sad^^ it means the one is still there and will love you^^ so dont waste time thinking about who doesnt deserve it^^ cheer up ^^ and if need talk im here^^

hello bambi09! i could understand your lamentations about being hurt by love, by the man you love. however, you make your own life..you carve your own destiny. what i meant by this is that, love per se is not that bad, it's the people you choose to give your love to who are failures, who do not meet your expectations and such, you feel bad about it. you feel hurt by their lack of consideration for your feelings. you are miserable because you chose to be, its not them who is making you miserable, it is your own self. yes, they are the ones who are causing you pain and hurt, but its your decision whether to get affected by this and let it ruin your day, your life. you cannot always influence the behavior of people around you, but you can control how you react to the behavior people are showing to you. get up girl, its not the end of the world just because someone had not meet your expectation of them, falling short of what you might have imagine as the standard kind of attitude in a relationship. people could be kind but could also be heartless..and its your choice whether you will want to be pulled down by this heartlessness or rising amidst it all, to start all over again. ready to take on another chapter, another challenge in your life. you have a lot going on for you, do not spend your life moping on things which you cannot change. make the most of what you have.

Well, for me. These is what I will said to Him. [b]Why I have to thinking about You, while You never think about me?? Why I have to care to You, while You never care to me?? Better to keep move on and carry on my own life, rather then wasting my time to thinking about You. You who never considered me exist.[/b]

It is OK to feel that way because you have been betrayed over and over again. You are currently going through the process of loss and grief. First phase is the denial phase which you will tell your self that "This can't be happening" or "This is not true" then next Phase is Anger Phase which you are currently in because you feel angry because everyone is betraying you then eventually you will go to bargaining, then to despair and next is acceptance. In order to get to acceptance you need enough coping mechanisms, it may be a person or a hobby. Once you found what coping mechanism is appropriate for you, you will realize that you're not that lonely anymore because you will be busy/occupied with things that you love to do. Don't close your door. Just be optimistic and tell yourself that maybe God is preparing you for the best, the one who will love you the way you wanted. But you shouldn't leave all the work to GOd, you should be wise and learn from your mistakes. Lastly, don't search for love let love find you. Love do come when you least expect it. :D

maybe now is your hard time. but dont let yourself fall just because of men. you have your daughter in life. and it is a bless for any mommy in this world. we, as woman, can not depending on men. we have to struggle for ourself and our kid. dont worry, you will find another man that will love you no matter what you are later

I am so sorry that you are hurting this way, I don't think anyone should bear the hurt that you are carrying in your heart at this point in time. I can't relate to the pain you are feeling, but you have to come out of that darkness and into the light. I know that the person you loved and trusted the most has betrayed in ways that you never though possible, but you have to think of it this way, things happen for a reason, at this point in time it may not seem like it, but later on it will. Unfortunately there are some people in this world that disregard human emotions, they simply just don't care, but there are a lot out there that do, those are the ones you need in your life right. Put aside all the negativity and those around you that bring negativity in to you life. Right now you need to stay positive, surround yourself with those. Not everyone is evil, and untrust worthy. Right now, it may feel that you will never love again, or trust again, but don't put those type of thoughts in your head. It may take a while, but not all men are bad, there are alot of them out there that are really good and you will find one that adores you, appreciates you and will never betray your trust. I wish you the best of luck and remember keep your head up.

I know how heartbreaking it is when some one whom we love distances from us. Do not think that love does not exit. Love is hat we create and what we pursue. After may bad situations, it can be hard to get into love again. True love is always there in tis world.