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johnarvin1990 @johnarvin1990 (9) • Philippines 10 Oct 11

The situiation is im on graveyard shift and i arrive home at 12noon.. I can only sleep for 3 hrs to meet my girl friend everyday.. Tgen yesterday i felt really tired and when i went to see my girl friend i told her that i think...

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johnarvin1990 @johnarvin1990 (9) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

If your partber is working for graveyard shift.. 3am to 12noon and still you want her to be with you at 4pm so basically she only have 3 hours of sleep.. And then if she will not be there for you, you will be mad at her.. Or vice...

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johnarvin1990 I did that already haha.. Somehow it worked for a while but we got in a fight because of the sleeping thing.. I really want to know a good approach.. Because im always pushing my limit.. I will go to her house before i go to work.. Ill must be there before 6pm...

9 Oct 11

johnarvin1990 @johnarvin1990 (9) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

If your partber is working for graveyard shift.. 3am to 12noon and still you want her to be with you at 4pm so basically she only have 3 hours of sleep.. And then if she will not be there for you, you will be mad at her.. Or vice...

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johnarvin1990 I agree.. Thanks for the replies.. Actually its the other way around.. Im always feeling tired and at my work i always fall asleep because of that.. Sometimes i want to tell her that i need some rest but im afraid that she will get mad..

6 Oct 11

johnarvin1990 @johnarvin1990 (9) • Philippines 6 Oct 11

If your partber is working for graveyard shift.. 3am to 12noon and still you want her to be with you at 4pm so basically she only have 3 hours of sleep.. And then if she will not be there for you, you will be mad at her.. Or vice...

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Bambi09 @Bambi09 (227) • United States 14 Oct 10

I don't think I can handle much more heart ache. It's disastrous. I can't sit around and mope anymore, but I can't make myself get up and do anything about it. I wish all this hurt and sorrow would just go away. I don't really...

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johnarvin1990 It is easy to say that you shouldn't be affected. But if you really love that person it will be very hard. Having a past time or some activities to make yourself busy is effective as a form of coping mechanism.

15 Oct 10

Bambi09 @Bambi09 (227) • United States 14 Oct 10

I don't think I can handle much more heart ache. It's disastrous. I can't sit around and mope anymore, but I can't make myself get up and do anything about it. I wish all this hurt and sorrow would just go away. I don't really...

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johnarvin1990 It is OK to feel that way because you have been betrayed over and over again. You are currently going through the process of loss and grief. First phase is the denial phase which you will tell your self that "This can't be happening" or "This is not true" then...

15 Oct 10

starlight_starbright @starlight_starbright (810) • Philippines 14 Oct 10

Often times, people simply say "I'm sorry" when they do something wrong. some just say the words for the sake of closing out the argument without even clarifying things. Is saying "i'm sorry" enough to cover up the mistake and for...

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johnarvin1990 For me it depends on the person. Some people considers "Sorry" as a magic word and some are sick of hearing sorries it all depends on the kind of person you are dealing with. And people's reaction to the word " I'm sorry" is always affected by his/her past....

15 Oct 10

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jasonnaez @jasonnaez (134) • Philippines 12 Oct 10

Recently, we have heard about the abuses committed by religious leaders against innocent victims. There are also accounts of preachers of the word who have lived a double life, preaching chastity and abstinence in the morning and...

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johnarvin1990 For me its not a problem if you would call yourself Christian or Muslim as long as he doesn't damage or run over other people in the process. But of course you shouldn't be a poser and act like you're one just to fit in other social groups. You can still say...

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