Is it Easy to Change our current Nature ???
By naruto
@akp100 (13640)
India
October 17, 2010 8:33am CST
hello friends 
All people having different nature.. So someone can adjust with others and some may not.. If somebody is having nature who get exited and angry early in normal things then is he can change his nature !!! is it easy..
Personally I am little shy and I always feel uncomfortable in communicating directly with others first time.. But after knowing any person i always interact calmly and without a problem. My family members always told me to change my nature and to remove shyness from my nature.. I know It will be good for me to remove shyness from my nature.. But i am trying and I guess its hard to change our nature that easily and that fast..
What do you think about it.. Is it easy for you to change your nature.. I guess its quite hard for everyone as I rarely see people change their nature..
All people having different nature.. So someone can adjust with others and some may not.. If somebody is having nature who get exited and angry early in normal things then is he can change his nature !!! is it easy..
Personally I am little shy and I always feel uncomfortable in communicating directly with others first time.. But after knowing any person i always interact calmly and without a problem. My family members always told me to change my nature and to remove shyness from my nature.. I know It will be good for me to remove shyness from my nature.. But i am trying and I guess its hard to change our nature that easily and that fast..
What do you think about it.. Is it easy for you to change your nature.. I guess its quite hard for everyone as I rarely see people change their nature..3 people like this
8 responses
.. I guess with me i just need to remove shyness during face to face discussion.. As i do feel uncomfortable in first meeting.. 
Just don't start laughing when you talk to them.
I will feel hungry after that kind of imagination..
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
27 Oct 10
I think you can change your attitude, your behaviors, the way you treat people, etc., but your basic nature, no.
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
17 Oct 10
I don't think it's easy to change anyone's nature. It would be very difficult and then it's the nature which we have earned. It would be a herculean task if you ask me. Nature depends not only on us but what all we have inherited from our parents also so that would be quite tough to shed it out wouldn't you agree?
So i would say we are not just any creatures or chameleons that can change colors as easily as that. It would take time and thinking also because each person's nature is unique. People think differently about different people. So that also be taken into consideration.
I don't know abot others but i won't be able to change things as easily as that.
Cheers!
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@dapy17 (74)
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
We share the same problem. During my college days it took me more than two years before I adapted to my environment. I'm very timid person especially to my new acquaintance. I hate it when they say that I am timid. And I want to change my attitude. That's why I read self-help books and apply advices I get from it for me slowly overcome shyness. Currently I'm still on the process it's not easy to get away from the things that's already part of yourself.
@intrepidus (34)
• Canada
18 Oct 10
The nature of self usually changes by itself when we go through certain experiences in life or when you are put in a situation where there is a need for change, and you will experience that change of nature without you even realizing it. Then again, if you want to change your nature by your own means and ways, its usually difficult to do it as you have mentioned.
