How you treat ur loyal - liar Gf / Bf

@Karunvig (714)
India
October 18, 2010 1:24pm CST
u luv ur partner a lot and u text her at night but u didnt get ny reply.. u call her bt she didnt pik the call... it was 12 at night so u thought he must have fallen asleep so u also sleep... and early morning when u wake up u see a test from her 'i slept when u called.. luv u'... u smile a bit and when u go to office and update ur status message in facebook then u see tht ur gf was online till 2 at night... :P :P hu la la la... then what will be ur reaction... hw will u deal the situation... a loyal liar girf friend /boy friend... what should be done ??
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15 responses
@sriram19 (111)
• India
18 Oct 10
Oh My God.... This is like a worst case scenario...A loyal "lying" bf/gf, she is sure to put you in a fix because you love her so much so that you will not be able to confront her in the fear of loosing her, and you in the end would not even know what was or is happening behind you. Hope no one comes across this scenario. I it really really bad I can tell you.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
20 Oct 10
yup... a very tough situation to handle and wha should be the reaction NO ONE knows. and there must be no point to continue the relation..
• India
20 Oct 10
You are a dumb goose, probably taken for a ride. When you found out that she has lied on your face, don't u understand she is more interested in somebody else relationship. Wake up man. Don't u think if it had happened to your gf, she wod have taken hell out of you????
• United States
19 Oct 10
If we planned to be online together or that I would call or he would call and we missed each other and he didn't try to explain why he wasn't there, I would ask him why he wasn't there.
@macel19 (202)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
I would not immediately jump to the conclusion that he is lying. I would definitely ask him about the issue and tell him exactly what I felt so that I will be free from all worries that he is lying.I believed that the most important part of a healthy relationship is being able to talk and listen to one another. Because if you are in a healthy relationship, partners should not lie. Communication should be based on honesty and trust. If you feel that your partner cannot be trusted with small things how much more with big responsibilities, and if someone feels that I am pretty much sure that you are in unhealthy relationship.
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
haha.. oh no... of course, ask for explanation.. if his/ her lines were not that unreliable... i dont know if you`ll still give a trust.
@zenvovn (37)
• Vietnam
19 Oct 10
maybe at that time, his moblie is not by him.
• United States
19 Oct 10
Depending on the lie, will depend on how I will react and how I will treat him. If it is a minor offense, I won't react that badly, but I will expect him to make it up to me, if it is a standard offense, I won't talk to him for a few days, and if it is a major offense, he better be ready to kiss my feel.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
It's best if you're going to consult her in a fine way. If she tends to look defensive then that's the time that you confront her about her loyalty towards you.
@jamed28 (1903)
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
Loyal gf should be treated with loyal love also. But cheating or a liar gf, should be dumped.
• Philippines
18 Oct 10
Ouch that is a big issue. In my case, I'm the liar, because if I pretend that I was awake, she wouldn't stop texting me and my head could explode keep on receiving the question, what are you doing? I'm not doing anything wrong, despite all of my day have been at home and just laptop. What else could I be doing? So, something might be wrong with you or she has kept something. Peace.
• United States
19 Oct 10
Firstly I believe we have to make sure the person is okay and did not have some form of problem as to not being able to return the call and or text. However if his is a habitual act in forms of lying then we have to get to the root of the issue and determine if this person is worthy of continuing with. As what is to say that they lie about perhaps simple things and well we keep letting it go then it will lead to bigger and higher lying.
• Portugal
18 Oct 10
maybe this is too drastic but you shouldnt say nothing to her. you should create a new account with other name and try to flirt with her and see if she would flirt back. thats the only way to know if she is faithful or not. she lied to you so she can lie again. you should take off your doubts. create a new account, add some people first, then add her or she might suspect^^ then be sweet to her and try to flirt with her and see if she says that she has a bf. ask her if she has a bf and see her answer. is time to know if that girl is good or not. she lied to you so maybe she is cheating you. do this ok?^^ and dont feel guilty bcs she lied to you already so you need to take off your doubts trust me^^ the best for you
• Philippines
19 Oct 10
usually for boys their motto is "what she doesnt know doesnt hurt her" they do lie alot. not only boys but girls also do the same. Its because we know we cant get other peoples permission so we have to lie to avoid conflicts.
• China
19 Oct 10
Actually, don`t let that thing make you bad.Everybody owns their freedom.I guss both you and your Right are all yonger.People like your age specially fond their own place. Yes ,i am your fiend,but that dose not mean i have to do anything for you.Hi,kids ,do remember ,people born to freedom.
• India
18 Oct 10
see it all depends on ur love and care for that girl.also on her character. if she is loyal to u she will never lie u and if she is liar she will never tell you truth..be like her do the same with her and try to feel her that it hearts a lot if you give this kind of pain to some one.