Tamijuddin

@Tamijuddin (81)

India • Age 63

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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love without ever get hurt.. would you like it?^^

sweetloveforeve @sweetloveforeve (13118) • Portugal 6 Jul 11

hi guys^^ i was just thinking how would be a relationship where you never argue so much.. argue a bit is normal but like almost never argue. wouldnt that be so great? i know that i live a bit in...

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Tamijuddin A healthy argument always is good. God has created man and woman alike, but the sixth sense of dealing with things after a clear analysis never appears equally. Mostly guys wish to see their gal friends acceptable with good perceptions. They don't expect the...

6 Jul 11

When You Need Money Who Do You Turn To First?

KrauseHome @KrauseHome (36445) • United States 4 Jul 11

With being in the hospital last month, this means some of our Bills are not going to be able to be paid as we were expecting. This even means that we might have to make some phone calls and see if there are places that could help...

questions and answers

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Tamijuddin Whether you find solutions or not,best way is to trust up on God's help which you don't know from where it will come.Going out to your Pastor is the best way out.No matter their resources are limited, but he can appeal to the people on your behalf during the...

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What if your significant other said they want to get a motorcycle?

Michelle @infatuatedbby (94912) • United States 22 Jan 11

My boyfriend told me he wants to learn how to drive a motorcycle and get one. Obviously, if you lived in area that would be safe then sure but in the United States, to be exact - California. It isn't safe, theres a lot of traffic...

motorcycle

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Tamijuddin If your bf has got good road manners, safe driving sense, and good judgement, no need to worry. Let him buy the bike and show himself off to you by giving you a ride around the city. Wish you both safe riding and enjoyment.

23 Jan 11

What if your significant other said they want to get a motorcycle?

Michelle @infatuatedbby (94912) • United States 22 Jan 11

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Tamijuddin Why would you want to stop him, scarred of the accidents? Accidents would definitely happen if you go by walk. May your BF wanted to take you for a ride in his bike to show himself off to you. If he is able to control himself and has good road judgement, no...

23 Jan 11

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How to tell if someone is a fake friend vs a bad friend.

BurntCookie @BurntCookie (45) • United States 4 Jan 11

Ok so I personally have a few friends who are pretty fun people to hang out with and to talk to, but sometimes I wonder if they are fake friends because of an issue I have with most of them. I enjoy being around my closer friends,...

friends

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Tamijuddin I don't find any difference in friendship. A friend is a friend, that's all. Only a hand picked ones come very close to you, to your problems, to your character. You can call them your intimate friends who are true to their character. You can share all your...

5 Jan 11

Hello, I Forgot My Wallet! Can You Help?

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 4 Jan 11

Hi, I got a call from one of my friends at about lunch time here is a snippet of the discussion - me: hi X how are ya? X: Hi, I am in a mess. I invited my client over for lunch and here we are at the restaurant.... me: so...

embarrssing situation

help

life

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Tamijuddin When you invite your client for lunch, it is your unwritten duty to confirm you have everything in person, including your wallet. When your client finds you in such a mess, how do you think he will go ahead with his assignment for you. It will merely prove...

5 Jan 11

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do you believe that your bestfriend is your best enemy?

fgb_fritz @fgb_fritz (278) • Philippines 3 Jan 11

i dont think so, even you became enemy. there is respect. right.

bestfriend

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Tamijuddin Friendship, in its true sense, is based on mutual faith, belief etc. When you say your best friend, the guy is above all the other friends, so close and chosen by you. Then where is the chance of calling him best enemy. Only a friend can become best, but enemy...

4 Jan 11

How long you been in a relationship before you get married?

daiweian06 @daiweian06 (1405) 3 Jan 11

My parents never been in a relationship before they get married. I just don't know why those times once you hold there hands and then grandparents saw you they will insist you to get married. They are so conservative. Now a...

get married

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Tamijuddin Olden day marriages were always pre-arranged. They were not just like that consummated. The parents of both the boy and girl used to make thorough enquiries about the family status, individual character, education etc. etc. Indian hindu marriages also consider...

4 Jan 11

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Is it compulsory to make a ‘Resolution’ in New Year?

Sreekala @Sreekala (34312) • India 3 Jan 11

Dear mylotters, I think making a ‘resolution’ in New Year is also become a trend now. I have seen the newspapers on 1st January, which are filled with resolutions of celebrities. I watched in TV programs...

importance of resolution

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Tamijuddin At no cost, it is a must to make a resolution. The reason of those Celebrities and Media making resolutions is why we discuss them now. Who bothers if you and me make a resolution. Human life is full of die-hard achievements, some by diligence, some by pure...

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Trust

titaniumsoul @titaniumsoul (1191) • Singapore 2 Jan 11

In a relationship, is trust very important?

important

trust

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Tamijuddin Trust is very important to materialise a relationship, be it love, marriage, friendship etc. Just imagine, you are dining in a restaurant. Since you are a regular customer, you trust them to serve you a good, hygenic food. It is a cordial relationship with the...

3 Jan 11

long distance relationships: beneficial or not??

areshstarfreak @areshstarfreak (238) • Philippines 1 Jan 11

At present, I am in a long distance relationship. My boyfriend went overseas for a job abroad. He left just two days ago. Some of my friends say that I should break up with my boyfriend because he is already away from me. Chances...

boyfriend

long distance

long distance relationship

relationship

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Tamijuddin Your friends' advice is really ethical and holds good in all circumstances. Man is bound to make mistakes. Everybody takes the stride of his environment and after sometime, goes along with the stream. As your friends are afraid, true to that matter, your...

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Friends this is our new plan please give your suggestions..

Chaitra Vasanth @chaitra001 (3278) • Bangalore, India 31 Dec 10

Hi Friends.. My husband is running a catering business and we need Provision,spices and vegetables and fruits in huge amount.. Since rates are rising for all things we have planned like we will purchase spices and few provisions...

business

catering

farmer

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Tamijuddin It is a good idea to go to the farmers directly. This will work out temporarily only. You may very well know, every profession, trade or the other is pestered with union activities. It is quite natural, in the presence of a union for anything, matters will be...

31 Dec 10

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Is it good if we always bring up the past?

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 29 Dec 10

For men, the problem that has reached an end, never discussed again. "For what? It's a waste of time. There are other issues like baseball only, "so their reasons. The problem is, what they think is a waste of time turned out to...

good

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Tamijuddin Gengeni, you have failed to understand the mentality of men. Most of the time, men are preoccupied with tons of things in their mind and character. When it comes to a closure, they just brush it aside considering that is the end. But for women, every thing is...

30 Dec 10

so what if i am not invited!???????????

bhabycatch013 @bhabycatch013 (9150) • Philippines 29 Dec 10

hello mylotters, I don't want to be bitter but it makes me sad one of my long time friend is going to tie a knot this coming January 2011 and we are all excited about it :).He called some of our common friends yesterday to...

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Tamijuddin I think you might have meddled your relationship with either the bride or groom at some point of time or the other. Having been friends for 6 years, I don't find any valid reason for ignoring you to the wedding. Just over eating makes no sense because mostly,...

30 Dec 10

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bunked classes with friends

dheerajlko @dheerajlko (470) • India 9 Nov 10

i enjoy rembering how it was fun to bunk classes with my friends and enjoying that time really miss collage days what about u lot have u dont something like this ?

bunking

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Tamijuddin To bunk the classes will be enjoyable, of course. But when it comes to difficult exams, like language, it really bites you cold.

30 Nov 10