Are you a good daughter?

October 23, 2010 7:34am CST
How you treat your parents especially your mom? Well, I really LOVE my mom. But there was a time that we always fight and can stop answering all the things that she is saying. Is that a manner of being impolite? But when we are close to each other. Living in a house together with my sister and father. Only 4 in the family.
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@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 10
i am not that good enough with my mom. just like u too, we often fight, but there is a most time that we were really close to each other. however, deep inside my heart, even we often fight, she is the best mom i ever had
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
28 Nov 10
the different ages between us make the different opinion. sometimes it is hard to find a solution between two great opinion. but everybody have their own way to solve the problem. i think we just have to respect each other
28 Nov 10
Respect to each other is a good root that will go along for a long time. Just like what they are telling me to just be quiet when they're saying something about me. Just listen on them but when i heard any thoughts that not really sounds good i cant take it and say my own opinion too.
27 Nov 10
Yes we really love our parents just like they do. But still there's a time that we can answer them back and they didn't accept that. She's telling me that when she is young she never do that. In just telling the truth they will tell you that your impolite. Pretending that they all know what really happened. I think parents and child has own opinion and thought about this. Still depend on how we say it.
• South Korea
23 Oct 10
well I dont know if I am ..there were times were I always broke her rule but nothing really serious..after moving on my own..I realize I miss my mom so much... I dont know how we measure that thing..but all I can say is I been supporting her financially..and I called her everyday..saying I miss and love her..lol..
24 Oct 10
Oh your so sweet. I can tell them how much i love them bcoz im so shy. Well, Im so lucky bcoz she still there correcting all my bad sides. Cant stop her bcoz i know in her words she is right. All she want me to be respectful, polite, good and better. All those positive words just like all parents want to their child.
• South Korea
25 Oct 10
well when im with her..I dont really tell I love you or even thank you..but when I live on my own..gosh I really miss her and I just cant help when she called the first time I even cried..I realize life is so much better with her by myside..lol but everybody has to grow up..
26 Oct 10
Nice. Your so independent ah! Wish i could do that also. this time im planning to work in other country and make money for my own. Practicing myself to live on my own. And wondering if i can do that. I have my son which is my dog, my sister, my father, my mom and my boyfriend to leave here. Im afraid.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
23 Oct 10
I consider myself to be a good daughter. i have always shown love and respect to my parents. My father has passed away, but i am still as close to my mother as i was in childhood. I try to show my own daughter these qualities. i hope she holds on to them as I do.
24 Oct 10
Oh may be that's what my mom want me to be. She's always telling me to respect them. But sometimes i cant stop answering back. Can you tell me what is the secret on not answering them back and to let them proud of me.
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
I tried to ...^_^because I want to send forth happiness to her even to the whole family ,my father... I dry to be a good daughter and GOD helps me..
1 Nov 10
Ahh.. I also want to send forth happiness to my mom. Im trying to do my best just to be good to her. I know sometimes i talk o her in a rude manner but she's still there for me. Parents are really good. They understand us and giving us another chance if we made a sin. I love my mom just the way you are. I want to bring back all the happiness and support she gave up to me. Now a days she is my best friend and also my sister.
• Oman
23 Oct 10
I think being a good daughter doesn't mean you don't get into fights with your mom or that you just agree with everything she says without complaint. Part of respecting is telling her the truth, being open to her about your life, and showing her your love. No matter how close a relationship is, it won't be perfect. Circumstances in life won't make it easy, since we live in an imperfect world. There are also only four of us in the family, and we are all close to one another. :D
24 Oct 10
Yeah, Just like what she want me to be. I follow all of her thoughts and plan in life. May be she is just so emotional and want me to be like her how she treat her parents. i know she love me so much and all parents do. I like your thoughts and opinion about life. It helps a lot. now i know that even im answering her back it doesn't mean that im impolite. May be it is how i will tell it to her. Thanks!