which is really much important, looks or personality?

Philippines
October 23, 2010 8:36pm CST
I wanna know guys, which is really much important for the majority of us, the looks or the personality? what if the guy/girl is good looking, and his/her personality is some kind of not good? what will u do? will u just ignore it?and just focus on his/her looks? on the other side what if the girl/boy has a very pleasant personality and for you, he/she is some kind of your ideal person, what will you do if his/her looks didn't passed your criteria? will you just ignore it, and let the personality prevail? uhmm its kinda hard to answer, thats why i want you guys to tell me what are your thought about this topic..
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29 responses
• United States
24 Oct 10
Very rarely is there someone that is right in the middle of those two. I love personality over looks personally. Usually, someone with a great personality is someone who is confident with themselves, and that can probably include looks. I personally think that everyone on this planet is attractive. It's just how picky you are with people that makes you picky with someone's looks. But all in all, its always good to have a great personality with some looks.
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@cheneper (133)
• Thailand
24 Oct 10
Personality... no more elaborations, I know u know. ^^
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
yeah hahahha very brief answer. thanks! =D
@cheneper (133)
• Thailand
24 Oct 10
ahaha but u have understood why, ayt? +) thanks too lol
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
24 Oct 10
hi, Ann_margaret22, I think looks are important but personality is more important for me. Looks will fade away when they age. We need good qualities in our partner so that our life will go smoothly for ever.So, to me personality is more important than looks.
@devijay78 (1574)
• India
24 Oct 10
I agree with you completely vijayanths. For me looks are not that important. I give much importance to what a person is inside than how he/she looks. I am more interested in people who have a good heart and have the same likes and dislikes as mine etc, than people who are very good looking but don't connect with me at all.
• Philippines
25 Oct 10
For me, personality is much more important than looks. You may have a good looking person beside you, but he causes you pain or trouble, then what's good being with them. Unlike the a person with good personality, he will keep you happy and support you through thick and thin of your relationship.
• Canada
25 Oct 10
Personality has to be the biggest factor for me I guess but I can also say in all honesty that I like my partner or the girl I'm trying to get to look kind of cute as well.
24 Oct 10
As for me, the personality is really important both for men and women...
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
yeah that's what i think so. but sometimes i just wish that it is both present ^_^ thanks!
@LaurenInLA (2270)
• United States
24 Oct 10
For the most part, what attracts us to another person is looks but we have to remember that looks fade over time and what is really important is who the person is inside. I think that we have probably all had the experience of meeting someone who we thought was unattractive or plain and after we got to know them, their looks seemed to have made them much more attractive than our original impression of them was.
@reploid (1338)
• France
24 Oct 10
I truely believe that personality is much more important than looks, A person with a good personality is much better to talk to than someone with great looks but with a bad personality. This is my opinion. To answer your question, I think we should have a criteria for personality too just as we do for looks.
@sjlskl (3382)
• Singapore
24 Oct 10
Under normal circumstance, people will be attract first to the looks. But say if two people had known each other for a number of years and then get together, then I think it is the personality that attract them together.
@digidon (165)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
hmm... let's put it this way... for looks: if you and that person will get married... sure you'll have wonderful kids... but I'm not so sure if you'll stand being with the person you married... for personality: at least there's the thing that will keep you together for the lifetime... I mean yeah... he/she may not be good-looking but he/she understands you for who you are... and you know you can tolerate his/her personality... A balance of both is crucial... let's try another point of view... maybe balance the points with each other... like good looks, tolerable personality... or average looks, nice personality... or average looks, average personality... your pick :) But I prefer more of personality because looks can be deceiving... and looks in my opinion are a bonus or blessing... :D
@keshia2007r (2884)
• United States
24 Oct 10
it all depends for me. for example if a guy has a great personality, but as you say doesn't meet my criteria in the looks department then we could just be friends. i have a few guy friends like that already. and visa versa with the looks and a dull personality. so i think its best to have both, looks and a personality. kind of hard to find, but its out there. you need someone to hold a steady convo with, someone to make you laugh, and he/she looks good at the same times! omg. best of both worlds. lol
@yanyanyow (326)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
personality matters most. looks may fade away as you get older but your personality will always stay with you.
• United States
24 Oct 10
looks are definitely important, cause if I'm not physically attracted to a guy then I can't image myself getting "physical" with him, BUT....personality is very important as well. Me personally, I can't have one without the other.
• Indonesia
24 Oct 10
Although he/she had a baad look..but I think if he/she have a great personality, it will make the looks more better better and better everyday on my mind.
@sender621 (14918)
• United States
24 Oct 10
Everything about a person is important in some way. Looks can attract us to someone, but they will eventually fade with time. Personality can endure forever.
@gunghu (5)
• Czech Republic
24 Oct 10
i think personality is more important... i have a friend whose not that good looking but we love her and I mean that everybody loves her and it's because of her personality... she's funny, kind, helpful and that's it...
24 Oct 10
Hi there!..For me i am much favor to the importance of one's personality in decision making especially in committing your self to someone. It doesn't talk about the looks of your partner as long as you can see the good things in him/her for you to appreciate more than anything else. But then you should also be fair enough to both of you, for what you really feel for someone if it's for real or just pretending that you love that person. So simply to say that the feelings really talk about it all and just don't ignore it for it could cause more complicated things if u do.
@von_xy (35)
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Well everyone is entitled to its own opinion, but for me personality is the most important. You can changed your looks but it will have a difficult thing for a person to do if he changes his personality.
• Indonesia
24 Oct 10
I will accept he/she.but,not realy friendship he/she
• Philippines
24 Oct 10
Hi!there Margaret, you know what, mostly of us, always see the physical appearance first before there personal traits or what is inside of them,for me,It really depends upon the situation if you always be with that someone with that not so good looking appearance,and he always there to comfort you in times of sadness and discomfort and also be with you with all the happiness you are bearing with, I know for sure you will fall in love with him, I have been in love with this girl,she is not so good looking girl and by the way she styles hr dress it so old school, you know what I mean, but the thing I love her is the way he treated me and always there when I need someone to talk to.The bad thing only is she got a boyfriend already,she talk to me and she said that if she haven't got any boyfriend that time maybe she will answer me yes,without hesitations.So for me its not the looks or the traits it depends how you interact with the person.