bharbee1126

@bharbee1126 (85)

Philippines • Age 45

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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marriage without a child..

estremms @estremms (324) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

what would you do? would you adopt or just accept that only the two of you together till death do you part?

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bharbee1126 People involved in a marriage like this should consult each other. It must be a decision that will make both of them happy. Some couples do adopt, thinking that it's a way of saving a marriage. But some couples decided to be living just with each other,...

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how to obtain real happiness?

gentox @gentox (38) • Philippines 18 Oct 12

How to obtain real happiness? me my self did not know how to obtain the real happiness, i always go outside in order to gain happiness is that okay or is it a kind of wasting a time of doing nonsense?

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bharbee1126 Going out with friends could bring happiness but it's temporary. To obtain a real happiness in life, a person should know how to appreciate thing they have. And also being a positive person can make you real happy. So stay positive with your outlook in life...

20 Oct 12

Trust

Swertville88 @Swertville88 (8) 20 Oct 12

Can you fully trust someone again who has broken that trust? Is it worth to trust someone again after what he has lied and done something to break that trust?

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bharbee1126 I cannot easily trust again a person who broke that trust. It will always be hard to fully trust again someone who has broken it. You may trust him again, but on certain things only. Trust is earned. Ones you had it, and broke it, it could take a lifetime to...

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Cartoons and animated series... how they have changed over time!

blimb @grkelly (1206) • Malta 20 Oct 12

When I was a young kid I used to watch cartoons just as kids do nowadays. But i feel there is a key difference. Cartoons twenty years back used to be drawn so much more beautifully and were more aesthetically pleasing than those...

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bharbee1126 I also noticed the difference. Actually I just did when one morning I watched a cartoon with my daughter. And I realized that there was really a big difference, I even told her. I even said to my daughter, that cartoons before are more fun and kids can learn...

20 Oct 12

My child is turning 6, what could be the best gift for her?

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

My child is turning 6 next month, I wonder what could be the best gift I can give her? I think she deserves the best for being a good daughter, who keeps me smiling, who always wants her mom happy and a daughter who studies well...

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What will u do if a person whom u love cheats u?

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 14 Jan 12

If a person whom u love more than anything else cheats u and breaks ur heart what will u do?will u take revenge or simply live with broken heart

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bharbee1126 If a person whom I love more than anything else will break my heart, never will I take a revenge. Because I believe in karma, a good one for a good did and a worse karma for a bad did. At first, I know that I will surely live with a broken heart, but that...

20 Oct 12

I dönt know why, but i dont love my life

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 29 Jan 12

I have heard people saying that life is exciting,they have started loving their life.but in mine there is not like that. I dont have anything that can make me happy.dont knw where leads to me

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bharbee1126 There are some people find themselves unhappy with their lives. For some reason, they don't seem to realize how beautiful life has to offer. My friend, not all the people that you sees to be happy or excited with their lives have everything they wanted. If...

20 Oct 12

Which sites is most worthful for u apart from mylot in terms of earning money?

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 14 Oct 12

From which site u r earning maximum without investment.is there any site where u r earning more than 10$ per month

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bharbee1126 Hi I've been away from mylot for quite a long time, because aside from this, the most legit site that I am working online is at odesk. You may try to register on the site, and search for jobs which is suitable to your capability.

20 Oct 12

How to improve leadership qualities

rahularya @rahularya (65) • India 20 Oct 12

What are the thing that are required to improve leadership qualities.apart from knowledge and confidence what are the most required things that can improve your leadership

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bharbee1126 To improve leadership requires improving oneself. Just like a good leader should also be a good follower. If a person is not a good follower, he should improve himself to be a good follower first to be a good leader. From there, improving leadership follows as...

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Mama do you love me? i love you mama...

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 12 Feb 11

This morning we prepared early because we will go shopping. My 4 year old daughter was already set and ready to go. She was just waiting for me to be ready too. While at the middle of my shower... she knocked, I ask her "what is...

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Woke up early with a sweet kiss...

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 11 Feb 11

I slept late lastnight... then i woke up so early this morning because my 4 year old daughter woke me up to kiss me... she said with a soft voice "Mama kiss... mama kiss.. mama kiss.." isn't sweet?

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Even your closest friend has a tendency of hurting you...

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 11 Feb 11

I've learned that no amount of friendship will keep you safe from getting hurt, there is always a tendency to be hurt by them and you must forgive them for that... especially those that you treasured most... do you agree with me?...

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bharbee1126 we are like sister, and have each other for our crying shoulder... it was just hurting so much to unintentionally disclose to other people some issues in my life.. especially the one that i haven't totally got over.

11 Feb 11

Even your closest friend has a tendency of hurting you...

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 11 Feb 11

I've learned that no amount of friendship will keep you safe from getting hurt, there is always a tendency to be hurt by them and you must forgive them for that... especially those that you treasured most... do you agree with me?...

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bharbee1126 you said you've been hurt by your friend over and over... do you still forgive her? does hurting you involves sensitive issues in your life... like unintentionally disclosing one of your secret, and the one that you haven't overcomed completely... which you...

11 Feb 11

Even your closest friend has a tendency of hurting you...

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 11 Feb 11

I've learned that no amount of friendship will keep you safe from getting hurt, there is always a tendency to be hurt by them and you must forgive them for that... especially those that you treasured most... do you agree with me?...

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bharbee1126 yeah you're right! there are really certain things that we should keep to ourselves... especially those which can show our weaknesses... thank you very much.

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Even your closest friend has a tendency of hurting you...

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 11 Feb 11

I've learned that no amount of friendship will keep you safe from getting hurt, there is always a tendency to be hurt by them and you must forgive them for that... especially those that you treasured most... do you agree with me?...

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bharbee1126 Yes, arguments are healthy if it's like petty quarrels. I don't know exactly if we can be prepared handling disagreements, especially if it involves disclosing some sensitive issues in our life... just what happened to me... and unfortunately, i am just about...

11 Feb 11

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Even your closest friend has a tendency of hurting you...

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 11 Feb 11

I've learned that no amount of friendship will keep you safe from getting hurt, there is always a tendency to be hurt by them and you must forgive them for that... especially those that you treasured most... do you agree with me?...

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bharbee1126 Do you think the potential of hurting me came from me also?... because i was so badly hurt, the game did hit me very much, maybe because the issue is somewhat i am just about to overcome... which i suffered from a long time. Now the pain are all coming...

11 Feb 11

Even your closest friend has a tendency of hurting you...

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 11 Feb 11

I've learned that no amount of friendship will keep you safe from getting hurt, there is always a tendency to be hurt by them and you must forgive them for that... especially those that you treasured most... do you agree with me?...

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Giving in to a partner

sammy14 @sammy14 (834) • Philippines 18 Nov 10

In your relationship, who between you gives in in times of quarrel or misunderstanding.. Do you easily give in even if you think that you are correct or did not start the fight.. For you guys do you give in easily so that the...

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bharbee1126 Hi. Before, my hubby most of the time gives in everytime we argue. But, he made me realized that it is not always the man who should always gives in during arguements, but woman should also learn to give in, especially when it is really her fault. And I agreed...

18 Nov 10

Tears wont fall... why?

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 17 Nov 10

We all have our own ups and downs in our life, a lot of different struggles which we've been trying to won. Have you ever experience a moment in your life, that you wanted to cry to ease your burdens, your feelings... but the...

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Bouquet of flowers... what do you prefer?

bharbee1126 @bharbee1126 (85) • Philippines 13 Nov 10

If you were to choose among the Bouquet of Flowers, which would you like best Bouquet of Tulips, Bouquet of Red Roses, Bouquet of Gerbera Daisy or Bouquet of Orchids?

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