your lover asks you pictures of you naked. would you give it?^^

sweety couple^^ - boy and girl in love^^
Portugal
October 26, 2010 10:32am CST
hi guys^^ your lover asks you to give him/her pictures of yourself naked. would you give him/her?^^ about me my bf didnt ask me that and im sure he wont^^ we both respect each other^^ and we are so far that sending him pics of myself naked would be a disrespect to him and to myself also^^ so i wouldnt do that^^ also he wouldnt ask me at all^^ but if we were near each other and been together for long time like one year or two and he asked me pics of me naked i would give him^^ is nothing wrong bcs that time he saw me naked already and if was asking was only to keep it^^ so would be ok for me even i feel too shy of my body and i know he wont ask me this ever ahah^^ what about you guys?^^ would you or not?^^ please share^^
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21 responses
@Fireheart (683)
• India
26 Oct 10
Not at all, one thing i learnt never trust someone including your friends, of course not i will never give those pics, that would be enough sometimes for black mailing neither wont i ask that from my girlfriend its embarrassing you know anyway that wont happen asking for such pictures. hmm never thought of asking a picture from my girlfriend, ya that may also end up with slap..noway am asking.nor will i give
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• Portugal
26 Oct 10
ahah yes thats true^^ we shouldnt trust everyone really but if your gf asked you i dont think she would blackmail you right? ahah you know her and love her so you trust her right?^^ anyway is your gf the one you asked in your discussion before? ^^ the one that was saying she and her bf broke up? ahah anyway is good that you dont ask^^ yes she could slap you ahah and about give ahah i understand you wouldnt^^
• India
30 Oct 10
yea, am not that onto her. and i dont want to disappoint about it too, i guess am selfish in receiving others love, maybe i will tell how i feel about her later..i like the feeling that someone cares for me.
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• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes if you dont love her tell her^^ we girls take things too serious^^ so if you continue to let her come closer and closer she will like you more and more^^ so please tell her when you see her that you want to be friends with her only. the right girl for you will come^^ dont give her fake hopes. sure we all like to be cared and loved but you shouldnt do that bcs she will get hurt. just tell her that you want be friends^^ but nothing more. you will find the right girl soon you will see^^
@soleya (1100)
• Latvia
26 Oct 10
I don't really knowwhat to do. My boyfriend asked me to send him this kind of picture, but I am hesitating. I know that it is only picture and I am not ashamed of my body, but I don't think it is normal to look at your partners naked pictures. I think it is weird. Why would you want to do that? I like to have nice pictures in a frame, but I don't even want to look on the naked ones.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
26 Oct 10
I have sent a lot of people naked pictures of me or half naked pictures of me. I am not shy about it at all. So yes of course I would send my lover pictures of me naked. Its fun. I wouldnt have a problem with it at all. Of course like you said if they are my lover they have already seen me naked anyway. The last date I went on the guy took pictures of me that was something I had a much harder time with.
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@sender621 (14894)
• United States
26 Oct 10
This would have to depend on my relationship with my lover. i would want to know what they would be doing with the picture before i would be willing to give it. this isn't the type of picture you would want to see passed around to everyone. Your lover should have respect for you as well as love.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
26 Oct 10
I would never do it. i don't necessarely consider it as a proof of disrespect towards me. but I couldn't thrust him that he would only keep those pictures for himself and not show them to other people. or maybe he wouldn;t show them but other people might go trough his computer and maybe they would see those pictures. in conclusion I wouldn;t do it under no circumstances
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@Karunvig (714)
• India
26 Oct 10
Well i will say... y picture, i will come naked only :P
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@hushi22 (4928)
27 Oct 10
hahaha! that is a nice answer. =)
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
i asked you about your gf bcs in a discussion some time ago you said that she didnt talk for you for 2 monthes i guess. you said that she wasnt asnwering you. what happened for her dont answer you for 2 monthes? something wrong? i wish that she gave you a good explanation. bcs 2 monthes not saying nothing only good reason would be if she was sick. otherwhise there is no justification for that.
@Karunvig (714)
• India
27 Oct 10
@sweet - lover... y had word with her last night.. ;) @hushi... thnku thnku thnku :D :D
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• United States
29 Oct 10
No I wouldn't. In fact I would break up with him if he asked me for naked pictures.I would have to leave because I wouldn't trust him anymore. I wouldn't want to get naked in front of him. It would Have to end
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
hello cat, Hahaha,cute question But definitely NO for that dear. Because i don't have that model type body (hahaha) Just kidding...i won't go naked for a picture,and i don't want to keep his naked picture either. We can see each other naked
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@misheli (552)
• Philippines
26 Oct 10
No! I will never give a naked picture of myself to my bf. That is a sign that your bf is not respecting you and it is very important in a relationship. Why would he ask naked picture of you if he really loves you?
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@keshia2007r (2880)
• United States
26 Oct 10
that nice. but my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now. he seen everything that is to been seen. and he do ask me for naked pics and i do send it to him. i'm completely confrotable with doing this. i don't even think he keeps them. so there is no problem there. we trust each other. on the other hand. i've never asked for a naked pic of him. my memory is pretty good anyway :) lol
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@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
27 Oct 10
Yes, my bf has asked for it and I gave it to him. That's because we are already 2 years in the relationship and we have seen everything if each other. While at the same time, we are planning to get married soon and I trust him to keep my pictures well. However, I don't know what came over me when I agreed to his request, because in my mind, I never imagine myself doing it at all. Is it all due to love? I'm not really sure.
@Gargi2010 (638)
• India
27 Oct 10
Hi friend I think you should give him your nacked photo.
• India
28 Oct 10
True lovers will never ask for such a photo
@funkykid (441)
• India
27 Oct 10
I strongly support your view.if you really trust someone saying no to such requests as this one could prove you wrong.you know he/she love you and there might be a real reason when he/she is asking to do such a thing.may be he really miss you and want to relive your(both of you) private moments.
@funkykid (441)
• India
27 Oct 10
my final word : There is no hard in doing so as lng as you trush your BF :) Happy mylotting :)
@miraku (107)
• Indonesia
27 Oct 10
I think, I'll never give my picture for anybody, including my boyfriend, because we don't know what will be happen in the future. It's minimilized the risk from negative things may happen.
@madteaparty (2748)
• Japan
27 Oct 10
Well, my actual boyfriend wouldn't ask that because he can see me naked whenever he wants to If he did, I would find it weird, and I would probably refuse. You never know what will happen with that picture in the future, and I think it's better to be careful with those matters. I don't want to end un in some website without my knowledge
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
I think a girl should never do that because these things can easily get circulated. Although you trust your boyfriend, but you can never be sure about the future. You don't want other people to have that photo recopied and circulated everywhere. I think a boy who truly loves and respects his girlfriend should never ask for such a thing.
• Portugal
29 Oct 10
yes for example if you left your bf and as revenge he put your pics online. or something right? sometimes people say that we never know someone totally. anyway i trust my bf and i know that if ever i gave that to him sure when we were near each other and after we be together for years i know he wouldnt show to no one^^ but he knows im a bit shy and also he wouldnt ask that bcs isnt his personality^^
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
hmhmh no ,,i will not give ,,him, no matter what happens, and i think he don't have a respect for me.,. and i think ,, he is just like my body,, not the real me/.,.
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
ohh i see what you mean^^ but isnt that exactly^^ you are with him since like some years already and he asks you that^^ sure that wouldnt mean he just likes you body. if you were with him since like monthes and he asked you that then sure it could mean he just cares for your body but if would be years since you are together and he asked wouldnt mean that.
• United States
27 Oct 10
If you have been a couple for sometime now and have been intimate or to the point that you would consider being intimate with that person, then yes I wouldn't mind giving that person a naked picture of myself, he's already seen me naked in person anyways. But if it was just a fling or lust with a guy that I knew I had no future with, then definitely not, but if you love that person and know that person wouldn't cause you any harm intentionally then I don't see why not.
• Portugal
30 Oct 10
yes i agree that isnt nothing wrong if you love the guy and he loves you too^^ but no guy asked me this^^ i was just wondering what people would do if their lover asked them that^^ my bf didnt ask me that^^ also i dont think he would ask that. anyway about me i dont plan to give it to my bf ^^ unless we be together for years and he asks me^^
@yna410 (429)
• Philippines
27 Oct 10
I think every person will have a different reaction when this happens depending on ones cultural background/setup, value system, depth of the relationship, etc. For me, i wouldn't give him pictures of me naked. I don't think it's respectful for a guy to ask or request a girl with such. Even though there is a relationship, I think intimate moments or scenes when done should be kept private. These are done out of love and in my opinion, asking for a naked picture is like letting lust rule over love. What will he/she do with a naked picture? Keep it and stare at it for as long as he/she wants while imagining different things? What if someone else sees it accidentally or upload it somewhere intentionally like what is happening most of the time nowadays? If the purpose or reason of a person asking a naked picture is to constantly remember his/her lover or reminisce their intimate moments, he/she can do it even without a picture. When their love is real and true, he/she will constantly remember how beautiful or gorgeous his/her partner is even without seeing his/her naked picture. If he's really into me, he would be worried or be protective of me and wouldn't ask a naked picture that may be a cause of embarrassment when a worst scenario comes. =)