For the singles:Why are you till single?

@jharia20 (365)
Philippines
October 27, 2010 9:43pm CST
After breaking up with your partner, what is the reason why you are still single? It have been 7 months when we broke up. and still i haven't found my new one. It is because that i still love him? i don't think so maybe it is because i'm too busy with my studies and i haven't go out to date as well. I'm so focus in my studies. I think that is the reason and not that i still love him :)
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@beeh13u (1038)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
We don't want to be hurt again. We are afraid of loving the wrong person and committing the same mistakes all over again. You may still like him or hope that he'll come back. But me, I'm just renewing my heart and making it whole again.
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@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
It takes time renewing broken heart, all i can say is that going out makes it easier to mend than just be by yourself all day long. If you are alone, the possibilities of thinking him would get bigger so i think we must go out :)
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@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
i'm single for like 5 or 6 years now. hahaha.. my last relationship was a long distance and i kind of used to being alone most of the time since then. during my last relationship, i thought that it's not that bad when you're alone but having someone who cares. when we broke up, getting into a new one is not really something i should give too much of a thought. i'm still single but a lot of people cares, no need to be attached or commit to some intimate relationship.
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@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
yeah your right :)
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
I am single, but in a relationship. I stay unmarried and it is my choice. I am not prepared to have a family of my own because I know that stage is quite a serious thing. I still want to accomplish something. Well, on your situation, when you are single, it does not necessarily imply that you have not moved on. As you mentioned, you are busy and focused on your studies. That is your choice. Never rush to be into a relationship. Love will find you and do not chase it.
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@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
2 Nov 10
Yeah having a married life is so hard :) thank you :)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Well, I've been single since the day I was born.. hmmm. I think the reason is that I still haven't found the right girl for me.. I'm not easily impressed with a woman you know.. I guess I'm picky.. And another thing is that (though this sounds funny), I'm an old school, I choose to be the first and I choose to be the last... hehe
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@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
That's romantic :) well i wish you'll found the one Good luck :)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
well, i've been single since the day I was born.. hmmm. I think the reason is that I still haven't found the right girl for me... I'm not easily impressed with a woman you know.. I guess I'm picky... and, another thing is that (though this sounds funny), I'm an old school.. I choose to be the first and I choose to be the last..
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@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Don't be so picky there is no perfect girl :) thank you for sharing :0
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
28 Oct 10
The reason behind this is that when a person is bitten by a snake he would definitely be afraid of rope also. So same is the case of relation ship, after broke up, no one want to be hurt or disguised again, thats why s/he want to remain signal and the other reason you already mentioned it may be due to love for your partner that you dont want to accept any one else in your life....
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@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
But a rope is different from a snake right?and not all snake are dangerous :) Good luck :)
@shaggin (71633)
• United States
28 Oct 10
I've liked this guy I'm been seeing for quite awhile. Hes perfect for me but aparently I am not perfect for him. I am not really attracted to anyone else. I've met 8 guys since he and I started hooking up but hes the only one that kept my interest. If I date anyone else then I cant hook up with him anymore and since I like him I dont want to end that.
@shaggin (71633)
• United States
29 Oct 10
Ok your right I should have phrased that different. He is about as perfect for me as I have ever come with any man to this date. He is just an amazing person but he doesnt see himself like that. I'd give up the other guys to be with him but he doesnt want it that way so the other guys keep me entertained when hes not around.
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
There is no such as perfect for each other :) Good luck
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 10
mmhh...i do not know...maybe because i have so many criteria for the person who wants to be here by my side. or maybe the time is not perfect. someday..somehow...maybe i will find it
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@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Criteria is not that good i suggest that you must not think of criteria coz you will get difficulty of looking for the right one if you have lots of criteria
@ravend (659)
• Malta
28 Oct 10
I guess its cos I am too picky. And I have no idea were to meet new people.
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Go out with common friends and have a date :)
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
28 Oct 10
I have been married and i have been single. I didn't choose to be single. it is just a fact of this life. i will remain single until that someone special comes into my life. it happened for me once. i can only hope that it can happen again.
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
It will happen again :) good luck :)
@hestylim (1210)
• Indonesia
28 Oct 10
I haven't found the one that I think is right yet.. ^^ That's why I am still single now. ^^
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Good luck for looking for the right one :)
• India
28 Oct 10
i am still single because the last time my heart broke , it broke to the fullest. Now i have no heart left to love any girl again !
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
Don't be stock at the past. time heals a broken heart i'm sure by this time only the scar is left :) go out and date :)
• United States
28 Oct 10
I'm not interested in finding a partner at the moment. I think there's things in my life I need to clear up first and things that I need to do before I find a partner. When I find him, I want it to be for real. Like forever type deal. I don't want to just casually date and such. I want someone that will stand by me. But I need to accomplish things as a single first before I start looking. But if God happens to throw him in my life tomorrow, then I will start dating. I gotta do what God says.
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@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
That's right god has a plan for us thank you for sharing :)
@cyrri_ako (461)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
you could be right. it's not because you have broken up with your partner you would have to look for somebody who would replace him/her. it's also important to give time to yourself, and to the other people around you. the right time will come to meet another person..so we dont have to worry...
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@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Yes that's true thank you for your comment :0
@meipan (746)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Uhm.. sometimes... I ask that question to myself too.. maybe i was not into rush because.. none of my friends have love relation.. though some are have.. it really not affected me too much... but sometimes.. i ask what's the reason why i don't have one? i found myself answering that 1. because you're childish 2. you're not impressive.. or you doesn't look nice.. 3. have moods wing that why people thought that i'm hard to please 4. when someone giving motives and i don't like him, i avoided him.. i guess.. those are the FEW reasons why i'm still single... :) anyhow.. it's okay.. as long as I knew that the God will be preparing the one for me.. I can wait..
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
Yes we can wait :) God has a purpose Good luck :)
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
everyone may have the following reasons as to why they are single: 1. "I am single because love sucks" --- that is from someone who gets rejected everytime. 2. "I am single because I still love him/her"--- that is from someone who just broke up. 3. "I am single because my parents are strict"--- that is from someone who is a very obedient child. 4. "I am single because I haven't found someone who can measure up my expectation" ---that is from someone who is a success-oriented person. 5. "I am single because nobody likes me --- that is from someone who has a very low self esteem. 6. "I am single because I am too hot to handle --- that is from someone who is very confident to the point of being conceited. 7. "I am single because I am waiting for my prince charming/princess --- that is from someone who believes in serendipity/destiny. 8. "I am single because no one can compare to him/her --- from someone who just broke up and still looks up to the person he/she broke up with. There are many other reasons for being single...and I may say that in my case, it is more of "It is not the right time for me yet"...yeah, I guess I believe in destiny..=)
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
28 Oct 10
That is lot more :) thank you for sharing :)
• India
28 Oct 10
I think your studies are not the only reason why you are still single. May be you have not come out of the pains yet.
@jharia20 (365)
• Philippines
29 Oct 10
I also thought of that one to, But honestly i have over come the pain :)