I dare not say that.

China
November 3, 2010 7:34am CST
Recently,I meet a shy problem.Not long ago,I say that I meet a pretty girl,but I have not had her contact.So I want to know that.We often have classes in the same class.but I am very shy to ask her directly.What should I do?Please give your idea.
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11 responses
• United States
3 Nov 10
Be yourself, remember your good nature and simply start with Hello and How are you. She may not respond right away, but surely she will greet you back. Take it from there, make an effort daily to greet. There after she will see your good nature side and freely begin conversation. One day simply say how about we get together sometime for a quick bite or coffee. You get what I mean with this. Relax and do not pretend to be someone you are not.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 10
A very good and nice suggestion, this shows experience, thats why it is called hard working....:) Thanks
• United States
3 Nov 10
Awwh I do try to speak directly from the heart.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
4 Nov 10
I appreciate your shyness but if you never approach this girl and let her know that you like her, she may never know and if she likes you too you will never know! You could befriend her by starting casual conversation and eventually invite her for a coffee or something casual and ask her for a proper date then. I know it’s tough but if you don’t try you may regret it forever!
• United States
4 Nov 10
Simple. Ask her about the class subject. Ask her if you can study with her some time. That way you don't look too bold. you already have something in common , your class.So use it. After studying with her , then you can ask for a real date. Good luck.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
4 Nov 10
Why not try to establish a conversation with her. At the same time, why not dare to ask her out, then she might say yes. You might have a chance to see her again. It is a matter of asking and build up your confidence.
@saqi78 (1402)
• Malaysia
3 Nov 10
Just keep these shy things aside and go directly, start from hi hello and then do this regularly, after some time invite for tea and make friendship then you can say every thing to her Be confident, first days ll not be much happier but try try again and one day you ll be there with her....:) Have a good time...:)
@ika2010 (95)
• Indonesia
4 Nov 10
How about introduce your self and starting conversation about what both of you get in the class since you have same classes so often. just be your self, don't talk about nothing that you will regret in the future. i believe if you are a nice man you will have a nice woman too...good luck and never give up...
• United States
3 Nov 10
Why haven't you asked her out yet? If you don't take the leap, you won't get anything. You have to jump. You have to go get her otherwise you will never know. You can't read her mind and she can't read your mind, so you are going to have to approach her.
• India
3 Nov 10
There is no need to be shy dude.... Just talk to her directly.... First make friends with her.... Then she herself will give her contact number to you..... Best of luck dude.....!!!
@asendud (318)
• Indonesia
3 Nov 10
i have an idea, how about introduce your self to her, i like girl but I'm very shy, but when i didn't do anything to contact her I'm so regret my self. what do you think to get her phone number, from your other friend who know him, or try to greet him, ans ask about task from the teacher.. what do you think my idea.?
@marifel86 (111)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
Well if you really like this girl you should personally befriend her then ask her number. If you're too shy to do that,you could ask someone who has her number to give it to you..:)
@marifel86 (111)
• Philippines
3 Nov 10
Well if you really like this girl you should personally befriend her then ask her number. If you're too shy to do that,you could ask someone who has her number to give it to you..:)