marifel86

@marifel86 (111)

Philippines • Age 40

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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drink alcohol?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 23 Dec 10

would you drink alcohol this christmas? or you dont, instead of it you will drink wines? for me, i dont drink alcohol, but i prefer to drink wines this christmas, it because to avoid head ache next morning, and could up...

drink

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marifel86 I guess drinking wine would be more preferable. i Don't want to miss anything this Christmas just because i got drunk or something like that.

23 Dec 10

when a woman in stress, she either eat a lot or shop a lot?

kingparker @kingparker (9672) • United States 17 Nov 10

My cousin, when she was in stress, when tends to shop a lot in the mall. She might spend a lot of money on those clothing she doesn't need, or she maybe dress it for only one time. That is a lot of waste I think. I would suggest...

eat

shop

stress

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marifel86 haha..yes, i usually do this. There was a time when i really got stressed that i bought something very expensive just to ease my tension. It was quite relaxing at first, but then i realized i really didn't need it that much.

17 Nov 10

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Going To School At Old Age: Good OR Bad?

egbebiekun @egbebiekun (53) • Abuja, Nigeria 10 Nov 10

To some people, the level of assimilation at old age is very low. These set of people say that going to school is not advisable because it is very hard for an aged student to perform averagely. However, some people believed that...

late education

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marifel86 Well for me, age does not really matter as long as the person is interested and willing to learn, i think there's no problem if he/she should go to school. We have a college classmate before and she is already almost 60 years old. She's actually good in class...

11 Nov 10

How would you truly know if a man is unfaitful from the start?

angelle_1987 @angelle_1987 (12) 9 Nov 10

From their relationship they use strategies and ways for them to hide their guilt feelings or the mistakes committed from their partner. They sometimes deceive the girls and use their charms to escape from it. Their maybe ways to...

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marifel86 It really takes time to know a person. But from the start i guess the thing you could do is to be watchful and not easily trust the person. Get to know the person well before investing your own emotions,in that way you would not end up regretting.

11 Nov 10

how do you convince yourself that god has someone destined for you?

chuyins123 @chuyins123 (2112) • Philippines 10 Nov 10

We often say that the right love will come at the right time. But while waiting, how would you convince yourself to keep waiting for such destiny, and continue believing that really there's someone out there destined to be your...

destiny

love

partner

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marifel86 God has plans for all of us. Due to free will we are able to choose our own fate or destiny. Although he might have someone reserved just for us, we should just not wait for that person but make our own destiny. God might serve as our guide but we make our...

11 Nov 10

Are you for or against campus love?

JimmySun @jimmysun (401) • China 10 Nov 10

For young people, it's very common to fall in love in college. After yrs of hard work, we finally reach the university of our dream.We dont have so tight a schedule as in high school,which means more spare time waiting for...

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marifel86 I'm not for or against campus love.and i don't think that love/being in a relationship in college is really necessary. It really depends on the priority of the person and being able to weigh things out.I mean a person can't serve 2 masters at the same...

11 Nov 10

Sometimes love just ain't enough

acey76 @acey76 (1275) • Philippines 10 Nov 10

Hi, have you heard this song..it's my favorite song..well, do you believe in this line " Sometimes love just ain't enough" because it happened to me way back before. How about you did you experienced it...what is your view...

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marifel86 Yes,this could actually happen and i believe in this saying/song. I guess although love is present,we still are human beings,capable of being fed up with lies and etc. and although we still love the person,there are certain circumstances that leaving is the...

10 Nov 10

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will you still help your ex-lover?

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 10 Nov 10

i dont know what to do,my ex-boyfriend is in province now for three months, we dont have communication to each other. but, what if he will return and ask for a help in terms of financial to look for a job here in my place.he dont...

help

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marifel86 It depends on how close he was to you.If both of you broke up and are still friends,i think there is nothing wrong with you lending him money. But since you've mentioned that both of you haven't had any communication, i think it would be odd if he would just...

10 Nov 10

Will you sacrifice the friendship because you fell in love with your friend?

joysantos @joysantos (131) • Philippines 10 Nov 10

This scenario often happens to those who are friends for years. The guy fell in love with the girl and vice versa. But sometimes, feelings are left unspoken because of the fear that it might destroy the friendship. If you're put...

friendship

love

sacrifice

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marifel86 Everything has it's own risks.I guess whatever side we take,there are certain risks involved.If given the case, since i am a girl,it would be better to wait for the guy to confess his feelings for me.I guess sending hints would be the thing i would just do.I...

10 Nov 10

By Air.. by Land... by Sea..

visavis @visavis (5934) • Philippines 3 Nov 10

It is common to us that in terms of travel you want is fastest, convenience, happy and most of all safe. In my topic today for your opinion which of the three you have experienced that give to you three things fastest, convenience...

abroad

family

travel

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marifel86 It really depends on the person actually. In terms of being the fastest, there's no doubt that would be through air.In terms of safety, all means of transportation are equal,since accidents happen everywhere and i couldn't say that one is much safer than the...

3 Nov 10

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I dare not say that.

koAebryant @koAebryant (358) • China 3 Nov 10

Recently,I meet a shy problem.Not long ago,I say that I meet a pretty girl,but I have not had her contact.So I want to know that.We often have classes in the same class.but I am very shy to ask her directly.What should I do?Please...

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marifel86 Well if you really like this girl you should personally befriend her then ask her number. If you're too shy to do that,you could ask someone who has her number to give it to you..:)

3 Nov 10

I dare not say that.

koAebryant @koAebryant (358) • China 3 Nov 10

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marifel86 Well if you really like this girl you should personally befriend her then ask her number. If you're too shy to do that,you could ask someone who has her number to give it to you..:)

3 Nov 10

Can keeping secrets help your relationship grow strong. ??

roxyoo7 @roxyoo7 (246) • India 30 Oct 10

I think there are two main reasons that helps break-ups, divorces and all that unwanted stuff in a relationship. One reason is simply because couples don't communicate. The other one is because of the secrets they keep from each...

love

relationship

secret

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marifel86 Basically,i think a relationship should be based mainly on trust. A relationship without trust would easily be broken even by just petty quarrels or arguments. I guess when you are in a relationship,both partners should have an understanding that nothing...

30 Oct 10

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Did I get infected with virus from mylot?

kingparker @kingparker (9672) • United States 27 Oct 10

This afternoon while I was posting in mylot here, all of sudden, a small window pop up and it is from mylot server it claims. It asked me to confirm the user name and password. I just don't know what that is, and I simply click...

mylot

virus

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marifel86 wow..i guess i'm not alone. It happened to me too few minutes ago. It popped twice and i just cancelled it since i felt it was kinda' weird for a pop-up box to ask for personal information.

28 Oct 10