At Last! I'm Not the One Being Laughed At!

United States
November 4, 2010 5:03am CST
I had a friend recommend P.S. I Love You with Hilary Swank and Gerard Butler. It was one of those films that I probably wouldn't have watched had she not recommended it. The cover didn't catch my eye and the previews didn't exactly fill me with a burning desire to see it. However, once I had it in the player, I found it was a lot of fun. It had me chuckling from the first scene and, while there were moments that touched me, I was not blubbering over it like I usually do - old softy that I am. For once it was my daughter bawling through it while I sat dry-eyed. It was kind of fun, actually, even though my daughter felt cheated that I wasn't sharing her tears. Oh, believe me, there have been many times the shoe was on the other foot and I sat here going through tissue box after tissue box while my daughter sat and laughed at me. I really enjoyed the role reversal. The story is about a young widow who starts receiving letters from her dead husband that he wrote to help her through her grief. The acting is good, the plot well-developed and the balance between humor and drama excellently measured out. I must admit that I could have lived without the shots of a bare hind-side view of a naked (and pretty hairy) man, which I can only imagine is what earned it the 13 rating. Other than that moment in the film, however, this is one I would recommend as a bittersweet story of life, love and healing.
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@lelin1123 (15594)
• Puerto Rico
4 Nov 10
I saw this movie last year and thought it was very good and not at all a waste of my time. I love Hillary Swank in everything she does. She is one of the best actresses of our time. I too cried and laughed throughout the movie. I'm known in my family to be a cry baby. I have actually gotten misty eye over certain commercials. My youngest daughter, now 29 is just like me cries while watching sad movies. My oldest daughter is the complete opposite of us. It takes alot for her to cry.
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• United States
4 Nov 10
Yes, I am what one might call a sappy sentimentalist but as far as I am concerned, there are too few of us in the world. If more of us were sappy sentimentalists, maybe we would have fewer wars, eh?
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@lelin1123 (15594)
• Puerto Rico
4 Nov 10
So true, so true! I wouldn't want to change being a cry baby at all. It shows how kind and good we are having sympathy for others.It shows how we wear our feelings on our shoulders and that to me is being "real".
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• United States
11 Nov 10
Amen, Girlfriend!
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4 Nov 10
I also quite enjoyed P.S. I Love You despite so many reviewers lambasing it. Yes it was a bit to cheesy in places and overly sweet in others but it is a nice fanciful tale. Then again I quite often enjoy the movies that many reviewers pour scorn upon for being cliche and corny.
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• United States
4 Nov 10
Yeah, me, too. I never pay much attention to the critics. A lot of the movies they laud as wonderful I find totally offensive and disgusting while those that they criticize leave me smiling. I found the ending, especially, to this film, very sweet and I thought it was great that they didn't use the old stereotypes for the in-laws.