I didn't feel talking about Problems

I think I shared one time about kicking my spoiled lazy adult children out. The wealth of support helped me remember to play the right "memory chip" when thinking about it! They work hard at trying to make me feel guilty. People here showed me how not to feel guilty. Sometimes I go back to it for reinforcement. Other than that I try to make others happy. I try to be supportive.

i said to my self when i face some problem with these words : 'stop nagging and complaining. look around and you are luckier than a thousand people around you'. and it makes feel that i just have to be glad and i know that i have strength to solve it on my own

In mylot we have a bit of trusts on our friends here so sharing with them a little of our problems remove the big chunks of our emotional baggage. Not only they lend their pathetic ears but many are great counselors, motivators and experienced people in life who are more than willing to impart words of wisdom to give us an instant boost.

hi letran yes smiling is really good for us and laughing is better yet so smile and laugh let troubles go bye bye for awhile I could not stand it here if I did not smile and laugh and' make myself happy. I dislike where i am but its better than being homeless by far.smile letran and con found your enemies tey wilol wonder what is he up to? lol

It's not easy for me to tell other people of my problems but I except this site. I had a terrible night once because I had a conflict with my brother. I wanted to share it here but he might have seen it cause he was just beside me so I wasn't able to post about it here.

i don't comfort to telling my problem to other. i hate to do it. i fell my problem will be the their joke. so i just talking my problem to my gf or my brother. and of course solve it immediately.

Great attitude LK!Your positivity is well appreciated. I like it that I can rant about my frustrations here in myLot but you're right. We shouldnt talk about problems all the time. There should always be balance.

I am in the same regards with this, many people feel that taking about their personal issues helps them get things off their chest, which is good if it does. As for me it make me dwell more on the negative side of my issues. So I try really hard not to speak too much about my issues and divert my attention also as you say to the positivity side of things and this way I can have a bit more clearer mind to tackle it and try harder to find resolutions.

Hi L.Knight You are right that we must not talk about problems every time and I think we should not make it habit, lots of people have habit of complaining about every thing and it becomes problem But I think talking about a problem is sharing problem and I have heard that sharing problem means you are sharing your burden, So I think if me or some one else is sharing a problem we should give him a good and valuable suggestion and should keep him positive. Not every one over here likes to share his/her problem but if any one is sharing this means s/he has trust on friends over here and s/he knows that this is the forum from where s/he can get a good suggestion or advice. There may be users/members who may not want to share their problem but if some one already shared a problem then it become good for them too to have some nice suggestions or add some thing more from their point of view. So I think, if some one is sharing a problem, we should give him respect and should answer him in a positive way that s/he can feel better over here. How much I can read about a funny topic or a joke, if internally I am upset and have problem, if some one has problem, he ll not read your topics but ll search for the solution of that problem some where in the site. Be happy and be the reason of happiness in others life...