Is it ok to tell members that we gave them (+)?

Philippines
November 19, 2010 10:30pm CST
Is it ok to tell members that we gave them (+) in a discussion? Like for example I like his/her post and I said, "That is a really nice point and for that I just gave you a (+)! I really think... " like that.
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8 responses
• India
20 Nov 10
does it matter if you give + or not? yes i have given + on many discussions but i still don't know how giving + help anybody.
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• Philippines
20 Nov 10
It gives us "stars"! Don't worry, you will get one soon. I'm giving you a + now since no one answered yet if it is not ok to tell you so.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
20 Nov 10
Not only does it give us our star but it helps our earnings too. The higher our star is then the more we can earn with our posts.
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• India
20 Nov 10
okk thanks for the information. from now i will also give + to every post i will found useful.
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@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
22 Nov 10
It is okay. As of for me I don't bother as I gave lots of +.
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@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
23 Nov 10
Don't cry my baby. I'll give you + as much as you like. But hey, I've been stuck with 87 for months, too. I gained one point, I lost one point.
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• Philippines
22 Nov 10
I don't seem to be getting some of those + from you. I have been stuck in 82/100 for about 2 months now.
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• Philippines
22 Nov 10
I don't seem to be getting some of those + from you. I have been stuck in 82/100 for about 2 months now.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
20 Nov 10
We can tell but we cannot ask others to rate us. Is there any point in telling though? Surely it is just best to rate in the way that myLot advise us without letting others know what we have done? Most of the posts are worth plusses don't you think?
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• Philippines
20 Nov 10
Well, just like this discussion, some newbies don't know about the + and - and if we tell them, I just gave you a + for that post! will make them ask, "what's that for?" and then I will explain what you just explained to us. And then they will start rating + and - in their next discussions. And it will make them a bit happier for knowing. Btw, I just gave you + on all your very helpful infos here. (Doesn't that just made you feel a little better? )
@shibham (16977)
• India
26 Nov 10
Hi.... If you can tell a member that you have given him/her - rating, then okay you can tell. But if you can't tell that then i think it's not suitable to show your kindness. Take care.
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@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
Hi, Damned_dle.:) How are you? I think it is ok to tell your respondent to that you gave him/her (+), though it is not really necessary. That depends upon the flow of your conversation with such person, too. When I feel really close and wanted to show how much I appreciate his/her efforts of sharing his/her ideas, then, I wouldn't hesitate telling him/her that he/she had earned that rating.:) Have a great day, dear.:)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Then, I must say thank you, dear.:) I'm smiling from ear to ear now.See the effects when you tell them you rated them (+).
• Philippines
20 Nov 10
oh! eurekafemme, you know how much I appreciate my friend here in mylot (if you don't know yet, well you should!) and for that, I am giving you a + for this. have a good day friend. and thank you very much for sharing your thoughts on this discussion!
• India
26 Nov 10
I think we should not tell the member that a + was given or a - was given, one can say 'good discussion', 'useful discussion' etc Well i always give a plus to the discussions i respond, if i don't want to respond or don't like it, i just ignore, never give a minus.. HAPPY MYLOTTING Thank you so much for this informative discussion. Professor. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead. God bless you. Welcome always.
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@syoti20 (5293)
• Philippines
25 Nov 10
For me its fine.Nothing personal we are just showing our deep appreciation for exerting good effort in responding one's discussion.
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• Philippines
26 Nov 10
doesn't matter really though sometimes it will boost their self-esteem. lol! seriously, i think what's important is the "substance" of the point of view. after all it's not how you say it, it's how you mean what you say! (: