What is the meaning of discussion

@calpro (930)
India
November 21, 2010 12:35am CST
Hi, My question is what is the meaning of discussion? My understanding to the word "discussion" is to share opinions and views on a particular subject, incident or an issue. (Please do not take my words personally, I do not mean to hurt anybody) I see here few posts without responding to the earlier ones or responding one or two comments and continuously starting up new discussions. When I start a discussion on a particular subject I wait for he people to respond and I answer to their views, not merely starting threads one after one. I think I made a valid point without hurting anybody. Please share your views on this subject and correct me if I am wrong. Thanks in advance, Thank you Calpro
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@marguicha (215960)
• Chile
21 Nov 10
I agree with you. But, as a friend just wrote, many people come here and don´t even bother to read the rules of the site. They do not understand what a social site is, they don´t know what a discussion is either. Maybe they have never discussed a thing with anyone. I´m afraid that lately people are forgetting to socialise. Many people don´t know the difference between talking (to a stone even) and conversind (sharing ideas). It is pityful. Let´s not do it, if we can help it.
@marguicha (215960)
• Chile
21 Nov 10
I am beginning to think that this is generational. In my country speech is something of the past. Youths play all day with their computers, make a language massacre when chatting and don´t even know how to pronounce well. I don´t accept that talk from my grandchildren. I prefer a curse said at the proper time than talking instead of exchanging ideas and feelings.
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@marguicha (215960)
• Chile
21 Nov 10
English is not my native language and I know that I can make many mistakes. But I try to sort out my ideas and write them so they can ba discussed. Many people can´t do that in their native tongue . I see that all the time now even in young people working in TV in my country. One would hope they know how to spek. It is not so.
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@calpro (930)
• India
21 Nov 10
I should really appreciate and thank you for your opinions.Exactly what you felt is what I feel. Dialogue is between two people, monologue is a one person speaking like speech. Person who starts the discussion should look back at the discussion about what is happening.As you said let us not do this to help it
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@Freezole (246)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 10
As far i understand, discussion is act and communication between people such as argument, exchanging reasons, debate, exchanging view, exchanging experience, opinion, advise, decision, conclusion, brainstorming and etc. As long people can talk or response, this is discussion. otherwise, i call it whispering or you talk alone and don't expect any feedback from people. so let discuss anything what you feel, what you think, what you want to say, what you disagree and etc. Happy mylotting!!
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@calpro (930)
• India
21 Nov 10
That is true my question is, why does the person who starts the thread will not look back again to contribute something to the discussion. Happy Mylotting Calpro
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@calpro (930)
• India
22 Nov 10
Fine agreed to some extent
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@Freezole (246)
• Malaysia
21 Nov 10
Sorry for misunderstanding..from my point of view, the discussion in Mylot is a lot, so people tend to find something new and don't have time to look back their post. i suggest to limit the new discussion per day. in other case,someone just read their post after feedback from discussion owner and found no need to reply the comment so the discussion will stop there.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Nov 10
If we just started one discussion at a time we would never make any money on this site. I do think that a person can over do it and get way out of hand with the amount of threads they start. I think a happy medium is the way to go. Overduing anything can cause problems and can be a detrimant.
@calpro (930)
• India
21 Nov 10
Yes I agree that making something out of it is important. But as you said overdoing is what i meant,it is not to overdo just for the sake of doing. Hope you agree with me.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Nov 10
I think sometimes it comes down to both. It is all for communication sake.
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
22 Nov 10
I am glad.
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
21 Nov 10
Hi calpro, I have been on mylot for more than two years now and what have you put in your post has been nagging me constantly as to how many of us really stick to the connotation of the word"discussion"? Not all or not too many. There are people who start a discussion and even if they get more than ten responses they would pick up a few to reply and leave other orphan as if there were nothing in the inputs. This is not discussion. As per rule of mylot even if you are keen earning here you have to comment back or else there is no increase in your balance. Now for get about money since most of us are not here merely for money but to have really fruitful discussions. But unfortunately that is missing most of the time.
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@calpro (930)
• India
21 Nov 10
I should really thank you and marigucha also for lifting my spirits up.It gives me a sigh of relief that there are people who think like me, As you rightly said I think there should be rule like answering posts is also a part of discussion. Thank you for your response and sharing your views.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Hello to you Calpro! This point was brought up by another user here who shares the same opinion with you. And that's my opinion too, when we discuss something we start a topic that is open for all kinds of opinion whether they be negative or positive and we reply if the response to our started discussion is worth replying to. I reply to a response only when it is relevant to my started discussion and if the member has commented something needs to be farther discussed.
@calpro (930)
• India
22 Nov 10
Fine dear, I think my point is simple just keep the discussions healthy and continuing and we learn something out of it. Thanks for your input
• China
21 Nov 10
in my opinion,discussion is one on which everyone express their own opinions,just like you stared this discussion on the meaning of "discussion".we respond to you to express our own opinions
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@celticeagle (159609)
• Boise, Idaho
21 Nov 10
That is what makes the site. If we didn't each of us have an opinion and want it to be heard we wouldn't be here.(Besides the money ofcourse)
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@calpro (930)
• India
21 Nov 10
Dear my opinion is both of them should speak, the person who started the thread as is not speaking again. My point is person who started the thread is not looking back at the current thread and keep on posting new discussions. What I am thinking now is forget about responses and views of others and keep posting new discussions as many as I can Anyway thank you for your contribution. Happy mylotting
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@calpro (930)
• India
21 Nov 10
Thank you xiano. That is what I mean to say without having any opinion,views shared why do they hurry starting as many discussions as possible. Thank you for sharing.
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@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
22 Nov 10
Put it simply, a discussion is about adding your voice to an opinion or point of view. You can support a view point or take the opposing view and as soon as you do that, you will have discussed a subject!
@calpro (930)
• India
22 Nov 10
Thank you for your response.
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
22 Nov 10
Hello calpro, A few years ago, I was introduced to this site as one of the ways to earn money online. I came here with that on my mind. Based on some discussions started, you can earn more if you start more discussions and respond more to others. That s why I guess, many members here start as many discussions as they could. In fact, I started to realize that it is not easy to earn money here. But not long after that, I get addicted to be online so that I can be here,not because of the earnings but just to be able to respond to others and starting new discussions. It is not easy to start a discussion as most of the topics are covered by others. If I don't have anything to share or discuss, I won't simply start a discussion. I prefer to respond to others whenever I have time to do so. Whenever I start a discussion, I hope to hear from others too. Even if just a response, it will make me happier than before. And for me, a discussion means like a two ways communication. If you keep starting discussions and no one reply or you don't even comment on their responses, it is better not to start any discussions at all.
@calpro (930)
• India
22 Nov 10
Right, It should be a two way communication, that is what i mean to say by this post.Thanks for sharing you views. Happy mylotting
@primeaque86 (8105)
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Yes, you are giving such as nice definition and understanding about what is a discussion my friend calpro! That is right, one must post a topic or subject to talk to, once other people are coming in and giving there best thought about a particular matter, then the starter of the topic must comment back, making a healthy thread on every boxes... Lotters also can barge, it is not his or her box, he or she can still add some valuable or interesting idea making the whole conversation alive and kicking! And, you, unknowingly, the cents are pouring in generously to our earnings, that's one of the good secret here! As long as I have the chance, I see to it that I can response or comment back to those Lotters who gave their response to my post... just some exemption when I am at home, and my handset give me trouble in searching for those responses! Very nice topic my friend and have a wonderful day and mylotting!
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
A discussion has no essence if it just left after it was posted in here my friend, but you know, when I am very new here, back around 4 years ago, I also started some topics then just leave it, that was because I didn't have the idea of making it as a thread or healthy discussions, but now, I guess many of us are aware of that!
@calpro (930)
• India
22 Nov 10
Thank you friend for giving you opinion. I really got sick feeling when i saw many discussion are just started for the sake of making a post and not to discuss.That made me start this thread. Thank you for being on my side. Happy Mylotting
@shibham (16977)
• India
30 Nov 10
Hi calpro... You are very true. i have already raised this issue about some mylotters who start discussion rapidly. It annoys me a lot as i am not this type of mylotter. I start a discussion before completing my comments to each responses of my last discussion. then i start the new one, most often i prefer to start a discussion on my experience or problem. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
22 Nov 10
Hi Calpro, Discussion actually is an exchange of ideas among people within the site. It give each one of us freedom to speak out what we have in mind and we may be able to discuss the matter. We are not only sharing but we also come to a point of making a conclusion towards the subject or the topic. I appreciate people discussing my discussions and were able to give solution to it. I love responding to discussions rather than making one, now a days.
@calpro (930)
• India
22 Nov 10
Yeah, Sharing and discussing is speaking back to the person who had put his opinion,like you said I do love to respond to discussion and i want others also to respond to discussion which gives s a good feeling. Thanks for your input.
• Netherlands
21 Nov 10
yeah you are right sometime start some people to much discussions but i also can understand them if ther some question coming up in my head i must make a discussion of it i cant wait then because i want to know what ather people say about it! But I must use the search option more to see if ther already related discussions or blogs!
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@calpro (930)
• India
21 Nov 10
You are right using the search option would be ideal way to know about existing discussions. Thankyou for sharing
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