Free Love
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
United States
November 24, 2010 6:37pm CST
What does free love mean to you? To me it means agape love for every sentient being. It means love without judgment,without rules, without laws, without restrictions, and without bias. It is love that is fully and freely given of one's own will without societal say.
Namaste-Anora
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@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
25 Nov 10
You just gave me big hope on making my relationship work with my man.
Few people understand love that is fully and freely given of one's will without societal say.
Sometimes it is easier for them to say you shouldn't get yourself involved in complicated matters but now i've proven for myself that you will be willing to do anything as long as you know in your heart that what you have is genuine and sincere.
What we have now is bound by judgment, rules, and restrictions (from people around us) which makes it all hard, im almost giving up.
The people involved in this 'free' love has their deep reasons for wanting to be with each other. it's something that is unexplainable but definitely unquestionable.
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@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
25 Nov 10
Remember that aside from you and your man, NOBODY ELSE MATTERS. It doesn't matter what they think, what they say, or what they attempt to do in order to make you feel bad, interfere with your relationship, etc - don't let them. I have seen so many people end up giving up because OTHER PEOPLE insist on being idiots. If you care about your relationship, then give your all to it. Tell the other people to bugger off, it's not their life, it certainly is not their business, and if you have too hard of a time, I'll tell them for you lol.
I look at it this way - when I married my husband, I married my husband. I did not marry his family, he did not marry my family. We ARE each other's family. All we ever take into account is us. That is all that is needed. Thank goodness we have decent accepting (for the most part) extended family and friends - but if we didn't, they'd miss out. It would be THEIR loss, not ours. I do not cater to other people, their issues, or their wants, unless they have shown they would do the same for me.
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@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
25 Nov 10
Nik-
I am so glad I could bring you hope today. May your relationship be blessed for all time.
Namaste-Anora
Mommyboo-
You go girl! I'm so glad you stopped by to also give hope to Nik.
Namaste-Anora
@nikramos (698)
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
mommyboo, you have very brave thoughts and i really hope i get to have that strength to carry on. as we speak, we're really on the brink and it's all up to me to decide if i want out in our relationship or not. given the new hope you and Anora brought me, i think i can give it another shot.
Anora, thanks for the encouragement.i feel relieved having to hear someone wish my relationship to be blessed and to have good luck. means a lot to me now, really.
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
25 Nov 10
Xansus-
Very well said. I do agree that love that is self-serving doesn't always work.
Namaste-Anora
@mommyboo (13174)
• United States
25 Nov 10
Hello Anora 
Love bridges such a wide range of things, so I suppose to me it just means giving love within the boundaries you allow for yourself - wherever you see fit to give it. For instance, love your pets, but don't LOVE your pets, know what I mean? Love your friends, but not necessarily 'friends with benefits'. Be honorable in your dealings and interactions with others, and be genuine.
I do believe that we should ignore any 'societal say' because it's none of anybody else's business as long as all parties are consenting lol.
Love bridges such a wide range of things, so I suppose to me it just means giving love within the boundaries you allow for yourself - wherever you see fit to give it. For instance, love your pets, but don't LOVE your pets, know what I mean? Love your friends, but not necessarily 'friends with benefits'. Be honorable in your dealings and interactions with others, and be genuine.
I do believe that we should ignore any 'societal say' because it's none of anybody else's business as long as all parties are consenting lol.1 person likes this
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
25 Nov 10
Mommyboo-
Thanks so much for stopping by! I agree and you said this so beautifully.
Namaste-Anora
@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
25 Nov 10
Hello my friend Anora_Eldorath Ji,
Well, I think you have defined love with great sincerity. All those qualities if found in one's love will raise to sky-height like famous lovers on this world to be remmebred like Laila & Majanu etc. Thanks. Take care.
May God bless You and have a great time.
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@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
25 Nov 10
Thank you for friend for the beautiful references to Laila and Majanu. I had to ask my husband to tell me the story and he just did. I feel that what I have shared is something we can all enjoy, and all give. Thank you again for stopping by.
Namaste-Anora
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@maygodblessu44 (7336)
• India
27 Nov 10
Hello my friend Anora_Eldorath Ji,
So nice of you for your immediate comments. There are many around the world like Sherie and Fariyad and many more. Thanks. Take care.
May God bless You and have a great time.
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
25 Nov 10
Hushi-
I'm so happy to hear that! I wish you all the best with your boyfriend.
Namaste-Anora
@Professor2010 (20156)
• India
26 Nov 10
Hi Anora
I think the love between married couples is 'free love'
Thats all i can say lol..
Thank you so much.
Professor. . Cheers have a lucky day ahead.
God bless you. Welcome always.
