What kind of "mark" or impression do you want to leave on the earth?

@veromar (1453)
Argentina
November 26, 2010 8:51am CST
Have you thought about it? Is it one of your goals in life? I was just thinking about it because I've got a birthday coming up........another year older and hopefully wiser! lol. But, it got me thinking....What do I want people to say about me after I'm gone? I HOPE they have good things to say........that I'm kind, have a great sense of humor, care about my fellow man, am giving and selfless. I hope I've contributed in some way. In someone's life. Whether it was an act I did or just by being me.....a smile or kind word I gave. I hope people remember me with fondness and smiles. What about you? Is there anything in particular you want to be remembered for? Any kind of impression you hope lasts after you're gone? Do you think the way you live your life will leave that kind of impression?
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
26 Nov 10
Hi veromar! I have no desire to be popular. My only wish is to provide the best education for my children. The values of a good education, as I believe, should put things into perspective. I would love to see them growing up, to be able to think and work hard and have compassion for others and the environment.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
26 Nov 10
To me, it's really not about being "popular". It's about making a difference to somebody. If I help somebody carrying their groceries or help them find something they've lost.......simple things that most people don't think about but mean the world to that person. Education is key, I agree. Compassion too. I think more compassion. Most people are just so caught up in their own worlds that they don't notice the needs or suffering of others. The environment.....well, we can only have so much control over that. How we utilize our own resources, picking up after ourselves, going "green", whatever.....
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
28 Nov 10
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
26 Nov 10
It would be a rewarding fact of life to leave an impression behind. I would want to leave behind something that showed my compassion and creativity. They say that children are our legacy. passing your dreams onto them is a way for your mark to be made.
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
26 Nov 10
Hi Sender. I don't have any children.....yet......but can understand the use of them in that way. Instilling in them certain values or beliefs that could be carried on. Is it the dreams that you want to pass on? Is it things that you never accomplished that you hope they will? What exactly do you hope to pass on THROUGH your children?
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
27 Nov 10
a good impression surely. but i don't know if i can make it. i just have to try. i know that my way of life is not good enough to make a good impression when i am gone. maybe i should change it since now
• Philippines
26 Nov 10
All my life, I always want to make difference on the lives of the people I care for and the people who cares for me. For me, the impression I want to leave on the lives of my loved ones is "once in their life, someone genuinely cares for them holistically." :)
@veromar (1453)
• Argentina
26 Nov 10
That's a noble goal, Chamie. So.......how do you go about making your loved ones feel like "someone genuinely cares for them holistically"? What exactly do you do for people?